- [Announcer] Most young men are single.
Most young women are not.
- Men under 30 aren't having sex.
- The answer simple, dating in this fucking era, it sucks.
- [Announcer] The number of men reporting no sex
at the last year has tripled.
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- 90% of men are effectively incels,
otherwise known as involuntarily celibate.
Unable to get women, unable to get dates,
unable to start a family.
They don't even like the modern feminist women of today.
Women, on the other hand, have their own complaints.
They can't find a quality man.
Sure, they can get plenty of hookups with attractive guys
but they can't find a quality man
who actually wants to commit to them.
Modern dating is beyond broken.
Let's examine why.
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We can roughly divide single men and women
into four categories.
The top 10% of men, the bottom 90% of men,
women younger than 28, and women 28 and older.
Each of these categories
has very different experiences and perspectives,
and that's where all the confusion comes from.
Women complain about guys
because they typically only date the top 10% of guys
who behave much differently than the average
or above average dude.
Guys complain about women having it easy,
but they don't understand
the women are not actually looking for sex.
Let's look at the plight of each category
starting with the bottom 90% of men.
You guys honestly probably have it the worst.
Not only do women blame you for all the bad things
the top 10% of men do, thinking it's all men,
but they call you a creep
and pay exactly zero attention to you.
Studies have shown that women find a whopping 80%
of men to be unattractive.
You hear women complaining
about not being able to find a good man,
but you sincerely believe you are a good man
and that if she just give you a chance,
you take great care of her and treat her well.
But she'll never give you a chance
and instead continues to go after the guys
who use and abuse her.
- I love you very much.
- I don't love you, that's the big problem.
- Perhaps you resort to nice guy tactics
and try to befriend women
often becoming the surrogate boyfriend,
providing for a woman's emotional needs
while she goes and (beep) a top 10% guy.
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- Maybe you use sights like OnlyFans as a substitute
for real female companionship
and to fulfill the protector, provider instinct.
Out of frustration and a feeling of hopelessness,
you might have adopted the victim mindset
and got sucked into the echo chambers
of black pill doom and gloom
or women-hating red pill ideology
which are all just coping mechanism.
You feel powerless and in some way you're right.
One will hardly ever give you a chance,
and when they do, you often blow it
because you lack the confidence and experience
to set clear boundaries and be assertive,
which often causes women to either use you
or lose any attraction she had for you.
You might be inclined to develop an extreme hatred for women
because you think young, attractive women have it so easy.
They can have sex with as many men as they want
while getting spoiled with lavish gifts and trips.
You assume women do have sex
with as many attractive men as they can.
You don't realize that most women don't want random sex
but instead want a high quality man to commit to them.
The object of your desire becomes the object of your hatred.
Believe me, I get it.
I was once there as well and I felt all these things.
I promise you though, all hope is not lost.
I was literally where you are right now
and I can help you get out.
Toward the end of this video,
I'll tell you exactly what you need to do
to change your life around right now.
The top 10% of men, on the other hand,
probably are the only real winners in this game
because women biologically are programmed
to be more discriminating in their sexual preferences.
90% of women are competing for this top 10% of men.
This has always been the case historically,
but what is different in modern society
is social media and dating apps.
The whole process is accelerated and magnified.
Women are bombarded with DMs and messages
and as a result, make their selection criteria
even more stringent.
If you have a hundred guys DMing you,
why not pick the top two or three and ignore the rest?
This creates a situation where the top 10% of guys
end up having almost all the women chasing them
and so they have their selection to choose from.
Since they have such a large abundance,
they're even less inclined to commit to one girl
and end up rotating through all the girls
in the dating pool, leaving few girls for the bottom 90%.
Are these top 10% of men really winning though?
Certainly, the bottom 90% of men think so.
They're living the lives they could only dream of.
But even though these guys
are having sex with lots of women,
they still have a hard time finding a long-term prospect.
Feminism and boss babe wokeness
make many of the attractive women they meet
undesirable for the long term.
