But sometimes they do these sneaky nasty things and
you don't even see them coming.
So in this video, I'm gonna tell you
what their sneakiest nasty things are
so that you will know what they are,
before you see them coming and
reveal what 7 of them are by the end of this video,
so you can smack them down and see them coming.
I'm gonna give you 7 of them,
you definitely wanna watch all the way till the end,
so you will know what all of them are.
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so let's go through all 7 of them.
They think that something's gonna happen,
they think that you're doing something sneaky,
so they go and cheat on you ahead of time.
They think that maybe you're losing interest,
they think that something's happened,
so they go and cheat on you ahead of time and
then they justify it.
What’s even worse is, that they justify it by,
“Hey, you were losing interest”,
“You didn't pay enough attention to me”,
they actually go and blame it on you,
they say, “Oh, it was a foregone conclusion”,
“You weren't behaving in a certain way”.
They perceive real or imagined there was some vibe going on,
so they start grooming a new source of supply and
then they even go and do this preemptive cheat and
have this new supply lined up
because that way when this whatever happens,
they've got somebody else already lined up.
Super nasty, really horrible, but that's what they do.
So that's one of their nastiest methods.
You think you're getting this unbelievable soulmate and
it ends up being doctor Jekyll and mister Hyde.
This is even whether it's business partner or a romantic partner.
I was in a business partnership with somebody
who turned out to be the worst possible thing.
They know how to mirror you and
become exactly what it is you think you want and
turn on the charm, the charisma, and everything else.
So, honestly, that's a nasty method.
It's just completely lying to lure you in and
then turn into your nightmare.
So, that's nasty method number two.
Just to keep their options open.
This is not the preemptive cheat,
but it's just constantly grooming other sources of supply,
while you're still around to have options open just in case.
It's sort of like having jars of jam in the cellar,
or jars of extra cans of food around just in case,
it's like that hurricane preparation,
just to keep their options open.
Super nasty, really horrible, but that's what they do.
They're just never on your side or anything ever, ever.
I mean, you just never have their support,
there's no refuge with them.
Whatever it is,
even if you're talking about somebody you know they can't stand,
you think for sure they're gonna be on your side about this one,
no, they take that other person's side,
because they're never on your side or anything ever.
They just never support you,
constantly playing devil's advocate against you.
So that's just a nasty method as well and
let me tell you, I'm just gonna say.
You definitely deserve better, believe me,
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First of all, you're always handling all their stuff,
you're always taking care of their stuff,
but then when you ask them to do anything for you,
it's never reciprocal, never reciprocal.
They're too busy for you all the time.
Then when you ask them to do something,
it's like, well, you better wanna give them
something like a hundred fold back.
It's like, maybe... Let me see, hold on, one second…
They have their gym schedule,
they have something else much more important
than handling anything for you.
At that moment, it's gotta be optional for sure,
because otherwise they're definitely too busy for you.
I mean, they're too busy for you,
but you have to do everything for them all the time.
You just end up feeling drained,
because they're totally parasites.
I mean, you do a hundred things for them,
by the way, no acknowledgment for it,
that's just the payment you get for being in their space.
Forget any kind of thank you,
because if you ask them for a thank you,
it's like, yeah, okay.
Then if you want acknowledgment,
then they're gonna be angry for it,
then you're the narcissist or whatever,
you just have to do whatever you're supposed to do,
just to be in their space.
So you basically work for them.
So, that's nasty behavior number six.
Because they’re constantly making crazy decisions, crazy things,
constantly doing things
where you just have to do everything for them and
clean up their messes,
whether it's a bad financial decision,
maybe they're switching jobs,
or something with their family or whatever,
but you're constantly having to take care of them.
If it's something where you're the business partner or whatever,
they didn't show up for something they were supposed do,
they didn't collect receivables when they were supposed to,
so you end up handling everything.
They were supposed to do the team meeting,
so you end up handling that.
That's what ends up happening
when it comes to narcissists because,
they're kind of inherently lazy.
So you end up soon cleaning up, being their janitor.
So, if you guys have seen any of these things,
let me know in the comments, I would love to know.
These are the narcissist’s nastiest methods.
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