what i'm going to be talking about today is how to become a woman who will not fail
at anything sound good so this is all about the entrepreneur mindset okay or the entrepreneurial
mindset so we're gonna go ahead and get into that today first things first let me go ahead
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of housekeeping here we have a mastermind that's coming up august 28th and 29th so
make sure that you are uh in that mastermind so go to marthasmastermind.com again it's martha's
mastermind.com third time marthasmastermind.com everybody that is growing in their business or
is choosing to grow in their business whether it's emotionally whether it's mentally whether
it's financially whether it's tactical things what are you doing in your business are you stuck are
you not doing anything or you wish you could are you wishing you could do more do the things that
you keep signing up for not actually move the needle for you well what you're doing here at
martha's mastermind.com is 90 day check-in points so this is the august one all right the next time
we're going to see each other is going to be mid-november so this is going to be what takes
you until mid-november because what we know about entrepreneurs is they have 90-day check-out points
so after 90 days they'll be working on something and all of a sudden it's just like this magical
obscurity happens this magical just fog lands on people and then they forget what they're doing
they forget why they're passionate about it they don't understand their strategy all of a sudden
and that happens every 90 days so what i'm here to do is make sure that doesn't happen to you sound
fair all right so martha's mastermind.com let's go ahead and get into some content i want to say hi
to some folks first real quick brit good morning cindy good morning patty good morning carrie
good morning sherry good morning oh man good morning martha you have inspired me to take my
health more seriously got some supplements and i'm down four pounds so far oh my word congratulations
your health is a big deal guys that's actually i'm going to do it just a tangent here real quick
your health is such a big deal so how can we be these entrepreneurs these business owners
that are really changing the landscape of the world if we can't change our own landscape
and we can't be around for a long time to be able to serve this stuff up if we're not taking
care of the body that we're in i'm not saying that everybody needs to be a certain weight or anything
like that but i'm saying fundamentally on a blood panel way we need to make sure that our body
is optimized and our body is healthy okay like that's it's i i do cardio i do walking every
morning i do um some light lifting every day and it's just to make sure you know i'm 41 guys it's
to make sure that that i'm in a good shape i'm not in the best shape in the world i'm not going to be
in any sort of like weightlifting competition or fitness model competition anytime soon right
but that's not my goal my goal is to be healthy and to be able to spread my message
far and wide and all of us have that message and all of us should in my opinion be concerned about
whether we're going to be able to share it for a really long time it's important to me
so oh my gosh good morning everybody oh i see you love you guys okay we're going to go ahead and get
into this content so become a woman who will not fail at anything all right so a lot of this is
going to be in your brain but how do we hack that how do we work on our brain to make it where we
have an unfair advantage right so as it is right now and a lot of times you know a lot of you guys
have heard me say this a million times but there's always new people watching these videos so i
want to make sure that this is clear we've gone through our entire life with our brain on loops
okay it's neuroplasticity you can look it up you can google it you can geek out on it
but our brain goes on loops and it's a messaging loop okay and it's a loop of what we have been
told about ourselves and typically it starts whenever we're really young and those messages are
not meant to be malicious they're meant to keep us safe but then those same messages that kept us
safe when we were five years old now keep us from being truly successful when we're 35. okay
so the be careful don't do that you're gonna hurt yourself that kept us safe when we were five
and now when we're 35 that message of be careful you're gonna hurt yourself that keeps us from
actually going out and doing something different in the world than what everybody else is doing
and doing something different in the world than what everybody else is doing is going to
be the precise thing that brings us our greatness that's what allows us to step into our greatness
but it's scary and it could feel like you're going to hurt yourself it does feel like that right gay
hendricks wrote a book and his book is in the book it talks about glass ceilings or hitting glass
ceilings right and that's what this is it's like it's like you've got a ceiling that you're about
to crush through and as you get closer and closer and closer to the ceiling that is going to be
your level up moment the closer that you get the more your brain is like uh uh nope mayday
not doing it not doing it not doing it that's dangerous i'm running into a brick wall in reality
it's just the mold that you are in it's you're breaking out of this mold that you're in and
that's what is required for growth but your brain is like no no no i'm not going to do that it's
going to hurt me essentially our primal brain kicks in and is like it takes us back to cavemen
because we haven't like our brains haven't evolved much past that sorry guys it is what it is this
whole industrious revolution this whole world that we live in right now hasn't been around that long
our brain hasn't really evolved to the point that we know that we live in the world that
we live in subconsciously our brain is like if you step out into the world and you step out
away from the pack you are going to get eaten by a lion or you will likely get eaten by a lion you
need to stay safe you need to stay in your pack and that's what our brain says to us and so when
we do step out and we say hey listen i imagine a different kind of world i imagine things not
being the way that they are i imagine that this could be much better and i'm choosing to do that
