Trump and Trudeau!! What could go wrong?! What always happens when these two get
together on an international stage? They're always trying to "Out Alpha," each
other they're trying to out jocky each other and show higher social status and
Mexico's presidents thrown in there too but he plays a very small supporting
role in this interaction so they're signing a new trade agreement and we're
gonna break down this video clip and look at all the subtle nuances and body
language and tonality more important social maneuver so you can understand
what they're doing and at the end of the video I want you to let me know in the
comments below who you think came out looking better between Trump and Trudeau
now I feel like Trump looks at Trudeau kind of like a little kid
kind of like a little brother or a little cousin where he kind of thinks
some stuff he does is kind of funny and cute but when he does things he doesn't
like he gets really annoyed and I feel like Trudeau just really dislikes Trump
overall so he's always just worried about coming out on top and in this
video we're gonna pick apart all the little things that you may not notice so
you can understand it and use these things in your life next time someone is
making a maneuver to make you look bad whether it be a work or anywhere else
now you can address that and more importantly know what to do so let's
start watching this video and breaking it down and tell me what you think at
this entire video clip is over 20 minutes so I'm gonna chunk this thing
down and just show the real highlights of it pointing out the sub communication
in the body language is little things that go on that you may not notice that
really show what's going on in these guys heads especially Trump and Trudeau
and at the end there's a handshake I'm sure you've seen all the handshake
battle videos but it's unbeliev it's like nothing I've ever seen from trope
but it's funny so that'll be at the end so let's just jump it I'm honored to be
here with President and raki pena nieto become a great friend a little bit of
struggle there of Mexico and prime minister justin trudeau who has also
become a great friend this has been a battle and battles sometimes make great
friendships so it's okay okay look at his reaction right there all he does is
squint squinting is not agreeing squint is showing stress and dis
griemann so Trump says it's been a battle but sometimes battles make great
friendships and look at this still that I stopped it on that's his response just
a squint at him that's a great battle sometimes make great friendships so it's
really terrific so we can kind of see a little bit of the tension off the bat
already countries to replace this will be your last day in office so that's a
very auspicious day when you can sign something so important but we really do
appreciate it I think I can speak for Justin when I say okay did anything
stand out to you right there Trump said you know congratulate you and I think I
can speak for Justin when I said it and they seemed normal in this instance but
do you think for a second that Trump is gonna say that if he's got the president
of China next to him or Putin next to him no it's taking a - much familiarity
by saying you know I think I can speak for so-and-so well if you do that and
you're not on that level of respect with the other person they're not gonna be
cool with that and they're gonna take offense that so I guarantee I guess I
can't guarantee anything I've seen some things that surprised me but I'm
guessing Trump would not take that Liberty to say that and when he does say
that and Trudeau goes along with it it shows a bit of authority he's the leader
listen I can speak for you like you know my son hey hi kids probably speak for
little Timmy here he wants those chocolate chip cookies don't you Timmy
but I can speak for my little buddy Trudeau here it's the same kind of
dynamic we really do appreciate it I think I can speak for Justin when I say
pushers by General Motors which affects thousands of Canadian and American
workers and their families are a heavy blow make no mistake we will stand up
for our workers and fight for their families and their communities and
Donald it's all the more reason why we need to keep working to remove the
tariffs on steel and aluminum between our countries all right there's Trump's
time to make a little non verbal rebuttal to something that he said so he
says we need to work to remove the tariffs on steel and what is Trump do he
holds it together he gives a little bounce and then he goes in that little
tight frown what do you think that means well it means stress and disagreement
just like the squinting eyes from Trudeau less easy to remove the tariffs
on steel and aluminum between our country holds it there - this is the old
Trump half proud not liking it okay so now they've both shown displeasure in
the other person when they've said different things one in one new chapter
in our shared history thank you very much
alright that might look like a small thing but you see Trudeau made a little
gesture let's go Trump completely ignores him you know some people may
have acknowledged like oh yeah let's go this way
watch completely ignore it and don't think Trump didn't hear that and see
that he did just completely ignored because he doesn't want to take
direction from Trudeau doesn't want him to be able to show authority over him
Trudeau shakes all their hands nobody else does he wants to stand out a little
bit and you'll see him trying to stand out a little bit this entire portion of
this here
