Tripp: Tripp Kramer here from TrippAdvice.com.
Brittany: I’m Brittany, Tripp’s girlfriend.
Tripp: We are excited today to be talking to you about the 3 giveaway signs that
a girl is in love with you.
Before we get into that, we both wanted to say thank you.
There's a lot of you out there who have watched our most recent video, which is a skit called
Things Girls Never Do.
Brittany: We were so excited to see all of the positive comments and feedback.
Thank you so much for watching it and if you haven't watched it yet, you definitely should.
Tripp: What we'll do is I'll put a link in the description or just go to the channel
and type in Things Girls Never Do and you will begin to laugh.
In no particular order, I think the first thing would be that when you're with a girl.
I should mention that, if you're with someone and you're going to say I love you, we're
basically talking about someone in a relationship.
Most “I love You” happen in relationships.
If they don't, you're going to be seriously dating.
The first one is you're with the girl, she is saying things that are synonymous with
I love you, but she's not really saying I love you.
Brittany: Some examples of this could be like, I like you so much, I'm so in love with this
relationship, or I love the way you make me feel, something that could substitute I love
you.
Some people say, I'm so in like with you before they say I'm so in love with you.
If she's saying anything like that, or I'm so into you, then that's going to give you
a clue that she has feelings.
Tripp: She might say things like, I'm falling for you, I love spending time with you, or
I love hanging out with you.
She’ll use the word “Love”, but she won’t say I love you.
We have said that before, we said I love you like we were dodging it.
Brittany: Obviously some of these statements are a little more serious than others.
If someone says, I love hanging out with you, that doesn't necessarily mean she's in love
with you.
It's going to be more of a clue.
If she's like, I'm falling for you, that’s something that, oh man, she's really into
this.
I guess it's going to vary based on the situation and you have to do your best job to read how
she's feeling based of the statement she's making.
Tripp: I think also you can read her body language or the way she's saying it.
If she's saying it in this like, I love spending time with you.
I love hanging out with you.
It's less like, oh yeah, I love hanging out with you.
It's more in an intimate way of she’s saying it.
Her body language is like, she's close to you, she's holding you, hugging you while
she's saying it or kissing you and you are being close with one another.
There's a good chance that she's thinking, oh, I really love him, but for whatever reason,
she's not ready to say it.
A lot of girls will wait for the guy to say I love you.
Why is that?
Brittany: It's tough because I didn't want to wait for you to say I love you.
I was like, I'm feeling it, I'm going to say it.
Tripp: But you didn't.
Brittany: I didn’t.
Tripp: Of course, I did all the work around here
Brittany: I don't know why a lot of girls wait.
I think it's a very scary thing.
Sometimes, some girls do want the man to be dominant and say that first.
That's not saying that's expected or that every girl is going to feel that way, but
some girls prefer that the man is in the relationship.
Tripp: Yeah, take that first move.
What's the second sign that we were talking about?
Brittany: The second sign is when she's getting you more involved in her life.
Maybe she's introducing you more of her family members, making an effort to have you around
more, wanting to make plans for the future with you.
Tripp: Not just family, like this is my sister, but extended family.
She wants you to go and have dinner with her whole family, where maybe her aunts or uncles
will be there.
Things like that.
Brittany: Yeah.
Maybe talking about future plans together like, let's spend Thanksgiving with my family,
something that's going to be far out where you guys are making these plans for the future
together or maybe mentioning moving in together.
Tripp: Yeah, like she'll slip it in there and say something.
She'll want to make you more part of her world.
She'll be inviting you out to work events and introducing you to her co-workers.
She'll make sure that you're spending a lot of time with her friends and doing a lot of
trips together, whether it be with friends or alone together.
It's like the idea of she's investing a lot of her time into you.
Brittany: Once you get more serious about someone and you see a future with them, you
start to incorporate them into everything you do.
Whereas, if you're casually dating someone, and you don't know where it's gonna go, you're
not gonna want to have them be a part of everything.
Tripp: Yeah.
The third sign that we were talking about, and
this is the most of stuff happened with us.
Even this one especially, was there be moments where we would almost say it.
We said it after two and a half months, which is probably on the earlier side.
I say people probably say anywhere from one to six months, so still normal time.
On the earlier side, I think we weren't really sure this is going to happen.
If you're not sure if the other person feels the same way, you don't want to say it, or
if the other person is like, I'm not there yet.
You know what I mean?
What happens is, you have these moments where you have this urge to say it, you guys are
probably like hanging out, kissing or something, you're having a nice moment, and there's the
silence, and you’re looking into each other's eyes.
Brittany: It’s like, this is when it should happen, but it's not.
Tripp: It's like moments from the movie, “The Notebook.”
You have these moments where you're pausing, then you end up saying what we were saying
before in the first sight, like I really like you, I really love...hanging out with you.
Brittany: If you have been going six months, and you're not having those feelings, evaluate
the situation and figure out if that's the right relationship for you.
I'm not saying that there's any specific time that you should be feeling love towards someone.
If you think you're going to get there, evaluate that for yourself.
You also don't want to be in something where you don't see yourself feeling that way about
that person.
Tripp: Yeah, totally.
I feel like at six months, if you haven't felt that something might be going on, and
you're like, what is love be liked?
You just know.
You just want to spend a lot of time with the person you feel good, whenever you're
around them.
