struggles every infj goes through infjs actually have a good sense of intuition and a powerful
inner self despite their quality of being empathic and soft-spoken it can still be a bit difficult to
understand this personality type there are some of those struggles that every infj goes through
in our video today we're going to let you know about the six struggles that
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one feel worthless do you feel worthless and meaningless when you fail to make someone happy
this feeling of getting worthless is actually what hits differently after spending moments with the
people infj feels like their prices revolve around their happiness there's no main reason but mainly
because infjs take it as their responsibility for leaving a good mark on any person's life
especially if the person is the love of your life infjs sacrifice their comforts and
interest just to lead the way to their favorite person if the person next to you doesn't reply
to you with something really good or doesn't praise you for what you actually deserve this
can result in making you feel worthless moreover the main reason behind the burnouts of infjs is
that they start thinking that people don't want to talk to them and just want to block them from
your contacts if an infj find out that their favorite persons are losing interest in them
and here the overthinking begins as a result they consider themselves worthless and it can
get negatively hit their self-esteem quality of life and self-view two inconsiderate themselves
infjs build up so many expectations in their head and hate them when they can't reach them
an infj is a personality type who has a craze to do everything just perfectly so when they
don't meet the level of an ideal person on their list they just start to inconsiderate themselves
since infjs are perfectionist they can never accept an average result on their performance
you might not believe it but sometimes they treat themselves unfairly to such an extent
that they get upset for securing only 94 percent out of a hundred
when an infj fails from their expectations or doesn't meet their own requirements they start to
blame themselves infj never compare themselves to others who are below their level however they only
compare themselves with the ones they idealize although their performance was pretty good they
would still wish to secure more marks it's really amazing to do everything perfectly but being a
perfectionist infjs should also understand that they have their own limits to their capabilities
three care too much about others opinion the opinions of others always cause trouble for infjs
because their mindsets are set as a perfectionist even a small troll or criticism from someone can
seriously affect the mood of an infj harsh comments and negative opinions from multiple
people can turn the energy level of an infj from 100 to 20 which can change self-esteem and
self-value infjs believe that there's a self-image of them in front of their family members friends
and society they keep thinking about what everyone will think about that therefore they care more and
more about what they see themselves and not what they actually are moreover the most complicated
part of living as an infj is growing up with an unsupportive family and insensitivity due
to heavy intrapersonal conflicts in a toxic family infjs raised from that family can never tolerate
the toxicity however infjs can also experience cognitive dissonance due to listening to a third
party's opinions people around them never feel how their words can sting and hurt in an infj they are
never aware of the pain that they give to an infj because their personality type never expresses it
directly 4. absorb other emotions infjs have the ability to absorb others emotions and sorrows even
if they become successful therapists or effective counselors their weaknesses can still affect
them since infjs have the ability to pick up and absorb others feelings most of the time they tend
to adapt it to themselves as well when parents of an infj express disappointments every time
they also feel themselves burdened and feel like they're going through a negative aura when the
friends of an infj express anger they question themselves if infjs can help them out with this
because of being too empathetic infjs are prone to emotional gaslighting and manipulation due to the
manipulations they work according to that person but afterwards they feel a lot of negative energy
inside them five too much caring it's really amazing that infjs are one of the most loyal
personality types and never want their partners to feel worthless and insecure because infjs
actually know how it feels once they step into a relationship they try to go for everything that
will make their partner feel appreciated loved and acknowledged infjs never question their partners
or doubt their positions in their life and heart however the negative side of loving the partners
sincerely and deeply sometimes appears to be very clingy and not everyone wants to have a dependent
partner but the problem here is not being clingy it's being too much caring a time will come and
your partner will start to take you for granted maybe your partners don't care how many times
you text them and how many times they ignore you however the innocent infj will still think this
is them who might have done something wrong this situation is one of the very common misconceptions
that infjs are clingy because infjs are responsible aloof individuals and independent ones
six rarely find someone who understands them infjs are always available for everyone to help
but sometimes they also need a person who can completely understand them and agree with them
infjs over observe the situations and the outcomes of it but sometimes they don't have answers
to their own questions therefore infjs need someone identical to them who can listen to them
comfort them tell them if they are stressing over the right thing or not they actually need
someone who can support them and make them feel safe but because infjs are one of the rarest
personality types it's really very challenging for someone whose energy matches the same as yours
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