[Jeffree Star] and he made up a full full story to try to harm me and I'm like oh don't really
do it this type of stuff that's all this drama is affecting Geoffrey's mental
health and there's a lot of valuable lessons that we can learn from this but
in this video you're gonna meet Chris
but if you stick through to the end I'm going to give you some mental health
what I try to do is take things going on in the community to teach you lessons
that you can learn them to improve your mental health so make sure you subscribe
and bring that notification bell so in this video we're gonna be talking about
why Jeffree star is a magnet for drama all right because I can definitely
relate to this and you might be able to relate to this as well and I'm gonna
give you some advice and it might sound a little harsh if you're a huge jeffree
star fan you might get a little upset with me you know what are these things
when it comes to improving on mental health is this I say this all the time
true friends are the people who tell you what you need to hear not what you want
to hear all right but there's a great chance that Jeffree star
will never see this video so if you can relate to this and what Jeffrey's going
through and all this drama just seems to find you maybe you can learn something
about it so anyways what's going on between
Jeffrey star and Thomas Halbert there's a bunch of other stuff blowing
up right now with like nikkie tutorials and Laura Lee,and Manny MUA I don't even know so much
stuff but like there's so many lessons to learn from this because I used to be
so entrenched in drama and along this is learn how to improve your relationships
so I see a lot of comments I see a lot of tweets and like oh my god Jeffrey's
just he's just always the victim of the storm and he's just always this is
always this you know and like well that might be so much true there's a there's
a lot that Jeffree can do to avoid this drama as well it comes down to
self-awareness and accountability right like for example from my personal
experience everybody woke up in the morning and they're going to screw Chris
over today that's crazy for me to think but why do these things keep happening
to me so this is I'm gonna share a little bit of a story with you I'll try
to make it brief but it helped me realize how I caused a
lot of my own problems so when I got sober you first get a sponsor pretty
much it's just somebody who wine complain and moan too and you know
people do it to me now so anyways when I first got sober I was living in a sober
living house like it's a bunch of people trying to stay clean living under one
roof and there was my house called my sponsor I would just be so mad I'm so so
so bad I come up like can you believe this stuff my roommate snores you know
this guy smells funny this guy's always you know talking the shower somebody's
like stealing my food I was like there's one TV in this house all they do is
watch like porn stars all day and I'm just going off about all this stuff all
these people everything going on in the house
my sponsor would sit there and he would listen to me anyway ask me Chris did you
make any decisions based on self which later placed you in a position to be
hurt look at the full of Mike are you kidding me right now dude because
basically what he's asking me is Chris why are you in a sober living house but
that's not the answer I wanted I want people to hear me complain about all
these these in my sober living house and just called
me and say oh quit you poor thing where people just treat you right but let's
retrace those breadcrumbs why was I in a sober living house well was it because I
you know abuse drugs and alcohol so much I became an addict and I lost everything
for my money to my apartment to my car that's my friendships the trust of my
family members I lost everybody's trust throughout my
addiction I even have a couch to sleep on that's because my mom did not trust
me to be in her house so why was I in that sober living like granted this
doesn't give everybody an excuse to treat me a certain way right it doesn't
give them excuse but why am I in that sober living house because of me so I
kept calling him and he kept reminding me that well I'm here and guess what I
never want to live in a house again so you know what I do to my mom's house now
an amazing relationship but in the beginning it was hard for me to handle
her and deal with her but that took a long time so when I moved in with her I
still had anger and resentment and I would call up my sponsor can you believe
this woman she was a drunk for 20 years of my life and she's trying to boss me
around and tell me what to do she's trying to act like you know a mom now
I'm like 27 year old I was 27 at the time I'm a 27 year old grown man and
she's telling me oh did you brush your teeth did you can you clean this can you
clean back can you walk the dog can you do this and what can you believe this
and my sponsor was sit there and he would listen to me
he let me vent and then you would say Chris did you make any decisions based
on self in the past that put you in the situation that you're currently in
because that's right but why was i living in my mom's house why was I 27
year old grown man living in my mom's house the same thing is why I was in a
sober living I was the reason all right was the reason so what might what he was
helped training my brain to do was to start realizing how I caused a lot of my
own problems and that's what I had to realize when it comes to drama just
