Speaker 1: Everyone has dealt with this in their texting game between flaky women, between
women who don't hit you back, women who show interest one day and then the next day it's
like you don't hear from them for 24 to 48 hours ... Whatever the case may be, you're
sitting there thinking, "How do I text this woman to make sure that we have attraction?"
"How do I text this woman to make sure that she likes me?"
"How do I text this women to make sure that we can set a date?"
Speaker 1: Obviously this is flawed, because this is happening to guys over, and over,
and over.
Between Instagram, you're left on read, between Twitter, you're left on read, Tinder, you're
left on read, Bumble, you're left on read, text message, you're left on read, Snapchat,
she leaves you on open ... Dude, it's time to start figuring this things out.
Speaker 1: what I'm doing is I'm bringing back the basics of what attraction is.
Not only that, in this video, you're going to learn exactly how to text a woman to make
sure that you maintain her attraction at all times.
Your goal is to get this in person.
All right?
You can't seduce a woman through the phone.
It's just impossible.
You got to start shifting the mindset to using the phone as a mechanism to meeting up in
person.
That might scare a lot of you, but contrary to popular belief, most guys are doing this
super wrong.
Speaker 1: I'm about to tell you exactly why, but before I do that, here's what I want you
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Without further ado, let's begin.
Speaker 1: All right.
We've all been there.
She texts back sometimes, she doesn't text back sometimes.
Or you might be feeling like you've texting her for weeks and weeks, and no matter what,
she's always busy.
You can't get her out on the date.
No matter how you try to flirt with her on the text message, she's not replying.
Speaker 1: There's a few key things that you need to learn about women.
The first thing is that the majority of women out there are attention whores.
They're not using you for anything more than free attention.
If you look at a girl's Instagram direct messages compared to a guy's, she has 30 to 40 in her
inbox at all times, comment about dat ass, right?
You ain't got nothing.
Why is it that a girl who's a 6.5, they think she's a 10, because their egos are so inflated
today.
Why is it that she has 20 options and you got zero?
Speaker 1: It's because men today are giving away all of their worth through the phone.
You see, the phone has created a gap where women can get free attention without having
to do anything for it in return.
The problem with that is, as you keep giving your attention away, she just keeps taking
it.
She likes having another dude on the back burner.
Because women want one thing.
All women want to just feel wanted.
That's it.
They want attention and they want to know that other men want them.
That's it.
If you can get that through your head, you're going to start to back off on the phone a
little bit, because this is what's killing your game.
Speaker 1: Women just want the attention, and you best believe that women never go without
some dick.
Women are never going to go without a guy in their life.
The guy who she texts all the day, the guy who she Snapchats all day, that is probably
not the guy that she's sleeping with, because the more friendlier you come off on the phone,
the more friendzone she's going to put you in.
Speaker 1: One of the things that guys do when they have questions about texting is
they go and they ask other females, they go, "How would you text this girl?"
Women don't know how they want to be texted because what makes sense logically up here
is not what's going to get them attracted down there.
You get what I'm saying?
Women aren't going to tell another guy how they want to be seduced, and if you have to
ask a woman that from the beginning, you're so far off in left field.
Speaker 1: Your whole goal with phone game is to use it as a bridge to get her out on
the date, or to get her to come to your place, or to get her out to go to a movie, or to
go out to eat, or whatever, because then you can use your charisma, and your charm, and
your seduction, and your masculine frame to really seduce her.
Here's the thing.
I understand that that's impossible without the phone, so here's the deal.
When you are on the phone, here's a few tips that I want to give you.
Speaker 1: If you're texting a girl, first and foremost, do not try to get to know her
through the phone.
Don't try to get to know her through text messages, because that's how you get caught
up in that week-to-week cycle where you're texting her all the time.
All it sends in that girl's head is, "This dude really likes me.
He must have zero fucking options," because that's how you start to come off, is like
a loser.
You just text her all the time, and she ain't even done nothing to raise your interest.
That's where I mean men give away all their value.
Because of that, we're getting hosed in the dating game.
Men just aren't on equal playing field.
You see, women have this stuff way more figured out.
Speaker 1: The thing is, A, you need to stop texting her so much.
You need to use it as a mechanism, not to get to know her, because that's what you're
using the date for, is to create attraction and know her then in person, but you use it
to make future plans.
