picking up women and why you're still not approaching women
now in this great video i'm going to address the question
that many of us half i think a specially when people start to get interested in
how to attract women how to approach women they want to do something on the
world on something
they tend to hate this block
they hit this problem and that's what this questions about so
if you perceiving that you know you could do a lot better you are learning a
lot but you're not really
doing i cannot be the dating the results that you wanted them
uh... watch this video to the end okay because that's the kind of question i'm
going to address ok so here's the question pay stefan of whether waistcoat
stock
that's the headline
he steps on first off i just was a price for the hopeful videos and feedback i've
read many books and what's many videos on picking up goes for less than a year
now
around the year
i've got started in this year because i'm kind of my first one nineties and
class and failed to make a move
it has been a while now but i still can't seem to find a conference or
motivation to approach women
when i see a girl who is beautiful i don't even think about the protein have
when first starting off approaching women is this reaction all
is it supposed to feel most impossible like
how do i cultivate them
uh... confident mindset
if you've been
taking information for the last year
and you have not
actually used any of it
you'll will be no i'll be freaking out more than before
on wouldn't be surprised that was the case
because he is the crucial thing that happens when you take in a lot of
information
but you do not actually try it out to dinner actually
you know they use it you do not actually put practice
then you're just going to get more and more
altered
you going to get more can more options
and here's a quick question okay
if you only had one option
like if there was only one way in the world
that people would say that this is how you must approach a woman okay
and that will be to say hi how are you
would be easier for you or not
of course will be easier for you
you would know exactly how to do it right
there's only one option hi how are you just the way to start a conversation
with a girl like ok brilliant
so benoit options you have emotions you have in your mind and if you pick up
some information from one guy and then you pick up some from the other and then
you pick up from from that and then you pick up from that
you're getting all the different ways of little things that some people may do
and this person they say oh you should never
say hike to a girl you should always fight contexts column the background
and then the other one will say oh no you should always just said i did not
scholar in the background
or whether correct
so you know you get so many options you get more more countries because you're
not actually doing anything
the crucial step with anything with learning anything new his practice
and then when you
first understand something about eight p right
then you practices in situations and then you noticed all this works for loom
this doesn't work for me yet maybe i'll try it again otherwise i just got it
because
it may have to be able to afford may not be working for me
but practices the crucial element of this
if you don't practice if you don't you stop if u any intellectually
understand things
have you would just get more more options and that you would have
more and more things going on your mind which as you know from other videos is
not always helpful thing
especially when it comes to the uh...
the whole idea of
had you know effortlessly ceiling starting a conversation with a girl
being
file in the social environment
creating attraction though that
if you're starting to think hard in these situations it's already gone mckay
the whole things would be lost
okay so crucial thing you is uh... of forty two
overloading yourself with information
don't get overwhelmed with all these different peoples
sudden step process is to whatever it is ok
not some people
some people and telling him
that complicate things on purpose
in order to be able to sell you v
you know the twenty five steps to whatever dates okay
uh...
you know they know that no more complicated they make things appear
no more money you might be willing to spend
on getting the solution
to the problem okay
i know
that you could approach the woman right now
i could point out
the hottest god in the club to you
and pi could make you approach up
you could do it
all i would need to do is give you a call for motivation
now proper motivation might be either
i threatened to shoot you could approach a
all it might be to be out of five thousand dollars or uh... even who dies
with refresh all days
depends on desperately offer money
if i give you five hundred dollars i say price after all if you start a
conversation with i don't care if you're successful not book
just article decision without hands from talked up one minute
and i'll give you five minutes or so over a thousand dollars
would you do it of course you would be u_n_ need a motivation
company guns here tonight so you know like feed on the christian coalition q
and you knew i could get away with my productive in court
of course you work if i was like a winner
county
but if i convince you that i would of course you were right
so does your motivation
clearly at the moment you are more motivated the way from pain like you're
trying to avoid
at rather than
getting more pleasure
used by the way that you know maybe you should think about you know wat in
thirty years
what the risk i have right now is that i'm going to be lonely for the rest of
my life
maybe that's what you need to put this on you know however where you need to at
finger puppet
motivate yourself to heartache
that step
so that you take action
at what i would strongly recommend is no matter what you learn now
i would reduce the amount of information you takin
and focus more on doing things for pay
now i'm sure you've learned enough information to have a go at some
something okay so start small i have a bigger that score three steps to
learning any such as gold maybe that please
for that with the social
skill formula or something like that but they have to have gotten to mums amount
of videos
one you choose their you can go to my challenge check about it gives you the
three-step
the three steps to learning and practicing any social skill and really
embedding a plot of the disintegration of advocate checked out
now the other thing i want to let you know okay
the approaches will proably pretty will go through everything
yeah has helped more than those of cars
hundreds and hundreds of guys
to get great comedian women
without pickup lines without scripts without
clouding your mind with more stuff okay
in fact and just breaking it down for you so that when you actually
use the stuff that's in the book
uh... it will be less sympathy ok because you have the mindset building
from the inside out
animals to giving you some simple tools that you could use
to actually get rid of much of you think
uh... so you can check that out but they just get it because you want to stop
most often yet ok that's not what it's for
costing a lot of programs and to join these record because it will help you
uh... i help you to condition yourself away from all his intellectualizing
i tend to be somebody replies to break things down and use normal language
language that anybody has an experience of rubber and starting a whole new cult
uh... because to be honest it's essential to do that these days because
there's so much
culture scrap out there
people get more more confused ok tonight effect if there's anything i'm trying to
do this
i'm trying to help people to get clarity marvin more confusion
okay so at this kind of help you to some degree and i was a bit harsh probably
put uh...
i think i'm coming from the right place for agreement that's noticeable
so take action of everything
anything that you find interesting
use it
otherwise don't take in any new information if you just taking on new
information
here you're just gonna get more more tuned for more options you have in your
head
uh... them all you won't go to struggle to do something simple
and the more you know vacillate and think about whom should you should be ok
so uh... make sure you keep it simple and take action all the time
please let me know your questions icon on some old dog new that says something
that's short and that is uh...
useful for everybody else to here as well and i will make a video about it
i speak to you very soon take care of yourselves