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Okay, so narcissists and their money.
Oh my gosh.
I mean they talk about
narcissism foals in their money
and how they're never soon parted
and narcissists and their money.
My God, you cannot pry narcissist
away from their money,
like it's insanity and their money.
Especially when it comes to fighting.
When the relationship breaks down,
whether it's a business relationship,
a divorce, or whatever.
I mean, talk about prying it
out of their cold dead hands.
They hoard their money,
like no one else hoarded and hide it
and why, why are they like that?
I mean, they are so cheap.
Why are they like that?
Well, I mean, there are so
many reasons for one thing
you have to understand the personality type.
So let me explain the personality type.
You have to picture
somebody who is completely
and totally empty inside.
This is a person who is basically
starving, gasping for breath,
desperate for air.
This is a person who's basically like
starving in survival mode all the time.
You have to picture person who
has like a black hole inside of them
and they want you to fill it and
you might want to fill it too,
but they can't receive.
So you're left feeling depleted
and yet they're still starving
and so you're feeling totally and
completely empty and depleted,
and yet they're still starving,
and wanting more and more,
and more
because there's this black hole,
because they can't receive.
Okay. So that's why they're there in survival
mode all the time and it cannot be fixed
and so it's scarcity to the utmost
extreme and that's how they feel.
Okay and you can't fix it.
You cannot fix it.
They're like vultures needing an endless
amount of this Narcissistic Supply
and they're always searching for more of it
and always searching for a better source of it.
So money just symbolizes a
source of that
supply and and remember
they need grandiosity.
They feel entitled and so all of that,
you know represents power.
It represents a way of looking
like they can be powerful.
It also represents control.
They can control people through money.
So the more they have,
the more control they have,
the more power they have and
the more they can be powerful over people.
The more people agilate them,
which they certainly love that
they want more adulation.
So the more they have,
the more entitled they are,
the more people are funding
at their feet and so
obviously, that becomes very,
very addictive to them,
very alluring to them they want that and
they don't have any empathy for others.
So they want more and more, and more of this
and they step on whoever they have to,
to get more and more of this.
So they're chasing this as much as they
possibly can on the way up a lot of them.
So this is one the reasons that they hoard
this and then they're going to hide this.
Now, what happens when
the relationship breaks down?
Well, you become
Public Enemy Number One.
Of course, I mean because you're
either for them or against them.
So when you become
Public Enemy Number One,
they're going to want to destroy you.
So now they're going to try to hide it,
they're going to try to hoard it,
they're going to use it against you,
they're going to want to destroy you with it
and they're gonna want to make
sure that you don't get any of it,
of course.
I don't want to give you any of that
money that they earn.
They feel entitled to it.
They don't think that you
should have one single dollar of it.
Even if you help them get it.
They think that they are entitled to it.
I mean, that's just their personality.
So that's how they are
and they believe that it belongs to
them and you shouldn't have any of it.
You should feel guilty for
taking anything from them
and that you should in
fact feel appreciative for
what they earned and what they did for you
and you should you should be grateful for
what they did for you and that's part of it too
and remember, a lot of narcissist also
have a very addictive personality,
the more they get, the more they want,
the more they have and so
they're trying to hoard it as well
and then the other thing about
money is that as they get older,
they will lose their looks.
It does help with them to have more money
because they will have more power
and as they have more power,
even though they don't have
the looks they have this power.
They have this control,
they have all of this money
and and so people will want to be with them
because they have this money.
Narcissist absolutely hate to be alone
and if they have lots and lots of money.
People will still want to be with them.
It helps with that as well because they
will not have as much with the looks.
So people will still
want to be around them
and because they don't
feel like people will
ever want to be with
them just for them.
So they feel like they have
to have some reason
that somebody's going
to want to be with them.
So they feel like people will only want
to be with them if they have money
or power and so they need money,
so that somebody's going
to want to be with them.
For that when they get older or they
need to have looks or something.
So money will give them the ticket
for people to want to be with them,
when they get older because they're going
to lose their looks or something like that.
So they feel like if they had lots
and lots of money and
control and power when
they get older that people
will want to be with them.
So those are some reasons that
narcissist hoard their money.
They just feel like it's a
way for them to have
whatever it is that they want in their life.
It's their ticket to get people to do things,
to get people to agilate
them to have control over people.
So of course, it's their ticket for control and
power and everything that they want in life,
because they feel totally
and completely empty inside.
So it gives them that external sense of value.
So that's why they hoard it.
A number of different reasons.
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and I do have videos by the way,
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I would definitely recommend those
videos on the double life of a narcissist
why a narcissist feels empty inside,
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