hi everyone I'm Adrienne Everheart you're dating and relationship coach and
in this video I'm going to tell you my number one technique or tip to really
make a man fall wildly in love with you so stick around I can't wait to share
this with you so this tip I want to share with you it is the most important
thing I stress with all my clients all my coaching clients and in all my
programs is that a man has to miss you now before you think this is just so
simple and it's so easier said than done I want you to just pay attention to some
of the feminine energy techniques I'm going to share with you about a man
missing you what this means it doesn't mean something manipulative or you're
trying to have a specific outcome. it's a really healthy feminine energy
techniques that will just make a man miss you in a very natural way. so again
I can't stress this enough a man must miss you! this doesn't matter if you're
married, you're dating, you're in a new relationship, you're trying to figure out
if this guy loves you or not... if he's gonna stick around he has to miss you!
so how do you get a guy to miss you? well chances are you probably already miss
him and you kind of can't stay away and you're doing something called "leaning in"
or leaning forward which means you're texting him because you're thinking of
him, you're sending him really long blocks of text, you're calling him, you're
making yourself super available to hang out with him... and that's if you're just
dating or you're kind of in a new relationship... but even for women who are
married you may actually be checking up on your husband all the time following
up with him, managing him, micromanaging him, and so the man just really doesn't
have an opportunity to miss you! and he really has to miss you! He has to feel your
absence isn't there. Now one of the components of a man missing us is when
they're in masculine energy when they're activated into their masculine energy is
that he's going to be curious about you... And I want to care
for you... claim you... protect you kind of way! so when he's in that place of "he's
curious" he doesn't exactly know where you're at...?
he wants to make sure you're okay and he's thinking about you... he can't do that
if you're always available for him! so it's not that I want you to have some
sort of fake reasons that you can't see him or hang out with him - quite the
opposite. one of the things I teach you how to do
is have a rich full juicy life. now you might say, "but Adrienne I've always met
him at the door right when he gets off work and I always have dinner made and
on the table by 7:00 p.m. and this is what I've always done .." I want you to
switch it up I want you to switch up what you're doing. I want him to come
home and he doesn't know where you are in the house
I want him to find you taking a bubble bath or find you in your bedroom sewing
or organizing your closet or whatever it is you want to do. if he always expects
dinner on the table by 7:00 that's what you always do let him know say oh honey
there's a yoga class I want to take and so I hope you'll be ok with dinner and
much love! if you even have to say that in advance... which I encourage you do
because if he's gotten used to dinner at 7:00 you don't want to just suddenly
abruptly stop doing what you're doing that will cause an argument. but let him
know like there's a class I really want to take and I hope you'll be ok with
dinner you don't want to say here's what you need to eat here's what I've laid it
out I've already precooked it that would be your doing for him and you're
everywhere in his life so a man has to have that sense of freedom that sense of
freedom that he's free even if he's married even if you want him in a
relationship and want him committed he has to always feel free so a lot of
times I talk about how men are out in that world that masculine energy world
where they're constantly competing with other men and there's only one alpha so
you may even find with a man that you know he has a boss and even if he
doesn't have a boss he has a manager or even if he's self-employed he has to
work with other people and has to be this energy exchange in this
understanding with men of who's in charge so someone is in charge! someone
is more powerful! and when a man comes home at the end of the day to be with
his wife or his girlfriend he doesn't want that same power struggle going on
at home! but so often what are we doing at work
women can be you know very soft-spoken and a little more laid-back a little
more easy to get along with and then they come home and they're managing
everybody they're managing the kids and you're exhausted. so I want you to really
learn how to pull back lean back get your energy off of him so he can miss
you stop texting so much stop being super duper available because you have
your own rich wonderful juicy life going on... begin to really show up in his life
instead of a place of I need you to do all these things for me and instead have an energy
of just "I'm here I'm present with you and this feels so wonderful"
instead of agenda agenda agenda! now my last thing I want to leave you with as
far as making a man miss you is that he really has to feel his life is better by
having you in it. this goes for commitment keeping a marriage strong and
healthy he has to feel his life is so much better by having you wonderful
beautiful you in his life so there are so many things you can do to make that
man feel confident he's the masculine energy in the relationship and at home
but also having your boundaries where you know really what you need so a lot
of times you're not getting enough tension enough calls texts and cuddles
and things like this and we lean forward again the best way to turn this around
is actually by leaning back letting that man miss you letting there be some time
and some space don't worry he's not gonna suddenly feel like you don't love
him and if he does for a quick hot minute he'll come to you and say well
you know I feel like love me anymore and you say "oh my
goodness" and this is where I want you to use this phrase "I feel so... whatever it is...
when we're together" so that's a big difference from I feel so great with YOU
YOU make me feel so wonderful when YOU'RE around me I feel so happy. Instead
it's going be "I feel so warm and protected when we're together" oh I feel
like a little princess when I'm in your company, oh I feel like all the other
girls are looking at me and they're jealous when we are together, oh I feel
like I'm just on top of the world when we are together! whatever it is make it
about how YOU feel not feeding his ego! so I hope these tips on how to make a
man fall in love with you, you understand he has to miss you he has to miss you he
has to fill his life is better for having you in it and as long as you're
always there as long as you're feeling like a manager or a burden to him or
someone who's over him he's not gonna have these warm feelings of wanting to
protect and provide for you and be very curious about your well-being this is
where you want a man's heart to be this is about masculine energy and your
feminine energy your soft feminine energy is what captivates a man and
pulls him to you now if you want to learn more scripts like the one I shared
in this video you can actually check out my ebook it's called "500 ways to talk to
a man" it's an instant download you can begin reading immediately! I also have
FEMM TOOLS which is for dating and one also for marriage and relationships, and
I just give you more insight about how to be in your wonderful alluring soft
feminine energy!!! thank you so much for tuning in and I'll talk to you soon mom
bye bye MUAH!