What is behind this
sheet?
Well, I'm here to tell you,
it is something that you use
very regularly to communicate
with men, and it can be truly
the difference between really
connecting with a guy and not
connecting with a guy.
And most importantly, if you
learn how to use this thing
right here, you can have
dramatic changes in your love
life literally instantly.
So you wondering what it is
when we take a look.
Let's get the thing off.
It is your phone
and this video right now.
I'm going to be giving you
seven texts that you can send
a guy that are going to
really help you magnetically
attract him in ways that
you've never experienced
before.
But I'm not the type of
dating coach who's just gonna
give you seven copy and paste
text that you can just send a
guy who is going to
miraculously change your
life. It's not going to be
like that. Instead, I'm going
to do is give you the text
that you can use while at the
same time teaching you a
sexy confidence principle
along the way.
So I really suggest you watch
this entire video because I
want you to understand the
basics of these principles
before sending the texts.
And of course, if you do get
any value from this video or
from these principles, I
recommend you check out the
Sexy Confidence Club.
You can also access that
right below this video and
join the entire community and
be able to access a ton of
different courses that will
help you through every single
stage of finding love and
keeping love.
And you can try that out as
well for free as my gift to
you. So let's just jump right
into principal number one
principle. Number one is
basically high
value positioning
as part of this sexy,
confident community.
You are now a high
value woman.
And essentially in a
nutshell, what that
means is that
if a man doesn't earn
your love and earn
you, then you're not
going to give it freely.
Right.
And this is a massive shift
that you need to start making
your love life.
Now, I'm not here to have you
fake this mentality.
I'm here to actually create
some real shifts in your love
life to actually help you
believe that you are
a high value woman.
Now, when it comes to value.
Value is really just a
perception.
Let me give you an example
now. Recently I was on a
bachelor party with one of my
friends is getting married
and he wanted to go to a
casino for the night.
So I said, of course, let's
go do it.
I'm not a big gambler.
But what the hell?
Let's give this thing a shot.
So I sat down at the roulette
table, put 50 bucks on
red, and I said, let's just
see what happens.
Boom, just 150 bucks.
It hit red.
I was sight.
Now, what did I do with
that 50 dollars?
You're probably wondering, I
had this 50 dollars winnings.
And do you think that I went
to my savings account,
put in my savings account and
said, you know what, I really
earned that money.
So I'm going to watch it grow
and hold onto it and give it
to my children's college fund
and make sure that it blossoms
into this huge investment.
No, of course not.
I immediately went to the bar
and blew it instantly because
I didn't do anything to earn
that money.
Now, I want you to imagine
that instead of just
winning that money for free,
that 50 dollars, I had to
work at McDonalds flipping
burgers for like I don't know
how many hours you to do.
It's a six hours of flipping
burgers in order to get that
50 dollars.
Do you think that I would
immediately, right after
that, go to the bar, just
blow it instantly?
No, of course not.
Because I had to earn
that money.
Now the same exact principle
applies to your dating
life and meeting men.
If a man doesn't have
to earn your love and don't
have to work for it in those
early stages, then
he's not going to value
it. It doesn't matter if
you're Scarlett Johansson, a
movie actress, or if
you are just a regular person
going out there meeting
people. Doesn't matter if
you are in a position as a
high value woman, you're not
making a man earn.
Your love is not going to
actually value it.
If you're finding guys not
trying to earn your love and
earn your time and earn your
respect, then go ahead and
send him this text as a first
example for a high value
position text.
You're going to have to try a
lot harder than that.
If you want to be with me.
I guess now, you know, you
have to be high value stuff
of principal number two,
which is being
playfully confident,
you probably in on a few
dates with some guys who sit
across from the table and
it is all
business, right?
He is just like looking
deep into your soul
and trying to get to know you
as a person.
Now, sometimes that can be
fun, but most of the time,
especially on a first date
early on, it can be a little
bit off putting.
And the same thing goes with
men. Now, when we are going
out and meeting people for
the first time, people aren't
going to actually remember
the words that you're saying.