Most men really want to find a good wife
to raise a family with,
but many of these men feel they can't find that
in Western society.
Hookups lose meaning over time
and women who lack self-respect
do not make good mother material.
And so the top 10% of men once thought to be the victors
find themselves trapped in hollow world
of superficial connections and empty conquest.
Women younger than 28 also seem
like big winners in this game.
While they're young and attractive,
the world is their oyster.
Due to simp culture caused
by the frustrated bottom 90% of men.
In social media's magnification of their reach,
an average 21 year old girl becomes a virtual celebrity.
She receives no end of male praise and validation.
All she has to do is post a picture
with some cleavage online
and the simps will come out of the woodwork
to buy her farts in a jar.
Free drinks, free meals, free trips,
and plenty of sugar daddies willing to pay her an allowance.
But she doesn't even need men's money,
she can just take off her clothes on OnlyFans
and make more money than a doctor or a lawyer.
Just a small cost of the loss
of any high value respectable man
who would've considered wifing her up in the future.
Of course, she doesn't really care about that right now,
but she will.
When you're treated like royalty,
your standards become very high,
too high for any guy to fulfill.
She's not happy with any one guy and moves on to the next.
Society tells her to enjoy her youth
and to go out and party and have fun.
Why not?
You only live once.
Society tells her she could have sex like a man
and be a free and liberated woman,
but somehow she isn't happy.
She knows that all the gifts
and praise she's showered with are only skin deep.
Her shallowness attracts to her shallow guys
and those guys turn out to be jerks,
and so she joins the bandwagon of hating men
and jumping on whatever woke social media cause
is the flavor of the week.
She thinks a ride will continue forever,
so she doesn't think of settling down
and wasting her hotness.
She has no idea what's coming for her.
For every woman it's different,
but in general around the age of 28,
women start to see a sharper decline
in their appearance of youth and beauty.
Because it can happen so rapidly,
it's often known as the wall.
Post-wall women can get plenty of guys
to sleep with them or go on dates,
but they have a very difficult time getting guys
who meet their standards to commit to them.
They often get played by the top 10% of guys
who will tell 'em what they want to hear
until they get a chance to sleep with them
and then ghost them afterwards.
At this age, women often realize that the carefree attitude
of I don't need no man no longer serves them well
and they're looking for a real masculine man
to build a family with who will take care of them
and treat them like a lady.
Unfortunately, very few men are masculine.
Their dating pool for these women consists of feminine
and woke men, red-pill men who hate women,
and 50-50 men wanting to split everything fairly.
They can't find a good man who wants to take care of them
because those men are now realizing
they can date much younger women
that they didn't have access to before
or they're already married.
Women are told by society,
they could just have fun when they're young
without consequences.
Around 28 to 32,
many women start looking for a potential life partner,
but they've lost that appeal
that the top 10% of men are looking for.
At this point in life, many women have lost the beauty,
youth, and purity that make them a desirable mate to men.
Men don't want a woman who partied in her 20s
and is now settling for a less attractive provider guy.
No one likes to feel like they're second best
and men don't wanna feel like a woman wasn't interested
in them when she was at her peak,
and now that she's not, she'll settle for him.
Filters like bold glamour and teenager
are making women finally see some of the truth of this
as they realize what they used to look like
compared to now in real time.
Okay, so now let's talk about what the cause
of this problem is.
How do things get so fucked up?
The primary issue is that men and women
have different potential peaks of sexual marketplace value.
Women tend to peak in their early 20s
and men tend to peak in their mid-30s or early 40s.
This of course doesn't mean that all men
and women peak at those times, they're always outliers.
And to be honest, most men don't peak at all
because it requires a lot of work for a man to peak
since his value isn't derived mostly
from looks and youthfulness as a woman's is.
A woman in her 20s has a huge advantage
over a guy in his 20s.
But a man in his 40s has an even bigger advantage
over a woman in her 40s.
Modern technology has exploited these differences
and magnified them,
specifically social media and dating apps.
