Have you ever tried something and you just did not feel successful? You may be
missing these 5 crucial steps.
These days, it is so easy to compare ourselves with other successful people.
We have so many avenues to focus on all these other people out there that are
successful. And that causes us sometimes to feel unsuccessful. And then we start
to wonder, you know, like there's something wrong with this because it's
not happening for us. Right. But you got to really consider though, you don't know
what they're doing behind the scenes. You know, you can see a video, you can see a
social media post, you can see them out in public. But you don't know what
they're doing in their private life that literally sets them up for success. And
the good thing is we've been able to talk to these successful people. And talk
to these gurus and ask them like, "What do you do? What do you do? How you making
this happen?" And what's really cool is there's a lot
of similarities amongst what successful people do. And so, we want to
share some of our findings with you, so you don't give up. Have you ever wanted
to give up before? Like pretty much all the time. We... The experience so that we're
going through is this is that there are certain steps you have to do. And when
you don't do them, you're going to feel like you want to give up. You you fall into
that category that so many of us fell into. A feeling like you're not
successful. Because we, like Kim just said, if we stop doing those particular
activities, you're going to feel like giving up. Like it's not even worth it. But let's
show you what these are. We got it listed out for you here really what to pay
attention to and what to focus on. So, number one. And these are some of the
things that we found for other people. That are successful. Absolutely, yeah.
Absolutely. We didn't come up with these, we our success pattern gatherers. Because
we want it, we want to do good. We want our efforts and our energy to follow all
the way through and produce a great result. So, let's go through the list here
of what it takes. So, number 1, You have to start seeing yourself
differently. Not only externally but also internally.
Really in your mind, you need to see yourself as being successful. Start
counting your successes, start collecting the evidence around you of
every little tiniest success that you have. Your mind literally, your mind has
to be the driver of what is going to happen tomorrow, what is going to happen
next weekend, what's going to happen this month. You have to be the one inside your
mind creating the visual and seeing yourself of accomplishing these steps,
accomplishing your goals, how you're gonna interact with people. But you got
to create the video inside your mind of it happening. You don't wait to see if
things are going to work out. You produce your own movie inside your
mind that it is going to work out. That's what successful people do. If they see
themselves being successful. Okay, number 2 is all about language. There's
external language and how you talk to people and internal language them how
you talk about yourself. And everything else that's going on your
life. But you have two parts of your language that you've got to master and
change. Because when I don't, when I don't manage my internal dialogue. It can get
out of control and and be quite distracting and destructive. And usually
our internal dialogue is what starts first. And then after a while, it
ends up coming out of our mouths. And we begin to say things that aren't
successful. Or have, you know, language about ourselves that just doesn't breed
success. You can you can literally listen to a person and find out if they're
going to be successful or not by how they talk. Because what comes out of
their mouth is only a sample of what's going on inside of their head. And if
they are doubtful and they're discouraged and they hate on things,
that's only a sample of what's going on inside their mind. I mean we
really consider what comes out of your mouth is the sample of the big pie
inside your head. So, maybe you ought to listen to yourself of what kind of
language you're having. And it's time to change it. It's got to be more of a
language of the hope, the wish, the desire, that want. And move
in that direction. And if you can start talking that way, then maybe you can get
it inside your noggin. It's time for a visual and a language upgrade. Yeah, it
has to happen. Those two govern a lot of where your behavior comes from. Okay,
number 3. You got to meet new people. And she is an expert at this. In fact,
it's kind of like her job, her assignment. Because she just loves meeting new
people. When I have like a lot of relationships out there, I feel so
successful. And I know that as I build my relationships with so many different
people that I meet, they have ideas, they have experienced, they
have opportunities, they have... They know people that I don't already know. And so,
a big part of success is to get out there and meet new people. Other people
have two things you're looking for. One, they have experience that you can pull
from. And number two, they expand your ideas. Oh, and there's number 3. And
number three, they're fun to hang out with at the fire pit. But they know other
people. They know other people. That you know, yeah. The people that they know, they
know other people to introduce you to, to help you with that. So, you can
check in with yourself. Have you met any new people in the last month. Yeah.