They're going to remember how
they feel about what you're
saying. And the best way
to be able to really attract
someone to connect with
someone is to be playfully
confident, to be just that
playful, energetic,
fun person
who really has that vibe,
you know, that magnetic vibe.
When you meet some people and
they just like you, you click
with them.
That's what playful
confidence is all about.
And that's what sexy
confidence is all about.
So here's an example of a
text that you can send to
be a little bit cheeky
and playfully confident.
You stop always thinking
about me.
I know you can't help it, but
it's going to drive you
crazy.
All right, so now let's jump
in to principal number three,
which is all about
building sexual
tension.
This is the fun part
of dating and connecting with
someone and sexual
tension. I think nowadays
it's become a little bit of a
lost art because so
many people in this hookup
culture are hooking
up so quickly that they're
not even enabling sexual
tension to exist
early on when you're meeting
someone. Now, I should say
I'm not judging.
I'm not here to judge if you
sleep with someone too
quickly. I understand that.
I've certainly been that case
back when I was single.
I've done that.
But what I'm here to tell you
is being a part of this
community with sexy
confidence is it's better
to wait.
Early on, that relationship,
build up some sexual tension,
have him thinking he's this
go. Am I going to get some?
Is this guy actually gonna go
somewhere or am I?
Is she not into me?
And this is what building
sexual tension is all about,
the unknowing
of what is going to happen.
Almost think of it like a
rubber band between the two
of you. And he pulls one way
you pull the other.
And it's a little bit of a
dance at the beginning.
But this is what gets
him coming back, is the more
sexual tension that builds up
and builds up, the more
he's going to want to come
back and the more time
he's going to have to get to
know you. So here's a fun
little text you can send to
be able to build a little bit
more sexual tension.
Sexy blue skirt or
elegant red dress you
choose.
Ready?
Go.
Now let's get on to principle
number four of sexy
confidence, which is all
about setting very
clear boundaries
about what is acceptable
and what is not acceptable
behavior.
I was recently hanging out
with my godson and he's a
toddler. He's like maybe
two and half, three years old
now. And we were at a
barbecue and we're playing
around. And then I was
talking to one of my friends
out of nowhere.
And I see him in the corner,
my eye going up
and trying to touch
the hot barbecue.
And he was just about to
touch it, like grab his hand.
And I say, no, T.J.,
don't do that.
OK. So I'm setting very
clear boundaries because I
don't want him to get burned.
And as time goes on,
of course, he's going to start
learning what are the
boundaries of life.
I hate to say it in reality,
but this does apply to
relationships in some ways,
because sometimes men need to
know what your boundaries
really are.
And a lot of times you guys
think of kind of men as kind
of like toddlers.
They're going to push your
boundaries and see what it is
that they can get away with.
Right.
Let's say he decides that
he's not really is into you
anymore and he starts pulling
back and maybe it goes
to you for a couple of weeks,
but then sends you a text at
1:00 a.m. when he's drinking
because he wants to hook up.
That is a clear overstepping
of your boundaries.
And if you don't set
boundaries and it will set
him straight about the type
of woman you are.
What's he going to do next
time? He's going to push
those boundaries once again
and keep pushing those
boundaries.
So it is your responsibility
to set those boundaries.
And if he decides that he's
going to continuously
overstep those boundaries,
then what do you say?
You say it's four letter
magic word, which is next.
And move on to the next guy.
So here's a text that you
can send to a guy.
If, for example, he sends it
at 1:00 AM texts and
he's drunk and he's just
trying to hook up and here's
to thinking like, no, that's
not happening, send him this
text and see what happens.
You might be confused with
someone else.
I'm not that type of girl.
So now let's jump on to
principle number five,
which is
give earned compliments
and notice the word earned
right here. When a man does
something gentlemanly like
and I know that is
rare nowadays than
it certainly used to be, but
it still happens.
Then give him the compliment.
I always think of men kind of
like puppies.
All right. When a puppy does
something really good, you
reward them with a treat.
Right.
And what this is, is positive
reinforcement.
The more treats that the
puppy gets, the more they're
going to do that particular
behavior.
