﻿10 Things That Men Do That Accidentally Push Women Away
[0:00:00] First up on the list, seeing a beautiful
woman and calling her beautiful. Yes, you heard me right. Apparently, doing this too much turns off,
freaks out, just annoys a lot of beautiful women. Now, as a guy, I immediately think, “Are you
kidding me?” I mean, if you're beautiful and if I state it, isn't that a nice thing? But,
the more I read into these comments from the women on Reddit, it actually made a
lot of sense why it was upsetting them. First up, the majority of these beautiful
comments were coming from men that they don't even know. Next up, a lot of times when they're
told they're beautiful, apparently they're told this again and again and again and again and again
in the same conversation within 30 seconds. But, the most insightful comment was actually from
a male doctor, who talked about how he didn't get it until he grew out his hair. All of a sudden,
multiple times a day on a shift he's getting stopped, “Oh, you have such beautiful hair.”
People grabbing his hair without him even giving them consent, he's just simply trying to go do his
rounds and he has people stopping about his hair throughout the day. I mean, I don't know about
you, but that would be pretty annoying to me. [Music]
Now, obviously, I'm making some huge generalizations in this video. And if you agree,
disagree, if you've got something to add, guys, I want to hear from you down below in the comments.
Now, this next one I was totally oblivious to, had no idea that apparently women don't
like this but it makes a lot of sense when you think about it and that is after she leaves, you
follow her to her car to try to get her number. I mean, you were having a great conversation,
you were talking and all of a sudden she had to run out. You're like, “I needed to get her number.
I forgot to ask for it.” You've had a couple drinks, you go jogging out and you're chasing
her. All of a sudden, you've got her block and she's wondering who is this guy coming after me.
Now, obviously, the vast majority of guys don't mean anything by this. We simply
just wanted to have the chance to get her number. But, think about the situation you're putting her
in. She's now outside alone with someone who is stronger that she doesn't know very well and,
yeah, you've put her in a very different situation than you were just a few minutes ago in the club.
Next up, jokingly using your strength to lift her up or to keep her in place. Apparently, women
do not like it when you put your hands on them without permission and you don't allow them to
move or you move them without them expecting it. So, if you already know the person if you're
close if it's your wife, you know, and this is where in the comments it kind of like,
“Hey, I don't mind if my husband does this,” but somebody I don't know especially maybe somebody
that looks like they could get violent someone that's had a couple drinks and puts his arm up
to stop me from going anywhere. Personally, I've never done this,
but I do know guys that are very large and let's say when they've had a few drinks they have no
problem putting their arms putting their hands around people. You know, using their strength and
for them it's just all fun and games. But for the ladies, no, they're pretty clear, don't do this.
Next up, the small white lies that she knows you're telling. Example, you're late again and
you tell her it's work, but she knows that's not the case because she remembered that last week
you said you would have this afternoon off. And, I get it you didn't want to bother her
with the details that you were actually meeting up with your ex because you had to settle that
issue with the kids. But, here's the thing, that little white lie that she just caught you in,
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So, the next thing a lot of guys do that apparently scares women is asking them
where they live, do they live alone right off the bat. Now, I understand why a lot of guys do this
is, hey, you're just curious like where is she from, is she from this area,
is it worth me pursuing the conversation. Maybe you simply are looking for a connection.
You know Chicago pretty well, you're familiar with New York City or Miami, wherever she
is from or you're at and you want to get an idea just to say do we know people in common.
[0:05:04] Unfortunately,
a lot of women especially when they don't know you very often are thinking, is this guy a stalker,
is he going to try to track me down, is he wanting to find out, okay, there's no one at my
apartment and he's going to use that against me. You know, a lot of women apparently make things up
about how they live with their parents, they've got all this other stuff because they don't like
that question being asked too soon. I do think it's a fine question to ask after you have already
been deep into a conversation, maybe you've met up with a person, you've seen them a few times,
you know them from work. It's just, you know, out of curiosity, but you got to be careful with this
because apparently it creeps out a lot of women. Now, this next one seems obvious to me, but I can
see why some guys may just think it's funny. So, you connect with her on that dating app and you
can actually see location. She's actually in the same train car or she's relatively close
that you can see her in the bar and you say, “Hey, I can see you, but you can't see me.”
Apparently, the women that talked about this said this creeps them out and scares them
and they immediately want to leave the area, but they're scared to because they feel you may follow
them out and that, yeah, let's just not do this, guys. I agree, this one just is not good news.
Trying to convince her you are a nice guy. First up, why do you need to do this? I don't know,
this is something I've never had an issue with. I mean, and it's been a while since
I've been dating. But, maybe you guys disagree. Let me know down in the comments.