Have you met any new people in the last two weeks. And if you are low on that
experience, time to meet some new people. Get outside, go meet people. There's a
plenty of events that are going on in your local town, you're a local place
where you live, Did I say town? Most of... Do people live in towns
anymore? Cities? No, they're still towns. But wherever you live, there's
some kind of village. Wherever you live, there's some kind of
activity going on, go get involved with that activity. Meet people. People are
literally the liquid gold of life. It's so awesome. Before I move on to this
one though. The next to... The next one. I have to say, sometimes I
know that it can be a little bit intimidating to meet new people. So a
super simple way to begin to practice getting to know people is just like at
the grocery store, when you're in the grocery line, just begin to pay attention
to the people that are behind you, the people are in front of you. Ask them
questions, talk to them. "How are you doing? Oh do you have kids?
Oh is this shirt it's just your child?" And just start having conversations with
people. You know, it was just right around you. And as you begin to cultivate those
little tiny relationships, you know at the grocery store, it will help you to
open up your mouth and get that verbal conversation going. So that when you are
in other places, you'll feel more confident as you talk to people. So, start
super simple. And just start with, you know, the grocery store. And then that'll
help you to feel more comfortable, more confident in introducing yourselves to
many other people. And when you meet people, you don't have to help fix things.
You don't have to know everything. Really what you're practicing is being
friendly. Yeah. That's why you really are working on this. Are you even a
friendly person. But that's the sign of success is if you like meeting new
people. And that's something you can practice and get better at. Okay, number
four. You got to stick with your ideas longer. You got make got to stick with
them longer. When you got a great idea and you're doing something about it,
you got to stick with your ideas longer because it's those who follow through
even when all the tough things happen, the difficult things happen. Because they
are going to happen. And you think like, "Oh, these are signs that I should never
do this. And I should stop." And it's like, No, that's just a rock in the road. It's
just a it's a pit in the road. You got to drive through or drive around. I
mean, we know people who one little problem comes up and they just quit. Done,
over. Oh my goodness. Successful people plow their way through life.
In fact, success people know that when they encounter an obstacle, they
understand. That this is just part of the process. That's when you call your friends and
say, "What are you doing if this problem happen?" And that's what I do. And then you
got your visual your language that works your way through
those problems, right? So, you got tp just stick with your ideas.
Stick with your ideas. And follow them all the way through. Yeah, you're going to learn and
get smarter and better and smarter and better at it. So, if you keep always
restarting, you're going to burn out, you're going to burn out. Okay, got that one? Okay,
next one is, if you want to be successful, you help other people reach their
successes. Because when you only are working on your success, and your only
focus on yourself, you you're not going to figure it out as much as if you would
find somebody who has a goal and jump in and help them. Because I don't know why
but when we help others, we're super creative. When we try to help ourself,
we sit there going, I have no ideas. But if we... If a friend walked over to
your house and said, "I got a problem. Can you help me?" You come up with ideas.
Come up with all these solutions and possibilities. You know
what it is? This is what it is. This is what's going on. You're so free to
give your friend ideas because they have to go do the ideas, right? So, this is what
you do: You help other people reach their goals and every time you do
that, you're going to realize, "Man, maybe I should do this."
Well, what you're going to realize is what is coming out of your mouth is exactly
what the best ideas, best advice for yourself. Your best ideas come out
when you're helping somebody else solve their challenge of getting towards their
goal. So, yeah. Tell you what, these five right here you see on this chart, the
five you see over here, this is what it takes. And we do these. And when we do
them, it works. And when we don't, we're back to the, "Why am I doing this? I should
give up. What was me?" So, if you're in the what was me?
I'm not blessed. I'm not in the right frame of...I am not lucky. I wasn't born into the
right family so I can't be successful. Success is a literal step-by-step
process. And what is success anyway? Success is like, they use that word like
if you earn lots of money, you're supposed to be successful? Some of those
people aren't happy. So, having money doesn't mean you're successful.
You know? There are so many ways to have success. It's just you get to just
define what success means for you. Money is not a form of success. Losing 100
pounds is not a sign of success. True success is when you are happy in the
journey. That's when you know you're successful is when you enjoy what you're
doing. And these 5 steps will help you enjoy the journey. And then you will find
that that is actually what success is. Okay,
pretty simple. Start with number 1, get going. Find those new friends. Way to go.
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