And it is also true
with men and people in
general, men, women,
children, everything
we do well with
positive reinforcement.
So let's say he does open
the door for you.
Be sure to thank
him for it. If he buys you
dinner, then be sure to,
of course, acknowledge that
and call him a gentleman.
And of course, here's an
example text you might be
able to send a guy to give
him that earned compliment
when he truly deserves it.
Thank you so much for
treating me to dinner
tonight.
You're such a gentleman.
When you send him a text like
that and you actually
acknowledge what he did,
well, he is going
to do more of
that behavior.
And if you don't acknowledge
that type of behavior and
you just kind of accept it,
it's just normal.
I go every guys to buy me
dinner, then what's going to
happen?
He's just going to think that
you don't really appreciate
it. He's not going to do even
more of that behavior.
Principle number six, I
think, is really the
foundation of
sexy confidence, which is
exuding feminine
energy.
Now, the reason why I called
sexy confidence sexy
confidence is because
I wanted to have both a
masculine confidence word
and a feminine word, which
is sexy put together,
because really both are
pretty critical when it comes
to attracting someone
into your life.
So sexy really represents
the feminine energy that
you bring to the table and be
able to exude that
when you were with a man.
And I know this can be very,
very hard.
So many women that are part
of this community are
like crushing it at work
right there in the boardroom.
They are taking names and
they are crushing it.
So for them to then step into
their more feminine side
can be very challenging.
But ultimately, what ends up
happening if they don't step
in that feminine side?
The only guys that they
attract are
beta males that they're not
really that attracted to.
So this is a challenging
thing, but it is something
that I really hope a lot of
women with is understanding
the masculine side.
What men, what magnetically
attracts men as well
throughout the dating process?
So exuding feminine energy
is something you want to be
thinking about while you're
getting out there. And
certainly something I go
through a lot in the sexy
confidence club to help you
understand this masculine
feminine energy and how it
really interacts with
attraction. So here's an
example text that you can
send to be able to really
exude a little bit more
feminine energy.
I can't stop thinking about
the way you looked at me the
other night.
It sent shivers down my
spine.
And finally, last but not
least, let's go to principle
number seven, which
is reigniting
the romance.
Relationships are all founded
on emotion.
Right.
Love is simply just
an emotion.
And one of the easiest ways
to reignite
a little bit of a lost spark.
And this is for those of you
who are further along in a
relationship when the easiest
ways to reignite the romance
is just to reminisce
on past memories
and past emotions that you've
had. So here's a text that
you can send to Bill to do
just that.
What are your two favorite
memories of us led
romantic and one sexy?
So they have it there are
these seven principles
that you really want to start
thinking about, and this is
really just an introduction
to sexy confidence in
general. So if you didn't get
a lot from this video and
this really resonates with
you and you feel like you
need to work on any part of
this, I do recommend
you check out the sexy
confidence club.
Like I said, it's free.
It's right there below.
We have courses that you can
take and it's just all part
of your membership you can
take that's going to help you
through not only finding a
relationship, but keeping a
relationship.
We also have a community of
women who support you
through the hard
times that do come
with getting out there,
finding love or when you are
in a relationship.
And it's one of the most
supportive places you'll ever
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It's totally private.
So you can really talk about
some of the most private
things that are going on in
your life and get unbiased
feedback.
Also, as part of this program,
we have mentorship with these
live sessions where you can
build. Come on, ask me
questions or other experts
questions about your
particular love life and get
those real questions from
people who are actually
experts and dating
strategists.
And then finally, you can be
able to get answers to
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Immediately, once you get in
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search any question you've
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see a ton of answers to
any question you've ever had
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relationships.
It's all in there for you.
So I recommend you give that
a shot. I'd love to see it
there, but if not, no
worries. I would.
I'd also love for you to do
is just leave a comment right
there below about which
part of this you're going to
work on today.
And then finally, I challenge
you send one of those texts.
We talk about it.
You can download the text
right there below, send one
of those texts.
Let us know how it goes.
Leave a comment right there
below. Thank you so much for
watching. And I'll speak to
you very soon.
You sexy single lady.
But by.