- So you want to spot an alpha male
or maybe you're dating someone
and you are not aware is your guy alpha or not?
In this video, I will share with you five characteristics
of an alpha male.
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Hello, my name is Greta Bereisaite.
I'm a dating and relationship coach for women.
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and just before I share with you the five characteristics
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Because an alpha male will be looking
for a high value woman.
So without further ado, let's start.
The first characteristic of an alpha male
is he takes the lead.
A true alpha male is a take charge kind of guy.
He has a life filled with ambition and purpose.
He carries himself with confidence, not arrogance.
He likes to take charge of his relationships such
as taking you out, courting you properly,
looking for that restaurant, picking you up, and so on.
He is not the flaky type of guy who depends on the moment
to take him out or the flaky employee who blames his boss
for his own unhappiness at work.
An alpha male takes responsibility for his life
and goes after what he wants.
Now ladies, it's really important
because like attracts like.
An alpha man who takes the lead will also want a woman
with similar values towards her purpose in life.
A high value woman.
Therefore ladies, please check out my video right here,
what is a woman of high value?
The second characteristic of an alpha male is he wants
to inspire you.
If you find your guy's wanting to help you reach your goals
and your dreams instead of being jealous
about them or feeling insecure,
you have found yourself a confident alpha male.
He wants to keep you as inspired as he is about his goals.
He understands what value it brings to both of your life.
When you combine a high value man with your life purpose,
this is what you call a true blessing.
This is the guy who will continue to pat you on the back
and tell you how proud he is on your continued success
and to keep going for it 'cause he knows that
by inspiring you, you continue being fulfilled just
as he is fulfilled with his goals and dreams.
When a man and a woman are both fulfilled
with their passions, this is when the couple lives
their best life together as it's not up to a man
to make you happy.
The third characteristic is he's nonreactive
or he controls his emotions, but what does this mean?
It means your guy doesn't depend on outside circumstances
to affect his mood.
He handles things in a cool, calm, and collected manner.
He is in control of his life
and he takes full responsibility for it.
If your guy asks you out at the last minute
and you already made plans or he asks you out
for something inappropriate, tests you, and you said no,
he will be understanding instead
of giving you the silent treatment or a man tantrum.
Another example could be if his boss said he had no choice
but to work a few more hours that evening,
he doesn't freak out and goes around banging stuff at work
and starts gossiping around the office about his boss.
He is very aware that the higher-paying job he applied
for was very demanding and extra hours was to be expected.
So he accepts it and continues working
as this will bring him closer to his goals.
The fourth one, and it's one of my favorite ones,
the alpha man is the man of his word.
Whenever it is your date on Friday night,
your children's activity, or being on time for work,
around him you will feel safe and protected.
He follows through with his promises and intentions.
Then he finds his match, that is a high value woman,
for example, he will commit to her and stay long-term.
Here comes the fifth one, and I see this a lot
with many guys nowadays.
So many girls come with complaints
about this fifth characteristic in men.
So let me share it with you.
A real alpha man will never post a lot of selfies
or any of his rewards on social media.
He doesn't need that validation.
He's comfortable in his skin, confident, and very busy.
He respects his privacy and doesn't need the whole world
to know what he is up to in order
to fulfill himself in life.
When he was found his high value woman,
he is into her and their lives and doesn't need
to have extra girls texting him
or complimenting his pictures to know he has value.
He is not afraid to seek advice from others.
However, he trusts himself and is not easily influenced
by other guys, especially beta males.
Now ladies, keep it in mind if you want an alpha male,
you have to be a high value woman because like attracts like
and the best way for him to see are you a woman
of high value is to test you.
So he might test you with some games first
to see do you take responsibility for yourself?
Do you lose emotional control?
Do you stick to your goals?
And how men test women, I have a free video
for you to watch right here.
I also have a games package along with how
to stay attractive via text, how to control your emotions,
and how to get your ex back videos that I have for sale
and I will put a link to those
in my video description box below.
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Kisses from Manchester.