now going on a date in your 40s is definitely different than dating in your 20s so how many
x's do you have well i have five x's and you're 46 well no i'm actually 49 but i just stretched the
truth just a little bit on my profile okay keep an open mind you're so hot ignore and do you have any
other baggage or personal tragedies i need to be aware of so much baggage but i haven't done any
emotional healing so you're gonna discover them about six months into our relationship
ah thanks for the heads up so you are looking for a relationship then right well how do you
define a relationship what well what i found that works best for me is that you keep it
strictly monogamous with me however i keep it just a little bit casual uh yes waiter um i'll
have a dirty martini with a side of cyanide pills please so you want to get out of here excuse me
well we might as well hook up i mean you got a babysitter for the night very good
point let's do it now as much as dating in your 40s might feel just a little rough there's also
some silver lining so here are three reasons why dating in your 40s can be better than your 20s
number one is that you get what it is that you see once people are in their 40s you kind of just get
the picture of who they really are i mean think about a guy in his 20s and 30s now what we're
really trying to do when we're dating someone in our 20s and 30s is we're trying to predict
what type of man that guy is going to be in the future and this is really impossible but when we
reach a certain age and it's usually around your late 30s to 40s we kind of just are who we are so
when you're dating in your 40s and you go with the guy and he's not really what it is that you want
at least you can see the man for who he is and not some facade my name is adam lodolce i've developed
what we call the seven little love steps over the past decade of helping women get out there
and attract long-lasting love and we have a little love step called little of step number two where
we create your love vision and when you have a love vision and you are crystal clear about the
man and relationship you really want well dating your 40s can actually be very effective and if you
want to learn all the little love steps you can learn for free at lovestrategies.com the second
reason why dating your 40s is better than dating your 20s is because you know who you are now the
same logic also applies to you as a person now i even think back to myself when i was single in my
20s i mean my entire life mission and my purpose in life would change literally about every two
years and it was right around the same time when i met jessica and i started this company when i
started to really settle into who i was which ultimately made dating a lot easier for me because
then i knew what type of person i really wanted so it really can be easier to date when you're
in your 40s and beyond because you're just more settled into who you are and reason number three
is that when you're in your 40s and beyond you can really start to trust your instincts about people
now when you're in your 20s the advice of just trust your instincts really isn't the best advice
here's why because you're horny inexperienced 20 year old self's instincts will always gravitate
to that tall charming guy who only booty calls you every other week but when you're in your 40s
you are done with all of that and your instincts for getting involved with the wrong people get
much more honed in and the data also supports this research actually tells us that instincts are only
really useful when we have real life experience in that domain so if you haven't really dated
that much or you don't have much relationship experience then your instincts might not be as
helpful let's say that i wanted to start investing in and purchasing art for my house for me to just
go around to different art galleries and just trust my instincts on what's good art and what's
bad art well that would be really dumb and useless because i have absolutely no experience in this
domain it's only until i've gotten some real life experience and started really reading up
on it and learning as much as i can about art and going to lots of galleries when i would start to
actually be able to trust my instincts so think of your love life just like shopping for fine
art i mean your 20s and 30s have given you the experience to know what it is that you really want
who's fake who's real who's going to add value in your life versus who's going to cost you thousands
of dollars and wasted time and effort who's fake and who's real trust those instincts enjoy the
process and let's go find you your mana lisa get it manalisa mona lisa that's it i retire i'm done