what's up YouTube it's your favourite breakup coach here my name of course is
Brad browning and I am the world's number one most trusted expert when it
comes to breakups and reuniting with an ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend now right
here in this brand-new video I'm gonna tell you about four very strong signals
that indicate that your ex is still in love with you now these are things that
your ex might have have done or said since the breakup that will give you
some insight into their current feelings towards you so if you are hoping to get
back together and we want to know you know whether you've still got a chance
of making that happen this video is gonna be very helpful for you
now before I dive into the first sign I should mention that my free quiz tool is
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quiz now after that free quiz my website the second best way to tell whether your
ex is still in love with you is to look for these four signs that I'm about to
cover here in this video now it is definitely still possible that your ex
may may still have feelings for you even if they haven't done any of these four
things I'm about to cover so don't lose all hope if that is the case in your
situation but these signs are very strong indicators that your ex is still
thinking about you and missing you at least to some extent all right and sign
number one is your ex tries to maintain a regular contact with you now I know
this one seems like a bit of a no-brainer
obviously if an ex is reaching out to you regularly it's pretty clear that
they're still thinking about you right well yes it is actually that simple in
some ways but this also becomes a stronger and stronger sign that your ex
is still in love with you if it happens after you've already ignored some of
their calls or texts previously or if they continue to reach out to you
regularly you know for four months after you've initially broken up now if you
have been employing no contact for four weeks already and ignored some or all of
your ex's attempts to to contact you during that time but they're still
trying to reach out to you frequently then that's a very clear sign that they
can't get you out of their head and similarly you know the longer that this
continues after you break up the more it suggests that your ex isn't happy with
the single life and is longing to have having bad
in their life again now the actual substance of your exes messages or calls
is also really important to determining how much you can read into these
attempts to contact you so if they're just you know asking you to to pay the
the phone bill you shared or return their favorite t-shirt or you know
asking you for a good local car mechanic referral in other words you know if it's
all business and no emotion when they contact you then that's a less positive
sign then if they're you know bringing up nostalgic memories or or trying to
make you know happy upbeat Smalltalk and in fact that does actually tie in nicely
with sign number two which is that your your ex seems nostalgic brings up happy
shared memories or or references inside jokes and sexual innuendos now if your
ex is contacting you regularly like I just talked about in sign number one
then that's usually a good sign but again you know if they're what they're
actually saying is all very businesslike and not very you know emotional or
heartfelt then that's not nearly as strong of an indicator as if they seem
to be nostalgic or regularly bringing up you know positive memories and innuendos
now you know I think this one's pretty self-explanatory but the more upbeat and
reminiscent that your ex is when they're talking to you you know if they're doing
things like slipping sexual references or innuendos when they're chatting with
you or or if they seem to be you know reminiscing about those happy times
together or you know even if they just tell you straight up that they're
missing you and they're longing for the for the good old days when you were
still a couple then that is a very clear indication that they're not fully
committed to the breakup and they might be considering taking you back okay I'm
on to sign number three your ex Romain's upset angry or or emotional for weeks or
months after the breakup now you know I fully expected this one to be a little
bit controversial but in my you know 12 plus years of experience as a breakup
coach I'd suggest to you that this is actually often a really good sign now I
mean if you did you know cheat on your ex with their best friend for years if
you'd lie down hurt them for some reason did something bad it's wrong them or you
know if you if you murdered any of your ex's friends or family members yet you
know those sorts of things are obviously gonna create anger and negative emotions
that are gonna last a long time but if you didn't do anything not drastic to to
hurt your ex or to cause them to become angry during the final days of your time
together well then your ex holding on to some some feelings of resentment and
continuing to seem upset or annoyed at you
for the first while after breaking up that can actually be a really positive
sign that they're still emotionally invested in your relationship and they
still have feelings for you now you will need to to get your ex to actually let
go of some of these feelings sooner than later you know if you do want to win
them back and you can learn how to do that by going to breakupbrad.com and
just watching my free video tutorial and I have talked about this before in past
videos but essentially you need to help your ex return to to an emotional
neutral state so that they're receptive to your attempts to to reach out and
rebuild attraction and again learn how you can reset your ex's emotions to this
kind of of neutral state just by watching my free video at
breakupbrad.com because it's it's a lot more than I can cover here in this video
but I do talk about it a lot in that video so breakupbrad.com
okay and finally folks let's move on to the last sign number 4 and this one in
my experience is actually the strongest indicator that your ex is still in love
with you and sign number four is your ex seems to be sending you know mixed hot
and cold signals where it seems like one minute they're saying they miss you and
the next minute they're just you know being cold and distant so here's the
thing if your ex still has feelings for you and I suspect for most of you
watching that is indeed the case at least to some extent then that means
that he or she isn't really fully committed to their decision to break out
in other words you know it's very common for someone to decide to to end a
relationship only to to later feel you know kind of conflicted about that
decision and whether they made the right choice or not now that's why these these
hot and cold mixed messages from your ex are often a really good sign they
indicate that he or she is is conflicted internally and they're wanting to string
you along for a while so that they can keep their options open and decide to
take you back if they so choose now this is a super common behavior and it's not
always intentional on your ex's part but it really does make a lot of sense if
you think about it essentially you know if you're still in love with someone but
but you think breaking up is the right decision logically then you're gonna
want to keep your options open and you're gonna want to you know be able to
choose to get back together down the road so essentially you know your ex is
just trying to keep you around as a back-up plan for for as long as possible
so that they can get back together or at least you know have someone around to be
with once in a while you know when they're feeling lonely and of course
this requires that stringing you along giving you hope one minute and then sort
of just pushing you to this by being cold and distant the next
minute but if your ex is doing this it means that they're not ready to fully
let go and that's almost always because they continue to have you know some sort
of romantic feelings for you at least to a certain degree now do not I repeat do
not allow yourself to be strung along in this way by your ex if you do want to
start over with them and be together in a real relationship with them again in
the future stop it get some help this is you know
basically the same as being friend-zoned essentially which is also something I
really strongly advise against you want your ex to feel pressured into making a
decision so that they know that you're quickly gonna be gone from their life if
they don't cave in to those feelings and ask you to take them back in the near
future now I'm not gonna get into the details of how to do this or how to
escape from this type of situation here in this video
but you can learn exactly what to say and do to recover from this kind of
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