happened to find me no way if any of you watch my
video about Jake Paul and Alyssa and faze banks I talked about you know
people going out and partying like when you go out and party it is more likely
that a bunch of drama and dumb stuff is going to happen so I had to realize that
the people I was hanging out with I was not hanging out with the best people
because I was hanging out with shady people shady stuff always happened now I
can't like look at it this way if I go to the zoo and I jump into the Lions pit
and the Lions and the lion beats me is it the Lions fault well I guess kind of
but why was I jumping in the Lions pit so that's what I would want you to think
about so when it comes to Geoffrey like why why does this always happen like I'm
sure you know there are people who are maliciously to get in and things like
that I would I would caution to say that
maybe Geoffrey isn't the best judge of character you know what I mean like I
brought this up with the Shane Dawson series he's very empathetic he
sympathizes with everybody he comes in contact with once he finds that balance
here I think his mental health will improve quite a bit but there's a reason
that these things keep happening to certain people so I want you to kind of
evaluate your life and say am i doing the same thing and keep getting hurt
right so here's another example back when I was single before I was dating my
amazing beautiful girlfriend I love to date crazy women I love to date crazy
with I like women who have like a little bit of a screw loose right I talked
about this in my video I didn't like dating boring women right they were just
boring they had their stuff together like I want a woman who might stab me in
the middle of night or punch me in the face you know like just like I'm feisty
but then I had a type and then crazy stuff would happen I would date a crazy
woman and then crazy stuff would happen like they would wreck my car wreck my
room break my stuff go through my phone and I would sit there and be like why
why can't I just find a good girlfriend well then I would remember Kristi
I make a decision in the past that put me in a position to be hurt you're damn
right I did because my type was dating crazy women
crazy stuff kept happening then I found my beautiful girlfriend Tristan and
she's only like a little crazy she has a quirks I love her but but I hope you got
just trying to understand like this is how I keep my head on straight and for
any of you who have anxiety this is a huge huge huge skill for all of you
it's called developing an internal locus of control it's realizing that you have
a lot a lot of control over the outcomes in your life but the problem is is a lot
of us don't think we do we think that this these just things just happen all
the time
since I became a better judge of character
since I've ever learned is this it's a lot easier for me to change me then it
is for me to try to change everybody else you know what I mean so the last
thing I want to talk about is Jeffery star when he talks about you know him
and Nathan it's a mental health mental health every time he wakes up in the
morning there's more drama right it's like I'm good but it does affect my
mental health it does affect Nate's mental health it does affect my family
when people are constantly lying if the keymaster just waking up and there's
another fabricated fake-ass story it's like can we just breathe and live our
lives without people constantly trying to come for us like so I'm starting to
grow as a as a YouTube channel and I don't
time because I the problem comparing myself to others I'm like I'm only 18
it's not a million right but I'm starting to build and build and build
but like I was saying in my livestream you know like if people start starting
rumors about me and saying lies about me I could give zero F for myself like I do
not care I do not care what people think and like the people watching were like
it's because I'm constantly true to myself I'm true to myself as long as I
am doing the right thing over and over and over and over again I don't I'm
gonna lose subscribers and I don't care like if somebody doesn't doesn't fully
understand who I am as a person like I'll be blunt with you I don't need him
in my life I don't need somebody in my life I have some subscribers on this
channel who are still subscribed and have been subscribed for months who
still question my morals and my personality and guess what I'm letting
you all know right now I sleep like a baby every night and it's nice it's nice
because I just don't care I don't care what this person's opinion is of me
because I know who I am I cannot value other people's opinion
more than I value my own and I wish that Jeffery would learn that I wish that
people like Shane Dawson will learn that and trust me
some days it's easier to do than others but this is something that we constantly
need to work on alright so anyways that's all I got for this video I want
to hear from all of you down in the comments below do you feel that you
attract drama and do you think maybe it's because you keep hanging out with
the same type of person or you can answer this question we're all you like
me where I like to date the bad girl maybe you'd like to date the bad girl or
maybe you like to date the bad boy do you think that maybe that's why your
relationships keep not working out because you have a type that is prone to
have a relationship that doesn't let's talk in the comments down below
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