nithyanandesvara paramashiva samarambham nithyanandesvari parashakti madhyamam |
asmata acharya paryantam vande guru paramparam ||
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Everywhere,
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Today's subject: Demystifying Tantra
Please understand
The word "Tantra" simply means technique : methodology.
In Sanatana Hindu Dharma
all methodology for manifesting the state, space, powers and being of Parama Shiva is called Tantra.
That's it
Please understand
state, space, powers and being of Parama Shiva.
Manifesting that is called Tantra.
Any methodology adopted for the purpose is called Tantra.
In course of time it got associated with multiple traditions like Shakta,
Buddha,
Samana.
In multiple Sampradayas (orders) - Traditions of Hinduism.
it got identified, associated, started having different connotations
and then comes the anti Hindu narratives, anti Hindu forces, Hindu phobic forces
contains this word and boxes it inside gory sexual activities and orgies.
Without any understandings and reality
I tell you, Tantra is the most anti-sex practice.
In real tantric practice
whether you do it with your own being
or you do it with some beings outside.
It just liberates you from everything
felt as a need or urge. Understand -
food is not wrong,
but urge pushing you to eat is wrong
Sex is not wrong,
but the urge making you lose your balance and your integrity
and pushing you to do the act is wrong.
Understand.
Anything which breaks your integrity is wrong, not the act.
In last few days' Satsang, I was insisting on cutting down the solid food intake.
Bring it to 10% of the calorie which you are consuming usually.
Just 10%.
If you used to consume 2,000 calorie bring it to 200 calorie
If you are used to consume 1000 calorie; bring it to 100 calorie.
It's almost like I'm asking you to do fasting.
Just increase the liquid and balance your routine.
Understand.
if you have started practicing; you will realize -
Not having solid food so much of irritation anger
All the non integrity emotions manifesting in you.
Tiredness will disappear.
Boredom will disappear.
But suddenly you will feel too much energy.
You don't know what to do.
I tell you
Eating is not wrong,
But the urge pushing you to eat is wrong.
and Sex is not wrong.
The urge which makes you lose your integrity for sex is wrong
Tantra works on Completion.
Making you manifest the state, space, powers and being of Parama Shiva.
Listen carefully.
Multiple, various techniques to experience the state of ParamaShiva
like Unclutching, Completion.
To experience the space of Paramashiva
like integrity, authenticity, responsibility, enriching, causing.
To experience the powers of Paramashiva.
Oneness, Initiation, Aushada, Mani, Mantra Aushada.
To manifest the being of Paramashiva
Deeksha, Ultimate initiation, Communion -Oneness with Guru -
who is embodiment of Parama Shiva;
makes you manifest the being of Parama Shiva.
All these various levels
Multiple techniques are adopted, methodologies are adopted.
All of them are basically called as Tantra.
Understand.
Tantra is the most anti-sex tradition.
If you believe, if you are told that Tantra is sexual tradition.
You are cheated.
Be very clear; you are cheated.
Small story :
Last day of the Higher Secondary School
Mother Superior is warning all the girls
"World is too bad.
Don't be cheated by men.
They will try to seduce you through various ways -
through money,
good words,
gifts.
Just for the sake of one hour - Pleasure of one hour;
don't destroy your whole life.
Don't lose your life
for the sake of the pleasure of the one hour"
Last row - girls have started giggling
Mother Superior did not understand what is going on.
She asked
those girls - Don't you understand I am talking something very serious ?
Why are you guys giggling ?
What is the reason?"
Just one voice came from that side -
"Mother how do you make it one hour long?
If you think Tantra is sexual activity -
You are thoroughly going to be cheated.
Understand -
it is most anti sexual activity.
It's highest anti-sex.
Don't be cheated by the wrong introductions of the Tantra.
It is all about working on the urge; not on the action.
The whole focus is on the urge; not on the action.
Actually after the anti Hindu, Hindu phobic media branded me as a sex guru and Tantra Guru.
Too many people have started coming to me and listening to my Satsang.
With a great hope, that there maybe some orgies and techniques.
Understand -
Tantra is the most anti sex activity.
The greatest tantric Masters - Parama Shiva and Parama Shakti
reveal the science of achieving the ultimate state, space, powers and being of Parama Shiva as Tantra.
Very few are related to action.
Most of them are related to urge.
It is all about handling your being
and making you manifest Parama Shiva.
I don't want to say Tantra is sannyas tradition,
but I want to say Tantra is the way for ultimate sannyas.
The poorna sannyas.
It removes all the pain, anger, guilt, shame,
everything associated to your body
and makes you grounded.
I tell you
it settles you with you first.
First, you will have ultimate relationship with yourself.
Understand,
relationship means really feeling grounded.
You just know that person is there for you.
It is not about the number of calls you make that person
or the number of times you speak
or the amount of time you spent. No.
Relationship means knowing you have that person for you forever.
And the person knows, he or she have you forever
Understand.
My relationship with my mother is like that only.
The last 18 years of my public life; maybe maximum 18 times I would have spoken to her.
That also may not be privately.
Among the disciples;
in public.
Not more than that.
In 18 years of my public life.
I may not have spoken more than 18 times with her.
But, the kind of the reliability she gives for me. The stability.
I just know she's there for me and she just knows; I'm there for her.
That's all.
Nothing else.
That's what I called relationship grounding.
Understand.
Tantra brings this grounding, feeling grounded.
Experiencing grounding within you.
The tons of body shaming patterns society has inserted into you.
And let you not explore and get grounded within you.
All that stupidity.
I tell you,
if you are grounded, you will never collapse
The description of Rudrakanya; can never have tears of pain from your eyes.
Understand.
Look, if you have tears of pain, you have lost chastity of Rudrakanya.
It means the kind of grounding you need to have
and the completion you need to feel within you as a Rudrakanya.
That Krithika women; who took care of Subramanya -
Six women took care of Subramanya,
this skanda sashti time -
they were the Rudrakanyas of ParamaShiva.
Amazing beings.
I actually requested all six of them to come down and be with me here on the planet Earth.
To take care of all the Subramanya going to happen now.
Skandas going to happen.
Skanda Mata's going to happen.
The kind of the feeling grounded you need to have.
Never to have tears in your eyes can happen only by Tantra.
When you are grounded.
Complete with all the emotions of body shaming.
Good,bad.
Right, wrong
Everything need to be cleansed; all the toxic ideas
inserted into your system.
Shame, guilt -
about your body
and how you look,
and how you feel,
and the ideas of sex,
gender, everything.
All the "faltu" ideas society has inserted into you need to be removed.
You need to be detoxified from all that stupid ideas.
That's the only way.
That's the only way, you will get grounded and become a real RudraKanya.
Every man should become a Rudra
And every woman should become Rudrakanya.
That is Tantra.
Every man should become Parama Shiva every woman should become Para Shakti.
That is Tantra.
Paramashivoham will give you precise understandings about Tantra;
deep understandings about Tantra.
Constantly, you demanding yourself and behaving even with yourself as Paramashiva
and manifesting the qualities and state,space, powers and being of Paramashiva;
continuously in your actions, in your life, in your thinking, in your emotions, everything.
That is Tantra.
That's all is Tantra.
Understand.
Life in all its possibilities manifested :
is Tantra. The Paramashiva in you and Parashakti in you becoming one - the communion
and experiencing oneness is Tantra.
I bless you all.
Let the union of ParamaShiva and ParaShakti happen in all of us and
let's all radiate with integrity, authenticity, responsibility, enriching, causing
living Shuddhadvaita Shaivam :
Paramashivoham -
the eternal bliss -
Nithyananda.
Thank you. Be blissful.