and whenever you do that your brain is like oh my gosh no don't do it you're not gonna be safe
so that's what that whole thing is when people but people um they uh misconstrue it as
not my path isn't this interesting people will misconstrue that feeling of nope go
back to your tribe go back be safe they'll misconstrue that feeling
as this thing being wrong for them and not their path and so then they back away from it and they
say oh well that feels scary and so i'm not gonna do it because i don't believe it's for me
here's my thought okay and this is an entrepreneurial way of being what you
think about is you get logical with it because this is messaging this is repeated messaging
okay it's not logic it's repeated messaging okay and it's trying to keep you safe it's not logic
all right so what we actually need to think about you guys is this we need to just break
it down logically if i step out and do this what can i do how can i change the world if my dream
becomes a reality what changes in the world how does the world change because of what i've done
okay write that down the next thing that i want you to write down
is how does my family and my community change when my dream becomes a reality
okay third thing how does my being change how does my way that i'm showing up in the world
change when this becomes a reality now the first thing that's going to happen let me just warn you
the first thing that's going to happen when you write this stuff down as your writing probably is
when this is going to happen your subconscious is going to say why are you even doing this
this isn't going to happen this dream made reality not true not going to happen that's
what's going to happen in the back of your head what you need to do is silence it
okay silence it and move forward that is what strong women
entrepreneurs do we keep moving forward regardless of the fear and regardless of that ongoing
nagging in our subconscious because we go nowhere if we keep listening to subconscious messaging
okay we have to change that messaging we have to choose that messaging that loop
that automatically goes on in our brain we change that loop we program that loop we choose growth
does that make sense good women entrepreneurs which is what you are we change the game and if
we're going to change the outer game in the world we gotta change the inner game to allow us to be
able to stand up in the way that's gonna change the outer game does that make sense if you're
not working on your inner game first your outer game i'm so sorry isn't gonna happen okay we have
to make sure that we're strong enough to show up and show up consistently even when we feel
like we're getting kicked in the teeth you guys i spent years getting kicked in the teeth years
and this mindset that i'm talking about is what kept me going so i could finally land where i am
right now but i wouldn't be here if i didn't keep going if i got kicked in the teeth once
twice three four five times man i wish it were only five times but it was so many more than that
but if it was still five times and then i was like i'm tired
i don't think this is gonna happen i don't know how to make this happen i'm just done you know
i'm just gonna do what everybody else is doing and i'm gonna find a way to be okay with that
but here's the deal you guys i knew i was made for so much more and i knew i had a lot to offer
the world and i wasn't okay with not doing that and so i kept going when i had no money
when i had nothing when i was failing on top of failing on top of failing i kept going and i
choose to keep going even now that i've won i keep going because it's not about me it's about you
right and if i ever stop then i stop doing why i came to the dance and fought so hard to be
in the dance in the first place does that make sense this is what we as women entrepreneurs
this is what allows us to absolutely crush you guys if you want to go deeper into this
there's something there's a link in the description of the video above
or below depending on where the video is it's a big think revolution i 100 suggest you jump
into that it's precisely what i have done in my own life it's my day-to-day activities and why i
do it it's something like 17 modules you guys and it's it's based off of the greats it's based off
of napoleon hill right it's based off off of the grand daddy of self-development and mindset and
working this stuff right reprogramming our brain to be successful except you don't have to read the
volumes of 600 page books like i did because what i did is i read all of those books i consumed them
they live in me on a cellular level and then what i did is i took i created a system out of
what i read and i said well day to day so based on all of this day to day here's how i implement
so it really is kind of like a cliff notes to all of that and then also an implementation if
you've been in big think you gotta holler because big think is the game changer and
it's super inexpensive if you're in hbr make sure that you use your discount code okay
also if you're not in hbr let me just do a quick invite here what i would do i'm going
to make it half off today too i made it half off yesterday i'm going to make it half off today too
because i head down to miami for a reshoot again tomorrow so i'm just kind of like in the mood so
what i would do is go to live in the dream with martha it's my facebook business page
you're going to message me the words let's do this case study rainbows and unicorns whatever
you want to message me you're talking to a human so it's not a bot that's going to respond to you
what hbr is is the blueprint i created to be able to create multiple income streams from home
utilizing what i already knew and you can do as well utilizing what you already know
i don't care who you are where you sit right now you have value you have knowledge you
don't realize it let me help you okay you can monetize that in service to your people
okay so it's what i have done the blueprint of what i have done with my multiple income streams
five to ten hours a week once everything is set up and then you see where we are now
there's no reason you can't be here too in my perfect world i bring you all with me
let's go we're doing this thing and we've got more stuff in the works to be able to help you out
so wink wink nudge dutch i'm gonna see you later have the best weekend bye-bye