okay there he goes what is Trump say he looks at him and says let's go he's
leading he's controlling the frame and what do they both say yeah let's go
let's do it it's kind of weird how he has paused in here like he's looking at
his pen and look at he knows where to sign look at him kind of stalling here
now let's go now what is this look at Trudeau they're all signing and he stops
and looks up clearly it's four photos clearly he wants to look like the cool
dude who's not all into it and you'll frantically signing he's just chilling
taking his time look at this guy I'm gonna play it back look how long he does
this how weird is that all right everyone starts signing oh he
was he was gonna try to start the stare early so he signs quickly and then one
two three four four seconds he just stares out into the open
we were through let's see if he does it again
there he is there he is he wants to be look at the solemn look he wants to be
the solemn man well everyone else is sided that was his move
I wonder if you look at the Canadian press if a lot of the pictures that they
use in the in the magazines and the newspapers and the internet actually use
those photos of him looking like that there's a reason he's going to that link
to do that nobody else's okay what happened there what do you notice which
of these is not like the others so the Mexican president holds his up and Trump
decides he's gonna follow suit and hold his up with the Mexican president he
says we might as well hold these up you think Trudeau's going along with it
because when he said we might as the whole d-sub who's he talking to
we'll only Trudeau who doesn't have his
who knows not doing it know once again he's bucking the trend
he's not following Trump Trump's not his Big Daddies go into long lengths to
point that out and these are some serious these are some serious critiques
you know these are some small things were pointed out and the Trop handshake
here isn't just just a second premier and I think it happens because Trump is
kind of miffed that he didn't hold it up at this point you know it's a small
thing but Trump definitely lets stuff like that gets under his skin and he
wants a little repercussion for that so he's gonna do that but you know I feel
like the Mexican president here I don't know if he just doesn't care
cuz it's his last day just doesn't care but he looks a little bit outclassed
just in his confidence would you agree that he just looks a little less sure of
himself he's not sure what to do he's much quicker to follow everybody else
anytime anyone does something he's following right along and you didn't get
to see all the different nuances that were kind of boring but he's just
basically very supplicated and that's likely because he feels he doesn't want
to do something wrong or say something wrong what if I say something in Trump
the boisterous one comes on top of me and makes me look bad or Trudeau who
says something a lot of people feel this way when they're at work or when they're
out Pub liquor anyway we're on a first date
maybe they don't want to be too boisterous to the maitre d when they go
up there because they're afraid that they can't handle themselves they don't
know what to say if you've ever felt this way if you're not always very
comfortable when you're out there I'd suggest you take the social
invincibility checklist you can touch your click up here in the left corner or
go to charisma matrix calm /si checklist and you can get that for free and it's
gonna go through five things it's gonna help you become competent in those
situations so you can go in like a strongman all right let's see this let's
see this head Jay here i watch this this is an unbelievable okay
he actually grabs his arm and and pulls his hand over watch this grabs the arm
first haha and then pulls it over into the handshake he's not going anywhere
with that arm that is a very very alpha move that's a move that says I'm
controlling the situation try to do something that's a pretty funny way for
him to end it there's been a lot of back and forth and he decides to edit that
way now one thing I want to point out you know I feel like I try to keep a
very even keel I have no bias when it comes to these
breakdowns but this one I think favored Trump a little bit and I want to show
something that Trudeau did much better than Trump did here at the end and it's
pronouncing Mexico's presidents name watch the way Trump struggles and
Labor's through this I'm honored to be here with President and Ricky Pena Nieto
and now listen how Trudeau says it good morning thank you all for being here and
thank you to presidents Trump and Veneto I don't care what side you're on it
sounds much more competent and professional when you can pronounce a
name the right way so I think Trump came out negative one on that even though
that doesn't have anything to do with him specifically compared to Trudeau it
definitely does have an overall impact on the way that the crowded people view
you now there's a video floating around the web of Trudeau walking in
to the g20 conference and he looks like somebody who has no friends at a party
and Trump's there too and I analyzed this video a little while ago if you
haven't seen it I highly suggest you click here to watch it
it's really funny it's got a good also breakdown of some things that you can
use if you're having a situation like that maybe you go into the cafeteria or
something you don't know anybody how can you look confident in my status and
challenge situation like that so you can click right here and watch that and I'll
talk to you over in that video