Women have placed an increased value on appearance
because of the availability of men
that are vying for their attention.
You know, why date a five
when there are nines messaging you all day long.
Constant validation has also contributed
to women's extremely high standards.
Take a look at Igotstandardsbro.com
and you can see just how crazy it is.
Based on US census data,
if you're a woman looking for a single man,
age 20 to 45 of any race, at least six feet tall, not obese,
and making at least 100K a year of income,
you're looking at roughly one out of 300 men.
This is not even taking into account
any non superficial standards women may have for men.
These super high standards give top 10% men
the ability to monopolize the dating market.
Women prefer to date one man at a time,
while a man prefers to get as many women as possible.
The lies that society tells young women
also play a huge part in causing this problem
and making it worse.
Women are told that men and women are the same and equal
which is simply not true.
But because of this mindset,
women try to have casual sex like men
in order to overthrow the patriarchy, but it damages them.
Biologically, men value purity.
Women make it too easy for the top 10% of men to get sex,
giving them no reason to commit.
Women try to be boss babes and say they don't need a man.
- Men are the coolest, but I don't need them to survive.
- You do actually need men to survive and here's why.
Everything that you see around you was built, and created,
and maintained by men.
Everything.
- Dating is much easier for women in their 20s
but much more difficult in their 30s and 40s
because the balance of power shifts dramatically.
They tend to reframe rejection as a loss for the man
instead of seeing it as indicating something they need
to change about themselves are facing the reality
of their superficial standards being too high.
- You guys call me delusion or whatever.
I think I'm, maybe not a 10, let's not go that far,
but like definitely an eight.
- Body positivity also tricks women
into believing that they're still attractive
and beautiful no matter what shape they're in,
even though they don't think the same about men.
An out-of-shape women will demand a man with six pack abs,
claiming it's just her preference.
- This shit still boggles my mind.
If a girl wants a guy who's older, it's a preference.
If a guy wants a girl who's younger,
it's creepy and immature.
If a girl doesn't wanna date a short guy, it's preference.
If a guy doesn't wanna date a girl that's overweight,
he's an asshole who's not focused on the things that matter.
Women have preferences, men have something wrong with them.
- Putting all of this together,
you can see pretty clearly what's happening.
Women's biological programming is to be pickier
with sexual preferences,
and overabundance of men on dating apps and social media
causes women to have even higher standards for men.
A small percentage of men who meet those standards
are the only men women are interested in,
and all of the women are interested in those top 10% of men.
With so many women to choose from,
combined with the sexual liberation of young women,
these men can have sex with many different women
making them much less inclined to commit
to any single woman.
This is not a problem for the younger women
who are living their best life
and not looking to settle down.
But as they get older and want to find a good man
who will provide for them,
they have lost much of the value they once had
and they find it harder and harder to find a man.
In desperation these women go through a cycle
of installing dating apps and trying again,
only to be used for sex again and again,
not understanding why there is no man
who wants to commit to them.
Meanwhile, the bottom 90% of men hopelessly swipe
with no matches left out of the game completely.
Out of desperation,
these men simp by lowering their standards lower and lower,
throwing endless validation at even mediocre women,
inflating their egos and standards
thus perpetuating the cycle and making the problem worse
for everyone except for the top 10% of men.
And that is the ugly truth about modern dating.
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If you're already a top 10% man,
there isn't much I need to tell you
except to get off the treadmill
of endless hookups and validation,
and make sure you have the other areas
of your life squared away.
You're winning the game right now
but what is your long-term objective?
If you're looking for a woman to build a family with,
look for a woman who treats you like a king
and has a very high desire for you.
Be selective, because if you don't,
you could end up losing your money
and kids to a woman you really don't know.
Remember, no matter what your situation is,
you can only change yourself
and adapt to the current state of the game.
We can talk about what's wrong with society
and other people all day long,
and what they should be doing, but it doesn't really matter.
Instead, focus on yourself
and what you can do in your present situation.
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