hi everyone I'm Adrienne Everheart your feminine energy dating a relationship
coach and in this video I'm going to talk about why it's a good idea to stay in
touch with your ex now before you say wait a minute
Adrienne you don't understand my ex is a psycho I have absolutely no reason to
want to stay in touch with him well this video is maybe not for you but if you've
dated a man a couple of times and you really liked him and just for one reason
or another it didn't work out or for those of you who are fans of my abcs to
get him back program if you do want your ex back you know you've had some
separation and you realized that it would really be a lot better off if you
could reconnect with your ex or if you still love him very much and want him
back this video is for you so it's even for ladies that have had a couple of
wonderful dates that have just kind of not really gone anywhere to you know
wanting your ex back so stay tuned to this video I'm gonna tell you exactly
why and how to stay in touch with your ex so as always thank you for joining me
on my channel if you like my content and you enjoy learning more about your
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do hit subscribe and as always I love to hear from you in the comments section
after this video so let's talk about the formula for getting a man back into your
life or having a man in your life at all the formula to really build a
relationship so a lot of you know in college I studied communications and one
of the big things I talked about is proximity so by your ex staying in touch
with you your having a certain element of proximity with him that is needed now
flashback to years ago you had that guy friend that didn't want to date you he
just wanted to hang out with you and you totally felt comfortable with him giving
you like a back massage and he became one of the girls well this
guy was very smart because he was doing one of the most powerful tools in
creating a lasting connection with someone and that is proximity you have
to be near them so a lot of times women write me and they say what should i do
my ex texted me today and I don't want to text him I wouldn't be in a
relationship I can't be just his friends and I say whoa whoa whoa pump the brakes
for a second because what you really want to do is continue to have this
proximity and frequency with him because that has to be there someone just
doesn't appear back into your life and boom one an instant relationship with
you there's a part of us that actually believes we just get back together and
that that's the way it is we're back together now it's a couple and it's not
true you're going to fail what you need to do
is begin to date again you have to date again and work through your current
boundaries because you're a different woman now
then the break-up he's a different man you got to figure out what didn't work
and how to get around that through dating so when your ex sends you a text
or stops by your job to say hi or whatever it may be this is where you
want to practice being warm and just open forum attitude like what are you
bringing me like what is new what is this man have to say I had an ex not too
long ago contact me and he just said I really really need to talk to you I
really have some things I need to tell you and I was like I really have no
interest in this man romantically I'm happily married woman but I I'm gonna
just give him open forum and I did and it was a really for him you know very
cathartic thing for me it was just really more very curious and interesting
so at the least what you're gonna walk away with it's just a little bit of
curiosity solved and just you know what's up with this guy what does he
want to talk about give him open forum do not have contact with your ex and
work on the problem figure out what happened over text it's gonna have to
happen over dating a lot of date so let's move
on to the next one which is frequency so let's say your ex sends you one text and
a whole month goes by and he sends you another text and then maybe two or three
days later he sends a follow-up text you are now experiencing frequency you have
to have frequency ladies if you're just dating a man he has to be near you live
somewhere in your town or nearby enough and he has to date you enough frequently
to get to know you on a regular basis this has to be part of the deal so
ladies if your ex texts you and it go he goes a long time without texting you
again again I get a lot of emails and messages over at I heart love Academy I
don't want to be just his friend he's texting me like I'm just a friend and I
always say hang in there just let it unfold see what this guy is trying to
rebuild with you that's the name of the game when it comes back to getting your
Gipp and getting back together with your ex or even fixing a broken marriage is
that you two have to be near each other and it has to over time get more and
more frequent of the visits so a big thing that you need to have in
reconnecting with your ex is curiosity curiosity is just naturally very
alluring to us it makes us interests in a person we want to know what's up
that's why in the ABCs to get him back one of the biggest things I do is I help
you rebuild your life because when he this man comes back around we don't want
him to just assume you are the same person or that you have just been
wounded and damaged this whole time and then he comes back and up into your life
and and you know you're like a plant that's slowly getting revived again by
the sunlight no we want you to be thriving without this man I want you to
do everything in your power to begin to thrive in your life even though you're
miserable even though you want him back even though you're lonely and there's no
one to date in your town you have got to flip your perspective on these things
because as long as you're down in the you're not gonna be attractive to anyone
and I want you to learn how to naturally and your feminine energy be attractive
to o men not just that one guy or that one guy that you happen to notice o men
this is where you get your power your powerful feminine energy and being
attractive and comfortable in your body and knowing your boundaries with all men
not just the ones you like so when you have had this rich juicy full life the
man is gonna have curiosity about you so ladies this is where a lot of times we
go wrong in even early dating or reconnecting with our ex is that we just
go all-in we lay all our cards on the table we dump everything out and we see
the guy every single day he wants to see us and we go away and we sleep with him
the first month of knowing him you know and it just moves so fast and the
curiosity gets run dry very quickly now no doubt this man does not know
everything about you but the thing that keeps that frequency going where he's
constantly coming around and getting more and getting more and getting more
that also be in Safed when the curiosity begins to fade you see and then before
you know it you're experiencing a lapse in proximity he's out of town he's not
around he has to take a job in another city you see one really feeds into
another so the more that you keep your life rich and full and juicy and your
world isn't just about him or the relationship but you have a lot of
amazing things going on and you also don't spill them all a big thing with my
husband is he always wants to know what I'm doing because I don't tell him
everything I'm doing and so he's very curious about me and wants to know what
I'm up to and I will just head out the door and say I'm going to yoga I'm going
on a bike ride or I think I want to do this this weekend or whatever and it's
just whatever I want to do and I think that's a great part of keeping a
marriage full of Attraction is having that curiosity there so when that X
comes around and he's texting you once in a while
he's curious about you he wants to know about you and so you can let him know
well yeah I've had I felt like you know I've had some good time apart I was able
to start a new dance class period wait for him to ask the questions and do the
male job to pursue alright so I hope that these tips on what to do
if your ex contacts you have been really really helpful now I have a program that
is tailored to helping you really attract and get your ex back and I
always tell everyone does it will absolutely work every single time with
every ex no it doesn't but what it does do is it will call forth the man you're
meant to be with now you can go over to I heart love Academy or my Instagram
page and at any time you will see testimonies from women that my program
works the ABCs to get him back works so I absolutely am confident it will work
in your life in a very positive and powerful way if you decide to give it a
chance the link is below in the description and if you want something
quick you can start working with today I have an e-book called the 500 ways to
talk to a man it really does contain tons of scripts examples and ways for
you to get inside your feminine energy body so when you talk to a man he
actually hears you he's not just hearing directions and guidance and what it is
you want from your masculine energy side he's hearing your heart and that's
ultimately what makes a man give up all his freedom and decide to marry you and
claim you is your wonderful beautiful red beating heart he must protect it
claim it and have it as his very own and so that is one of the wonderful
beautiful parts about energy is it gets you guys back to this real basic
beautiful place of being as humans as two very different humans both with
their each individual energy alright everybody if you like my channel make
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alright everybody I'm sending you the best not much love bye bye