And I did see a quote that I thought was pretty interesting and the guy said that,
“Hey, there's a big difference between nice guys and guys that are nice.” I actually agree. I think
the latter is where men should want to be. I think Jordan Peterson talked about this,
men should be dangerous. And that just simply means you have the ability to defend yourself.
You have power, but you choose to withhold it. You choose not to go around hurting people, but you
are someone that could if that was the path that you chose, but you choose not to be that person.
Any of you guys, Jordan Peterson fans? If that is you, do me a favor and smash
that like button. Oh, yeah, we love JP. Hitting on a woman when she is trapped. She is
working at your event. You're in this position of power. You can fire her and, yet, you are choosing
to hit on her. You're there, she's the bartender. She is your server, she's your waitress.
You are driving the taxi. There is this one story the woman saying, “Yeah. I'm in a locked moving
car and the guy is flirting with me who's driving the car and he's asking me for my number.”
Now, what she was able to do is get his number because she kind of flipped
the situation. But, guys, if you have a woman trapped figuratively or literally,
you know that's not a great time to be flirting with her and trying to get something from her.
Now, this next one I've got mixed feelings about and that is offering a woman a ride. Apparently,
women do not like this when guys stop, slow down, and, you know,
offer a ride, pull right in front of them. I don't think you should ever cut them off.
On the other hand, offering somebody a ride especially if the weather turns, if it's cold
outside. I remember one time I offered a woman ride just because she was simply walking down
the road, I'm like, “What is going on here?” Very strange story, it actually turned out to be
I think a woman of the night and I just simply dropped her off where she wanted to go. I just
I tried – generally, I thought I was trying to be a nice person. What I – and I’ve given guys
rides too, like it's not -- something actually I did quite a bit when I was stationed in Florida.
People always seem to be walking down the roads. Point being is I can see now that I've got three
daughters, another one on the way, it is something that I would not want them to jump in a car with
a random man offering them a ride. So, I can see the point, but I have to say that, you know,
it's sad we're in a world that, yeah, we just can't be nice to each other. And I think generally
many people are just trying to be nice, but there are people that take advantage of this.
Now, this next one's interesting and I agree with it because I've had people do this with
me in the vehicle. I've actually never had a woman do this, but, guys, I don't know
what it is about when we drive, sometimes we get incredibly aggressive. That road rage kicks in,
somebody cuts us off and we just let go. And this oftentimes is a habit. It's the way
people they drive and then they react. Again, I haven't had a woman do this, but I've had multiple
of my friends. I've had people in my family, this is just simply the way they are when they drive.
And it scares me because I just don't drive like that and to have this person right there in
control the vehicle who I'm not sure about their stability and I don't -- I just wouldn't react.
Now, one interesting thing I saw a woman on Reddit talk about how
this was actually a great thing because what her husband did, the man she eventually married,
he would sing to the people that would cut him off and he'd be like, “What are you doing you
crazy woman?” And, apparently she thought it was just funny the way that he reacted.
And that's what everyone talked about going off on the tangent on this, they were, everyone was like
it just simply shows the way that this person has rage and the way that they deal with and
they manage anger. So, I could see where that would be something that could cause red flags.
Next up, apparently a lot of women are scared off if you won't give up, if you're overly persistent.
And this one is interesting because as men, I feel that we have to go after things in life and
we need to be a bit aggressive. And I mean that in a good way because if you are passive and you
just sit back and wait for things to happen to you, life is going to pass you by. But,
I think a lot of us apply this too much to trying to pressure another person.
[0:10:02] And you would read the examples
and they seem pretty obvious, just continuing to send texts after her again and again saying,
“No interest. Please leave me alone. Stop. Stop. Stop.” Yet, many of us have heard about these
relationships in which you were persistent and she actually came and you know it worked out.
You hear these stories, you know, from our grandfathers and stuff like that. So,
this is where it's very mixed. I would say, again, it's something that I think you need
to try and you need to put forth effort to have a solid relationship with somebody.
But that being said, there's that line between being just a psycho and overly aggressive and just
simply, you know, hey, giving it a shot. Perhaps giving it a shot is asking twice. And maybe,
you know, if you notice that it wasn't an -- a straight up no. I mean, if it's no, no means no.
But this is an area that, you know, I'd love to hear from you guys in the comments
below to expand on this. You know, what is being overly aggressive? What does it mean?
When should you give up? When should -- when, you know, again, you know, I want to hear from
you guys down below. I appreciate your wisdom. I appreciate you guys adding to the conversation.
So, what video to watch next? How about things that men are oblivious to that apparently women
really pay attention? I mean, they notice these things and we just, yeah, they fly right by us.
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