Hey, Uncle C, back in the office and in today's video I'm going to be discussing masculine frame
and why you can't hold it. Now for the next four days, I'm going to be doing a four part miniseries
regarding this. So I advise you to stay tuned for all four of these videos that are about to come.
Let's dive in.
Now, for those of you who don't know me, my name is Casey zander. I'm the founder of headman. I'm
here to revitalize masculinity and help make men full stack. So let's talk frame and why you can
hold it. So one of the beliefs that have served me very well throughout my entire life is the
fact that I have came into the realization that the stronger I can hold my frame and the stronger
I can lead my own life through rational, objective truth and make good purposeful decisions for
myself. Not only does it raise my value as a man, but ultimately I feel more in control of
my emotional state. So that way I can weather the storms of life. If you look at 99% of men,
they have a ton of issues when it comes to things like financial scarcity, scarcity in their dating
life, right scarcity, when it comes to friends, scarcity, when it comes to work, life balance,
scarcity, in all ways, shapes and forms. And I'm gonna explain to you the number one way to
start to hold masculine frame better and more in depth. So that way, you can actually come
from a standpoint of rational control and you live a happy, healthy, positive life.
The biggest reason why most men cannot hold their frame and they will consistently given to
their emotions is because they are living by the expectations of others that dictate how their life
should be in theory, what if I told you this? What if I told you that there was absolutely absolutely
no right or wrong way to play the game, and you are in full control of your life at all times.
Now, stay with me as crazy as that sounds, because here's what you will realize. When a woman enters
your life, what she's looking for ultimately is congruent with who you are, okay, and the more
congruent that you are, the stronger your frame is, you are set in your ways, and you have a good
idea or a good aspect of life, you have a set in play mission. The biggest reason why most men
cannot handle or hold down their masculine frame is due to the fact that their emotional state
is being pulled by the societal expectations that others placed upon them. Now these expectations
that are placed upon you this can come from watching how your parents you know, marriage or
relationship was, this can come from expectations your parents set on you. This can also come from
certain childhood beliefs, whether that be media that you watch videos that you consume different
Hollywood, Disney fairy tales, it doesn't matter what it is. The fact is your brain is like a
sponge. And the more information you suck into it, what happens is that your emotional state is
now malleable, okay, if you can start to draw the defining line between the facts of what you want,
because here's what I found time and time again is most men have no idea what they want.
Like on a deep level. Some say they want s3 actual abundance. Others say they want a long
term committed relationship, but others also just have no idea what they want. And the 99%
of people have no control, no direction and no ability to make a decisive rational decision. So
why you can't hold it is due to the fact that you allow far too many people to throw you off
center. That means when you allow somebody into your life, and you allow their words
to dictate your emotional states, of how you feel, you lose the congruence within your frame
that makes you a strong man in the first place. Here's why this is very poor. What we know about
when it comes to attracting women and ultimately keeping women is they like to sense strength and
they like to sense congruence. This is strong characteristics of masculine frame and the man
who leads that woman's emotions is typically the man that she falls in love with. So
what happens is if your woman is seeing that other people can lead you astray,
if you're a woman of seeing that other people can lead you off of your emotional intellect.
If you're a woman is watching other people lead you away from your goals and cause you
a state of confusion. You lack the rational decisive control that she probably found
irresistible when you lead your own life in the first place. The biggest reason why you cannot
hold masculine frame is you allow other people's thoughts, judgments, feelings, and opinions to
influence your current emotional state that makes you change course of directions whether
that be in the moment with your words or with your own life, the less you can be influenced,
the stronger impact you have and the stronger control over your own state. You will consistently
live out and it comes from the ability to lead with intellect and not necessarily lead wherever
you are. Emotions take you if you lead by your emotions what will happen is nine times out of 10
you will have volatile inconsistencies that lead it so you can't necessarily get anything done.
And that's why you see so many men year after year after year after year in the exact same
spot working the exact same job with the exact same skill set and I've made absolutely zero
gains in life whatsoever this fell is is the key to mastering your masculine frame. If you like
this video, I want you to go down below right now and I want you to watch the MBT webinar.
MBT stands for men's masculine behavioral training and it's a step by step process
that you can use you can take this system you can copy paste this into your life and you
can start to attract and keep the dating companions that you have always wanted.
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