Speaker 1: Another thing that you're going to want to do is you're going to want to cut
out all the soppy shit.
No prompt replies, no emojis, no seeming too available.
Use it as somewhat of escalation.
The thing is, is that you can't seduce a girl through the phone, but what you can do is
you can raise her attraction for you by progressing it.
What I would do is I would start to get her on a phone call, or get her on a FaceTime.
You want to start to poke fun at the idea, or tease her, or flirt with her, that the
idea of you and her possibly seeing each other, the idea of you and her possibly meeting up,
may be fun.
May be cool.
Women like that kind of shit.
Speaker 1: Because if you paint this picture in their head of you're not totally sold from
the get go, right away, just off their looks, if you don't look too needy, what it starts
to do is it starts to make her a little bit more interested.
You want her to start to play back with you.
The text message can't be more than one to one.
It can't be you sending three texts to her one, it's got to be one to one the whole time.
Speaker 1: You got to get her to start putting in effort.
The nice thing is that if you can get her on a FaceTime call, that's your opportunity
to raise her attraction, because now she has more buy-in investment from you as a man.
She can text a hundred dudes all day, but she's talking to you face to face like this,
it's a lot easier to create sexual tension.
It's a lot easier to flirt with her.
It's a lot easier to make her comfortable enough with you to get her out on the date.
Speaker 1: You see, women, they're soft and gentle, but they also have this side to them
where you have to be aggressive enough, and she has to view you as that as a man.
Start to use it to make future plans.
Speaker 1: Another thing that you want to do if you've been texting a girl for a lot
of times is pull back.
You're going to need to pull back, because what you've been doing is you've been way
too available.
You've been way too nice in trying to get to know her, and you've been way too prompt
to reply.
If you have any Snap streaks, kill them.
Do not carry on a Snap streak with a girl, because she does not deserve your attention
yet.
She hasn't done anything to raise your attraction, or she shouldn't have.
That's what I mean.
You've been giving too much of your value away.
Cut all the streaks.
Cut that shit out.
Speaker 1: What you're going to want to do is you're going to want to make sure that
she starts putting in more buying investment into you.
By doing that, you pull back.
Before, if you're texting her back within a couple minutes every time, now maybe it
goes to once every hour.
Then maybe pretty soon it's once every six hours.
Speaker 1: It's the next day, but real quick, I wanted to make a quick little edit in this
video from when I was filming yesterday.
You're not just trying to play head games with a girl.
You're not just not replying just to not reply.
Speaker 1: What I'm trying to do is I'm trying to get men to realize that there's other stuff
you should be doing with your time.
You should be working.
You should be chasing your passion, chasing your purpose.
You shouldn't be having time to sit on the phone all day and be texting her, because
that's going to symbolize a lot of neediness and a lot of low driven, low purpose type
behavior.
The thing is, females just aren't attracted to that.
The more work you start putting in yourself, so that way you don't have time to sit on
your phone, it's going to be a lot easier.
Speaker 1: For a lot of you guys, that might scare the shit out of you because you're not
used to this.
You're in that scarcity mindset where you're scared if she'll reply or not.
You got to be preoccupying yourself with other things to make sure that she actually can
be attracted to you, because a man on a mission and a man following his purpose, and not making
women and the phone the center of his universe, is what's going to ultimately put you in the
best hands with a woman when it comes to the phone.
Speaker 1: Use it to get her out on the date.
Flirt with the idea of if you guys would meet up, it might be fun.
Then you can even phrase it where, "If you're cool."
"If you're cool, we might have fun."
If her name's Becky, "Becky, if you're cool, we might have a lot of fun if we see each
other."
If we see each other.
You're saying you don't care if it happens, but you're flirting with the idea of it.
That's the whole premise of all of this.
You're not trying to get to know her through the phone.
Speaker 1: Comment below.
What's happened when you've put all your cards out and you've really tried to text and engage
a woman on the phone?
It usually goes south and she loses interest, correct?
That's because you're coming off too friendly.
You've got to come off masculine, and that's the big key.
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Never Left on Read, the thing is, is that guys are totally changing their game each
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We'll see you guys next time.
Stop texting these women so much.
Stop giving away your free attention, and start becoming a better man that women actually
want.