This video is about Why Does Walking Away Feel So Good?!" Stick around to the end as
I will show you Why Walking Away just feels so darn good!
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A few years back I was in a toxic relationship with a narcissist for around several years... it
was painful, toxic, negative, stressful... it was utter hell. I tried to find the courage many times to
finally walk away from such a person but I was almost trapped like a prisoner. I just couldn't
let go, neither could she, and we were stuck in this tornado of pain and misery and suffering
Then finally after enough was truly enough I did so after a lengthy argument back and forth
and tying up loose ends it was officially over. I walked away physically, mentally, emotionally and
spiritually too. I was so drained at the time from dating such a toxic person... I could have really
take it at first what had happened. The reality was I was finally out of hell and even though I felt
exhausted I still felt good, like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders finally. How often do
you hear people say that after walking away "it's almost like the chains have broken off my ankles....
I feel hundreds of pounds lighter, in fact I feel like I'm floating on air... I feel light as a feather!"
Who are you walking away from? Is it a toxic partner and a toxic relationship or a toxic
marriage? Is it a toxic family member? A very toxic family dynamic? Is it a toxic friend or
a toxic group of friends? Is it a toxic work culture environment business or a toxic boss?
It could be a cult online.... it could be a toxic community... it could be a toxic home... a place... a space
Whatever and whoever it is here is why it feels so good to walk away! If you're enjoying this
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A few months back I had a really bad ache and pain in my lower back and my hip... man it was
uncomfortable! Whenever I sat down, was sleeping, doing exercise anything... I just had pain... I tried
everything from massage, chiropractors, physio you name it... nothing gave me relief. I was still in
pain and still suffering. It turned out I had a gut infection that was what was causing the pain
So I had to take some medicine and Hey Presto that pain that plagued me for months suddenly went away!
That relief to finally be rid of that pain that lingered so long it felt so good! That same analogy
and feeling can be applied to walking away... it's a form of immediate relief. Rose dated a man for
several years who was immature, annoying, lazy and a complete pain. They didn't have a future together
they shared nothing in common yet she persisted...as she hoped that somehow, someway things would change
between them both... but it never did. Every day she'd cook for him, clean up after him, pay the bills you
name it...she'd organize pretty much everything and anything, and he'd just sit there and do nothing
"It was like having a chronic migraine being with him every single day, it wouldn't go away" said Rose
Finally after realizing how much of her life she was wasting, she decided to walk
away from the relationship. "The moment I was gone it was like those chronic migraines and
that stress were healed literally overnight. I can't describe it it was like an instant relief!"
For Rose the pain was gone, the suffering was over, just like with me when I had those aches and pains
Hence in my opinion why it feels so good it really is like an almost instant relief!
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Walking away feels so good because by doing so you can and will regain some personal strength
which most likely has been dormant for quite some time. Personal strength are positive personality
traits, knowledge and abilities. Before walking away in that relationship I had, my personal
strength was at an all-time low. Here's what I regained the very moment I left = My courage
walking away takes bravery and courage, something sadly most people lack when it comes to this topic
The very moment I was free I could feel a sense of personal power overwhelming me, I felt unstoppable
Authenticity - I encourage my viewers to always be their authentic selves when it comes to dating... I
was never truly myself in that relationship, slowly and surely I rebuilt the very man I was deep down
inside once again. Discipline - walking away from a partner in general requires great discipline. I
look back with pride at the discipline and mental strength to go and remain no contact and never
slide back into a toxic relationship! I was stuck in a rut in my toxic relationship, it was like
a funk or depression... as time went on my energy and enthusiasm for life came back in abundance
Leaving my former toxic relationship inspired me to learn great life lessons which then translated
into me sharing those lessons through this YouTube channel. I have plenty of content
showing how there is great power in walking away and personal strength is right up there too
All that I've listed is also positive and positive traits etc are no doubt going to reap more
positive results. Remember you have chosen to walk away to regain your power, to regain your strength
it is not a surprise nor any wonder that it feels so good!
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I'll never forget the first week I walked away from my toxic relationship with the narcissist
we broke up officially on a Tuesday and later in the week I went to Central London to do a
spot of shopping on my own. As I came out of the station in town, the sun was beaming on my
face.... the streets bustling full of people it was early I could do what I wanted... I could go where
I wanted... I could eat what I wanted... I was free! I really embraced and tasted for the first time
in a long time that sweet taste of freedom and it tasted so good! Whatever and whoever you're walking
away from understand that unfortunately it is almost like some form of prison
You have felt and been trapped way longer than you should have been! Jessica felt like a prisoner in
her toxic relationship of five years with her boyfriend, everything revolved around him and
what he wanted and said etc! She was so under his control that she couldn't even dress a
certain way if he didn't approve... classic control freak behavior "I'm passive and a quiet person" she
said "I just used to allow him to do and say what he wanted but really I was a prisoner!"
Long story short she had enough of the abuse and bravely walked away, blocked and deleted his number
for good! "I never wanted to hear from see or speak to him ever again" Jessica was free for the first
time in five grueling painful years "I cried" she said "I was finally my own woman once more!
Finally! You have no idea how good that felt to me!" She turned her life around
Even in the Western World, in Democratic Societies, in modern times, you can feel like a prisoner
That's why walking away and the freedom that comes with it feels great! Walking away initially
may appear and feel very daunting especially when it comes to potentially dating someone new
That anxiety is probably a large reason as to why you stayed as long as you did
in your relationship as well... that was certainly my reason aka the fear of being single once more
But as time eventually goes on and as new routines and lifestyles kick in, after that first meal alone,
that first night alone, that first time you stay in bed alone and other milestones soon
you start to realize you're living a new life... a better life... a happier life... a healthier one
and hopefully an exciting one with endless opportunities, possibilities for the better
After I grieved and made peace with the fact my toxic relationship was over I started to get
excited at a new opportunity "I can date again" I said to myself... that's pretty exciting meeting new
women for the first time in years, was pretty fun! "I could revisit my life goals I put off... I
could travel wherever I wanted... I could spend my money on things that suited me....!" It really was an
exciting Fresh Star,t but remember the alternative is staying in a miserable toxic relationship
so no wonder walking away feels so good in comparison!