Hey guys, welcome to Tripp's Tips Episode 3. Today we're talking about common beliefs destroyed part
one, and we're talking about approaching. I'm going to give you some of the common beliefs
that guys think when they're approaching women and I'm going to destroy every single one of them. One
of the first common things that guys think about women is that they don't want to be approached.
This is by far so untrue. Girls absolutely want to be approached by guys. This is like saying a girl
doesn't want to meet anybody. Of course she does. Yes, I know everyone's always thinking about the
typical ways like online dating or meeting people through friends. But it doesn't have to be this
way. You can approach a woman on the street and they will be okay, I promise. They want it. The
only thing that they don't want is they don't want to be approached by a guy who's creeping them out.
All the guys who have done creepy approaches have pretty much ruined it for the rest of us because
now when they get approached by a guy, their guards are up. So you have to be the one to bring
their guards down and not be that creepy guy. The second thing is that guys think that girls
look mean. This is one of the biggest excuses for them not to approach a girl, they tell me,
"Tripp she looks mean. She looks like she's gonna reject me." But that is almost 9 times out of 10
not the case. You have to see for yourself. Just because she looks like she's mean, it doesn't mean
that she's actually mean. Maybe she's in a bad mood or possibly she's in some kind of thought
that's making her face make a more serious tone. But almost all the times when you go
up to a girl and you do the correct approach to a girl who looks like she's pissed off, she will
smile right away. The third belief by guys is that getting rejected is the worst thing in the
world. They are so scared to approach and they're so frightened of rejection. They think it's the
absolute worst. Now I know that nobody likes to be embarrassed, that sucks. But getting rejected is
one of the easiest things in the world. If you get rejected, all you have to do is say, "Hey,
nice to meet you" and walk away. That's it. The worst thing in the world is not getting rejected.
The worst thing in the world is getting kicked in the balls. And I promise you, cross my heart,
if you do a proper approach, you will never get kicked in the balls. Promise. The fourth thing
is guys always say to me, "Girls don't like pickup lines." Well, yeah, that's true but
you just don't give them a pickup line. Don't go up to them and say some stupid cheesy pickup line
you heard somewhere. You approach them and you do it with grace. The fifth thing guys say to me is,
"She probably has a boyfriend." Now I know where this stems from because whenever guys
say it to me, they're only saying it about the super hot girls. Just because she's hot,
it doesn't mean that she has a boyfriend. There are a million hot single girls out there. That's
just another excuse to not approach. And if you want to find out if they have a boyfriend,
then you go and you approach them. Or the sixth thing is that she's married. Well,
that's easy. If you want to find out if she's married, look at the finger. And the last one,
which I think is the best one ever because it really makes no logical sense, but guys
say it to me all the time, "If I approach her, I'm going to get rejected." You're only saying this
because you're scared. You're nervous to approach her and you think that since you're so nervous,
you're gonna get rejected. Well, let me tell you something, you don't know if you're gonna
get rejected. You haven't even tried it, you have to try first to even see if you're going
to get rejected. Don't make that excuse that you think that she's going to do something
that's going to make you feel like shit because you don't even know yet. That's first in the
series about common beliefs destroyed. I will pick out other topics in future episodes and I
will destroy every single one of those excuses that guys make out there about girls. Thanks
so much for tuning in. Check out my website Tripp Advice.com. If you go there, you'll find
a ton of great information on my blog and other dating advice articles. You can also follow me on
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