Lindsay: I really love flirting I think it's super fun and I think it's super
necessary in the beginning of a relationship in the end and anything in
between flirting is the most important part on a scale for one to ten it's
about hundred I feel like I'm floating with the camera now and even if you
think that you sound silly or maybe a little bit cheesy just make a compliment
out of it I mean girls eat that shit up you know we love it so light just
doesn't start you know when you start getting touchy-feely with each other for
play for me I actually personally think starts when you talk to each other when
you're flirting with each other when you're trying to win them over and
seducing that it can be a really crucial pivotal part of you know escalating that
interaction to the next level kind of creates that like good tension like it
creates it can be sexual sort of or it can be really playful and fun try this
move at the right time of course game over taking a piece of her hair unless
she's got super short hair and tucking it behind her ear then basically drawing
your hand down her chin is just so delicate and so intimate honestly it
will melt I see girls I had this one guy who like came up to me at a bar one time
and he was a computer play the movie game he proceeded to explain to me this
fun little game where it's like you just basically go back and forth talking
about like facts from movies and it was such a cool icebreaker and also such a
cool way to flirt
if there's one takeaway from this video I hope it's that you hold eye contact
with a woman that shows that you're confident when you're able to hold that
eye contact that's wouldn't actually take things to
the next level the key thing for us when flirting is to feel like we are the
center of your attention too little it's gonna make you feel awkward like I've
had where guys approach me and they will say something to me and they kind of
look down and they're just like hello hi what are you doing but you know too much
eye contact too is like so creepy right look I approaches me and he can't even
look me in the eyes first thing I think of is he's insecure one thing that women
never want is to be talking to some guy and have him be like oh yeah totally I
do the same thing mm-hmm no person wants to be talking to
somebody like that there's a difference between this this creates this intimacy
between you it creates this tension between you two as well and it shows
that you're actually confident in the fact that you really like us and that
you're not afraid to show that keep the gears just a little bit longer than a
glance and it's really gonna let them know that you're interested and show
that you want to maybe talk to them further it'll let her know that she has
your full attention that you are listening that you are paying attention
because she's gonna know like this guy is only interested in me and I don't
have to do anything extra I can just be myself you should be the look like I
want to take your clothes off right now one tricky you can do is look at her in
the left eye the right eye the mouth and then do it again and pause in between
okay we're so getting married
I think touching is definitely a part of learning but I think there's certain
zones that you should touch and shouldn't touch depending what sort of
signals that you want to send across for me personally it's really hard to build
connection with someone if the person doesn't touch me or I don't judge the
person touching is a huge part of flirting it's super important to
establish that connection mental emotional and physical just read her
body language it's about pacing yourself and making
sure that even if you want to kind of go in for the kill that you've joined so I
wouldn't touch you know this sort of zone or the bottom sort of zone I would
do it someplace on her hands or her arms someplace that doesn't have too much of
a sexual undertones really like a touch on the arm or something like it was
great to meet you like you just like a little like a little touch on the arm or
something or even like the shoulder it's like that like you don't really and that
very first interaction you don't want to go any more than that if I touch a guy's
arm or it touches back or I touch his leg like I am flirting with you
I am definitely trying to get your attention
we seem into you holding our hand it's just the best we totally love it we love
you when you take our hair because it shows that you are becoming almost a
little bit coupling with us even if you're not okay don't go assume that we
want to go and marry you and this and Natalie you have to commit to asking
start touching her and then you just gauge her reaction to your tight if you
touching out upper back it can be a bit like she's a mate sort of thing if
you're touching us in our small about background lower back it's a little bit
more of an intimate area just make sure you throw that hand doesn't go further
down south onto the bulb that's kind of you know pushing the boundaries a little
bit you touch art like you know that our
love like maybe our knee or something like that like don't go too high maybe
you're guiding her to a different part of the room or whatever you want to like
put your hand on the small of her back or something like that I think that's
fine love that when a guy like leads you in somewhere or something like that
that's a really great way to touch and make her feel comfortable without being
like threatening but simply touching and Neil just above the knee and resting
your hand they're not necessarily stroking us is going to make us feel
very feminine and it's going to again make us feel safe in your presence my
favorite way to flirt is I'm super sarcastic so I'll throw in a couple like
cheeky jabs here and there and it keeps things light and playful
guys who can hold an intelligent conversation and be confident in an
intelligent conversation and any guy who can make me laugh like that's my
favorite thing I personally love playful teasing and I laugh sarcastic comments I
love guys for smart asses I normally try to be funny I guess or make a funny
comment on something and just kind of go from there and so I really love anything
that can create like a smiling interaction that's my favorite kind of
flirting guys if your girl is biting her lips indication that she actually does
want to be kissed and she's interested in you and most of time she'll be biting
her lip or licking her lips without even realizing it because it's just kind of
what you do one guy one time you know we were at a friend's birthday party and he
just started like asking me these really weird but like hilarious questions and
started asking me things like if you were a kitchen utensil what would you be
and it was so fun and it was flirty and it was a very natural conversation and
it made me feel so at ease with him because I was able to like feel like I
could be myself and joke around with him if you're going out to a bar or
restaurant or something like that and she orders a glass of wine if she's
stroking that stem again it actually indicates that she is flirting with you
and that she's interested in you it's a good idea to let her speak like so many
guys sit there and they'll be talking about themselves and talking about
themselves and talking with himself and they won't even let a girl get two words
in let her talk is definitely by doing something with my hair and always
exposing some part of my neck if I want to flirt with my men I like to expose
that part and I to bring attention to that part okay
where is just simply running my hand through it and drawing it down and I do
slow sort of sensual movements and I love when a guy just like does like this
like it's just like not like up in my face necessarily but just like does like
that and it just music oh that was so cute Thanks
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