So unless you’ve been living under a rock for the past 2 and a half years, you’d know
that this is largely a dating advice channel and I, Based Zeus am the mothafucking God
of dating.
Since this is a dating channel, I get thousands and thousands of messages, comments, and DMs
from you guys asking me every question imaginable about how to get laid.
But lately, I’ve been seeing a common theme among a lot of these questions.
And what it boils down to is this: most guys are WAY too nervous and WAY too shy around
girls.
So today, we’re gonna knock that bullshit out of you, and I’m gonna show you why there
is absolutely no reason to be nervous or shy around girls.
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First, let’s cover the basics:
You need to acknowledge and accept the fact that approaching the girl you like or initiating
conversation with her is probably gonna be awkward and that the first few seconds of
the interaction are gonna be a fucking trainwreck.
Even if you’re a god like me, sometimes the first few seconds in the approach are
awkward and weird, but that should NEVER be an excuse to stop you from talking to a hot
girl.
Just accept the fact that it’s gonna be awkward, decide that you’re not gonna be
a little bitch about it, and just go do it anyways.
Your chances of getting the girl if you don’t approach are ZERO.
But if you do approach and even if it goes terribly, your chances of getting her are
still WAY higher than if you never approached in the first place.
You will NEVER be ready to approach the girl, and the time will almost NEVER be perfect
or “just right.”
So stop creating bullshit excuses because these same bullshit excuses are what’s preventing
you from the results you really want in your dating life.
Now the reason most guys feel nervous when talking to girls is because they all make
the same mistake.
And that mistake is trying to impress the girl.
If you go into an interaction with a girl and you set the vibe that YOU are trying to
impress HER, then you’ve already fucked up.
Your interactions with girls should NEVER be framed as you trying to impress her, you
trying to get her to like you, or you trying to show her how cool you are and how big your
dick is.
The reality is that NONE of that shit actually works at getting you girls.
It actually has the complete OPPOSITE effect.
The reason it doesn’t work is because it puts the girl in charge of the entire interaction
and leaves you at her mercy.
Think of it like this, if a girl or a guy or anyone for that matter, came up to you
and it was obvious by the way they were talking to you that they were trying to impress you
and get them to like you, would you feel any urgency to talk to them?
No of course not.
When you know somebody is already super into you and trying to impress you, you know you
already got them in the bag and you don’t have to put any work in to keep them.
It actually makes that person seem unattractive!
This is why girls don’t respond positively to most guys when approached, it’s because
they get hit on 20 times a day by guys trying to impress them, so when you do the same,
you’re just another number in her head.
You’re no different than all the other thirst-buckets hitting on her.
But the biggest problem with trying to impress a girl you just met is that it doesn’t signal
to her that you’re a guy with abundance, in fact, it signals that you’re a guy with
scarcity.
Side note, I’ve covered abundance in a previous video but here’s a quick recap.
You want to signal to the girl that you have an abundance of hot girls to choose from,
abundance of badass shit in your life, and overall a life that’s awesome and worthy
of having.
This abundance of good shit in your life will show the girl that she’s not the only thing
in your life and that you’re not gonna become some needy overzealous little bitch who’s
constantly gonna seek her approval.
When you create this abundance with a girl, it creates a sense of urgency and scarcity
in her mind because she knows you have a badass life without her, and that if she doesn’t
take her chance to go after you, then she might not get that chance again because she
knows another girl could easily take her place.
This is why going into an interaction with a girl and trying to impress her is detrimental
and counterproductive because it ruins any sign of abundance.
Besides all this pressure you put on yourself to act a certain way to impress her, only
adds to your nervousness and makes you less confident in the interaction.
Instead, you should frame the interaction so that it’s YOU who are deciding whether
or not you like her and she’s the one who has to impress you.
The best thing a man can do to increase the number of hot girls chasing him is to simply
have standards.
This way, when you go into an interaction with a girl, you’re testing and feeling
it out to see if she’s good enough for you and a good fit for you to include her in your
life.
When you go into a conversation with a girl in this way, it changes the entire dynamic
and the girl is forced to try and impress you and get YOU to like HER.
Once the dynamic is setup like this, it makes getting the girl SO much easier and it removes
all the nerves and shyness because you’re not forced to act in a different way, you
just have to be yourself!
You actually shouldn’t be afraid to be yourself when first interacting with a girl, you should
say what you want, do what you want, and be polarizing because if you say something and
she doesn’t like it or is easily triggered by it, then you find out sooner rather than
later, that she’s not the right fit for you, before you wasted too much time and energy
on her.
Holding back your full personality and acting like someone you’re not will just result
in wasted time.
If you’re truly being yourself and not holding back from the start, you WILL make certain
people not like you and that’s totally OK, in fact, it’s encouraged because now you
know from the beginning that certain girls aren’t the right fit for you.
BOOM!
That’s called efficiency bitch!
And that my mortals, is it.
Simple right?
Now you never have a reason to be nervous around girls ever again.
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