You think about them all the time.
Brittany: You don't want anybody else.
Tripp: You care about them a lot.
You think about them in terms of wanting to do things for them, wanting to support them,
wanting to make their lives better.
These things start happening.
I would say all those are the signs that you're probably in love with the person.
If you're not feeling that after six months, you might be wasting your time.
Brittany: By the time you're in love with someone, you've probably seen some flaws,
and you're okay with those, you're willing to accept those flaws.
Tripp.
Totally.
That's a good tip.
Yeah, if you're in six months deep, and you're like, this person does this thing I don't
like, but has other great qualities and your like I don't care, I accepted.
That's probably another sign.
Brittany: Even if you don't see these signs from a girl., it's okay.
If you fell in love with her, you don't have to have her love back in order to feel love
for someone.
Love for someone is just the fact that like wow, I feel so strongly about you, I have
fallen in love with you.
You should be able to declare that whether or not she says that back.
I don't want people to feel scared to confess their feelings to someone because it's a beautiful
thing.
If you feel that you love someone, you should absolutely tell them, regardless of whether
or not you think that they're gonna say it back.
You don't have to think like, if I don't see these signs, I can't tell her that I love
her.
If that's the way you feel, you should absolutely tell her.
Tripp: Yes, completely agree.
I also think, just be careful because you might think you love them and even dating
them for a week, I've read a lot of comments where guys will fall in love with girls very
quickly.
Remember that before you say I love you.
Again, there's no time limit here.
It's going to take time to get to know the person in full, who they are and all of their
different sides.
I'd say you probably don't know you love someone yet and shouldn't even say “I love you”
yet until you seen all those sides.
That might happen in three weeks, six months, and then once you do get to that point, you
don't have to sit here and wait for the signs that we just told you.
If you feel it, then go for it.
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I'm at my buddy's wedding right now, I'm in Detroit.
I'm going to start doing some more vlogging.
I want to hear from you guys if you're interested in seeing more vlogging and see what I'm up
to, write something in the comments down below.
I'm going to be pulling out my phone and filming some stuff that I'm doing this weekend.
I'm with Brittany, we’re in my buddy's wedding and we're excited to be here.
Just smoking some cigars, hanging out,having some food, and we're about to go to the man's
spa, with all the groomsmen.
I'm sitting in my hotel room.
Brittany's off, she's getting her nails done.
I'm up to go to my good friends rehearsal dinner, about to say speech and it's interesting
because for a very long time, I was very nervous to do public speaking.
I still get nervous public speaking even though it's funny I talk a lot about confidence in
the channel.
You might think that, Tripp is probably really good at public speaking, he doesn't get nervous
at all, but I do.
It can be very scary when all these eyeballs are on you, and judging you for everything
you're saying.
Or at least that's what you think.
That was what makes you scared.
For the first time, I could say in a very long time I'm actually not so nervous.
I think the reason is, because I've I've been doing it more lately and it makes me less
nervous.
I've had more practice doing it and I wanted to share that with you.
Let's be honest, the more you do something, the easier it is.
Isn't it crazy how still after doing something a bunch and and even teaching you how to be
more confident, I still get nervous going up there on public speaking.
This is gonna be a pretty big rehearsal dinner.
It's like 300 people which is unheard of, by the way, where you see rehearsal dinners
is only like 50 people, usually just like groomsmen, bridesmaids, and family, but this
is a pretty big wedding.
In fact, tomorrow,the wedding has 500 people.
I'm curious to hear from you.
I want to know this, maybe write down in the comments below, what's the scariest thing
that you've done lately?
I always talk a lot about the idea of getting outside your comfort zone.
I've been doing this 10 week program, all about overcoming your fear and this got me
thinking about how we don't do this stuff enough.
We don't put ourselves in front of fear, do things outside our comfort zone only when
we have to.
I'm only giving this rehearsal speech on my buddy happens getting married, but it's not
like I seek this out.
I'm excited to do this because it's something that's going to be challenging, and scary.
I was thinking like, wow, we don't really give ourselves that many opportunities to
do things that are scary.
Not because we are lazy, but because something might be scary you don't push yourselves to
do it.
What is the last thing you did that freak you out?
I want to hear from you.
If you don't know what that is, maybe write something in the comments down below.
We can all be thinking about this together, something to do soon that will get us outside
of our comfort zones.
I'll be thinking about it too.
Right now, I got this speech coming up in a couple of hours.
I want to keep on doing this to continue to build the strength inside of us, to do things
that we know might not feel good in the moment, but are good for us in the long run.
Sage advice from my friend Michael. Key before giving a speech...one and a half beverages.
I just got to the airport now and I gotta get better at this vlogging thing.
I will admit there was probably a lot more footage I could have been taking over the
weekend.
It's hard, I'm trying to balance the idea of trying to be in the moment, but also trying
to capture things cool on camera.
I know that people who are big vloggers are really good at doing that, but this is new
to me.
There are times when I was having amazing moments, when I was at this wedding with friends
and really cool stuff, there's fireworks This is like a million dollar wedding, by the way,
was insane.
I know I didn't take the footage.
In the moment, I didn't think about what I could do to take out my camera and show you
what's going on.
Either way, I'm going to vlog a little bit more, show you some cool stuff.
Again, if you want me to do this more and get better at it, give me some encouragement
down below.
Happy to do that.