Gentlemen welcome to another episode of Mantelligence.
Today, I'm with Kaye and Larry to help you with another dating woe-
how to talk to women.
I feel you.
It's not always easy talking to the ladies, but we're here to help.
In today's video, we're not just helping you talk to women.
We're also giving tips and tricks to make them want you.
Shout out to "Marni Your Personal Wing Girl" for inspiring this video.
At the end of this video, we're also teaching you how to spot all the
signs she's interested, so you'll have all the help you need to win
the girl.
Ready?
Let's begin.
5.
Ask a Favor Here's a secret to approaching girls- ask
them for a favor.
If you want to know how to talk to women and make them want you,
the trick is to get them to invest in you.
How do you do that, you might ask?
Ever heard of the Benjamin Franklin effect?
It's a psychological phenomenon used by business leaders and politicians
as a manipulative sales and networking strategy.
Luckily for you, it’s even proven to help your love life.
The idea is simple: Ask a person to do a favor for you, and in
return, you'll find that they'll like you even more
than they would if you had done a favor for them.
Nothing will ever happen to your love life if you stay on the sidelines and just wait
for signs a girl wants you to approach her.
The best way to talk to women and break the ice is to make a request.
Say you're at a coffee shop and see this really cute girl.
Instead of putting yourself out too early, ask her if she can watch your stuff
for a minute while you get a coffee.
You can even take inspiration from the things she likes.
Say your crush loves to read, is really into music, or has a knack for the
arts.
You can ask her to recommend a book, a song, or teach you how to paint.
You don't even have to be interested in these kinds of stuff in the first place.
You just have to find little incognito ways to talk to her, and any small request will
do the trick.
As Benjamin Franklin would put it, "He that has once done you a kindness will
be more ready to do you another than he whom you yourself have obliged."
Don't know when to approach a woman?
Watch this video where we reveal all the signs she wants you to approach her.
4. Make a Statement Here's another trick to talk to women and
break the ice- make a statement.
If you want to know how to talk to a girl you like without making a fool out of yourself,
this is the way to go.
It's as simple as thinking out loud and expressing your opinion
without expecting a response from the other person.
Making a statement works because it creates an open invitation to chat but protects you
from being rejected.
If she's interested, the girl will look at you and continue the
conversation.
If not, then you really didn't risk anything.
It could be as simple as "What a nice day!"- pair that with a warm smile, and if you're
in luck and she's having a good day herself, she'll smile back and respond.
Of course, when that happens, you have to keep the conversation going.
Here's another example.
Say you're at a bar and come across a lovely woman.
You can say, “The bartender here makes the best Amaretto
Sour!".
If that catches her attention, great.
You could follow up by offering to buy her a drink
or asking her questions like, "do you come here often?"
If she's not into amaretto sour, you could recommend another concoction she
might like.
That way, you’re building rapport and flirting at the same time.
Two birds, one stone, right?
Have you ever been in a situation where a girl is totally eyeing you, and you want to
talk to her, but you don't know how to approach a
girl?
Check out this video where we share tips about what to do when a girl looks at you.
3.
Get Into Details Notice how other girls compliment each other's
hair, make-up, shoes, and clothes?
And notice how happy they get every time that happens?
And how easily that simple gesture starts a conversation?
Gentlemen, it's all in the details.
If you want to know how to talk to women, you got to pay attention.
Being able to notice and acknowledge the little things,
especially if it's something sentimental to them or something they put time and effort
into, isn't only a nice gesture.
It also shows that you're an attentive man.
In fact, In one speed-dating experiment, researchers found out that women
were more attracted to men who were mindful, present, and attentive.
If you always find yourself dumbfounded whenever you try to talk to your crush,
instead of racking your brain for the best questions to ask a girl you like,
just take inspiration from her OOTD.
Perhaps she's wearing a shirt with a Lakers logo on it or a band logo.
You can say "cool shirt" and follow up with an inquiry or a statement like
"are you a Laker's fan? or "I love the Beatles.
I'm guessing you do too?"
Or you could make up an alibi.
"Nice shoes.
My sister's birthday is coming up, and I still don't have a gift for her.
Where did you get that?"
Or you keep it sweet and flirty, "You look really pretty in that dress."
or "Are you wearing a new perfume?"
Easy right?
Can't figure out how to talk to your crush?
Watch this video where we teach you how to talk to girls and share some
of the best questions to ask a girl you like.
I hope you're enjoying today's video because we have two more tricks up our sleeves.
Before we continue, I just want to remind you that by the end of this video, we will
also be revealing all the signs a girl's interested
because knowing how to tell if she wants to be approached
is as important as knowing how to approach women and make
them want you.
If you want to know how to get a girlfriend, stay tuned.
2.
Bring Up Pop Culture What's the most convenient way to talk to
women?
Bring up pop culture.
Seriously.
It's all the rage right now.
And this is probably the best trick to kick things off
or find common ground with the girl you like.
Ask her about what she's currently watching on Netflix, ask her opinion about a
controversial ending of a series, ask for a song recommendation, or get to know her
favorite artists.
All are safe bets.
Just keep it light-hearted and remember to always respect
her opinion.
Asking about this stuff does more than just break the ice.
By learning what she's currently into, you also get an idea about her personality,
character, hobbies, interests, stance on certain topics, and what kind of dates to plan for
her.
Most importantly, you get to find out if you're on the same wavelength.
1.
Insert Humor I get it.
Talking to a girl you like is no piece of cake and can be pretty nerve-racking.
But you know what would help?
Humor.
According to Dawn Maslar, author of "Men Chase, Women Choose: The Neuroscience
of Meeting, Dating, Losing Your Mind, and Finding True Love,"
jokes work well because they are disarming and work on a biological level.
If a woman laughs at a man's joke, he feels assured that she has a level of comfort
with him.
For her, laughing releases oxytocin, the 'bonding hormone.'
These two things together create an opening for more conversation.
If you're anxious about your first date, adding humor in your conversation is the best way
to approach anxiety.
even if it's a goofy pick-up line or a cheesy joke,
it'll still work.
Just like how Marilyn Monroe would put it, "If you can make a girl laugh, you can make
her do anything."
Now that you know how to talk to women and make them want you,
it's time you find out how to tell if she wants to be approached.
First, watch out for her body language.
If every time you're around, she turns her body
towards you, makes eye contact, and starts preening whenever you look at her, that’s
a telltale sign she wants you to notice her.
Second, a girl who likes you will make the proximity between you and her
shorter.
That means that she’ll try to get closer to you as much as possible- she’ll either
switch seats with a friend, stay in your line of
sight, or simply hang out on your side of the bar.
Lastly, she’ll acknowledge the little details about you.
I mean, why would anyone pay any attention that you part your hair on the left
or notice if you're wearing a different perfume if they aren't interested in you, right?
How about you?
How do you talk to women?
How do you make them want you?
We want to hear from you.
Share your thoughts in the comment section below.
And that is it for today's episode.
Now you can talk to women without any fuss.
Remember, when it comes to attracting the ladies, confidence
and great body language is key.