In this video, you will learn the 10 signs that a guy likes you and wants more than a
friendship with you, even if they haven’t yet told you….
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OK… on to the 10 signs to look for
So you recently met a new person at work or at school… you like them and you’re attracted
to them, but you aren’t sure if they also like you that way, or if they just want to
be your friend.
Obviously it’s not always easy to come out and ask them…
That’s why having some helpful hints and being confident in knowing that he likes you
is super important before having the "I have feelings for you" conversation.
The good news is that When we are physically attracted to another person, our body language
does a fairly good job of conveying that message, even before we are aware of it.
These body language clues are universal….and many of these clues are physiological reactions,
meaning they aren’t things that we have control over… and they cant be faked.
So even though they haven’t come out and told you directly, if you see these signs,
you can be confident that a guy is attracted to you and wants to be more than just friends.
so, the first one is
1.
Strong and sustained eye contact.
Ok so the first one is obvious, right?
Eye Contact…
When a person is interested and attracted to you, they look at you.. a lot… and it’s
not the same look that you give your dog… it’s sustained eye contact… they give
you those smiling eyes… with their pupils dilated.
When we are attracted to someone, our pupils dilate and it becomes obvious….. and if
you glance away and then back and he’s still looking at your eyes… yeah.. he digs you.
And not just your eyes… if he glances at your mouth… at your lips… he likes you
big time.
2 Men deepen their voices when speaking to women they are attracted to.
Ok so this might be a new one for some of you, but it’s been well researched.
Here’s one example.
In a 2010 study at Albright College in Pennsylvania, male and female study participants were asked
to record messages to be played for fictional recipients.
Researchers showed these participants photos of people they were asked to message.
And the more attractive the male participants rated the female recipients, the more likely
they were to deepen their voices when recording the message.
So what does that mean… when guys are attracted to someone, they unknowingly deepen their
voices when speaking to them.
This may be a means of demonstrating attraction towards opposite sex targets.
So yes... if you notice that your friend deepens his voice... particularly when talking to
you...
that’s a very strong indication that he likes you.
3.His Palms are Sweaty Sweating palms is a classic physiological
response to attraction.
That’s because The brain releases specific neurotransmitters whenever we're around a
love interest.
This brain cocktail produces feelings of excitement, racing heart, breathlessness and moist hands.
Norepinephrine in particular is responsible for rousing our sweat glands into action,
and since our palms have upt to 3,000 miniscule sweat glands per square inch, they can quickly
become a telltale signal of sexual interest.
So if you find his hands sweating… or if you suddenly notice him sweating in an otherwise
cool location… yep.. he likes you… a lot.
4.
He licks his lips or presses them together.. see when you’re attracted to someone, your
mouth produces extra saliva….
Hmm..
I wonder why that might be?
So yeah.. if he’s doing some normal, Not creepy licking of the lips or biting his lips
when he’s around you..
yeah.. he’s interested..
5.
He STANDING STRAIGHTER around you.
The term ‘peacocking’ has been used to describe the ways that men make a display
of their attraction to someone.
This is a showy behavior that is designed to attract your attention.
They are literally saying “look at me” with their behavior.
So, if a man stands up straight, inhales deeply to puff out his chest, positions his feet
and shoulders evenly, he is trying to show you that he has a strong and fit body.. he’s
trying to appear attractive to you….
And from an evolutionary perspective, a strong fit body is presumed to be more fertile.
So, for example, He was slouching until you showed up, then he sat up straight or stood
a little taller when you came around.
He probably pushed his chest out a bit and sucked in his gut too.
These posture adjustments are done to look more attractive to you.
They are a definite sign that he’s attracted to you.
BTW… the number one clue that I notice when I’m attracted to someone…
I can feel my pupils dilate and it generally happens when I’m looking at another persons
eyes….. so, that’s my dead give away.. what about you… is there a particular thing
that you do when you like someone… maybe its something that your friends have pointed
out.. something you do whenever you’re crushing on someone..
I’d love to hear about it… so leave a comment below and lets share.
6.
GROOMING When he straightens his tie, smooths or strokes
his hair, or buttons his coat when you appear, it’s a good sign that he is attracted to
you.
He won’t be petting his hair, of course, but he will lightly run his fingers through
his hair.
But be careful when interpreting what grooming of the hair indicates.
Yes, it can indicate that is attracted to you, but it can also indicate unease and anxiety.
That’s why it’s important to use this clue in tandem with other signs to get a clearer
understanding of what to do next.
Getting this one wrong really can have disastrous results.
7.
He leans in or maintains closer than average personal space.
His posture is open and his feet and pelvis are pointed towards you.
When he’s leaning in (getting closer… he’s letting you know he wants to hear you….
Then, does he retreat, or does he stay closer?
8.
He Smiles at you a lot…
Real smiles… happy smiles..
He smiles above the mouth.
Real smiles extend well beyond the mouth: They lift the forehead and give you slightly
squinty eyes.
If his smile involves his whole face, it means you're genuinely affecting him in a good way.
9.
He mirrors your gestures… and copies you.
A very good subconscious sign to look for is if he’s mirroring your actions back at
you… and he won’t even know he’s doing it.
If you make a gesture, like touching or smoothing your hair then notice he makes the same gesture
soon after, it means he’s probably interested in you.
A great way to let him know you’re interested too (subtly) is to copy his actions as well!
Touch your face after he touches his, smooth your hair when he smooths his, and so on.
10 Body Contact and Touching Another behavior that shows interest and attraction
is touch.
When someone is attracted to you, they will likely find some excuse to touch you more,
and be more receptive to your touch as well.
They may even increase their touching over time, going from friendly handshakes to greeting
and parting with hugs.
Or Maybe they'll try to get you to play a game that involves touching hands or something
silly.
Another form of touching is preening.
Not peeing...
I said preening.
That’s Picking lint off of another person’s clothing or straightening a crooked tie..
preening also indicates that the person likes you.
Here’s something you can try.
if he’s not touching you… or bumping into you, you can try casually touching him and
gauge his response.
If you casually touch another person and they abruptly pull away, yeah… that’s not a
good sign.
So, Are there also clues that a person is in love with you but hasn’t yet said those
three magic words?
Click on this video to find out the signs that a man loves you..
So there you have it 10 signs that a person is attracted to you.
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