hi my name is Josh I'm 21 and I would
say that I'm expecting quite a lot
because when I date in my own age range
it tends to be quite disappointing so
I'm hoping that someone more mature I
think it might work out really well yeah
we have a lot of common interests from
what I remember though
hi my name is Tina came and I'm 30 years
old
am i 30 I'm expecting all of today
because Jewish is haha just so cute
and who aged really doesn't matter y'all
or old ya don't care I think what
important is their brain age
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pepper
thank you and I'm gonna get the waltzes
okay which is food or Armenia dr. pepper
I go under new man dr. Kara
let's Almeida so you've been here before
yeah two days ago my friends need us
join Kim it's also mafia yeah they are
all youtubers yeah I have no idea
I don't yeah I should probably know who
they are you know what's you too
sometimes sometimes not a lot yeah but
you listen to lots of music right yeah
what kind of a listing like uh usually a
hip-hop but sometimes mm-hmm
sometimes wrong also my rock really my
favorite is really yeah
well what kind of mean Bend's cigarettes
after sex
oh wow okay how about you what kind of
meat should you like them
like burnished Rob Bruce Yurok Bruce
Rock fool yes all the Smiths because my
dad's British so I grew up listening to
them a lot so it's our second meeting
yeah because whenever you're at the
studio it's the weekend and I'm just not
there when did you start YouTube yeah
what I was still in my university yeah
Oh where'd you go to the University here
yeah
in South Korea up course which one oh of
course
that's it at school yeah when you meet
your friends
what are you usually usually no because
I'm usually drinking when I meet my
friends just drinking no talking yeah we
talk it's just like what we've been up
to
like how's work you know stuff like that
we don't really talk about dating
because mmm probably because I'm yellow
okay because I'm like really young but
you all hang out together and we don't
need to talk a lot like because you're
young you should talk about date II
probably should be sure yeah I don't
know cuz at this says we are talking
about marriage not dating
really yeah all the time your parents
ever like pressure you know they don't
care about my marriage anymore
they gave oh yeah they gave up and I
think I was very desperate for a couple
of ears because my friends are getting
married
yeah and I thought okay I cannot meet
just anyone you know I kind of gave up
I've met so many bad people
what do you mean like bad people hey
usually their purpose of meeting me was
just one night
okay so like they just wanted to sleep
with me and I really disappointed and
maybe because I've met them usually
through tinder maybe I know I know I'm
not gonna talk about tinder anymore
because I yeah I always talking about
that's definitely why you met bad people
don't use tinder oh yeah okay then where
should I meet all the people so good
things a big thing here is blind dates
no blind dates I mean get like
verification from your friends and then
make sure that there are nice people
I've tried that so many times actually
yeah you probably have why do you think
that keeps happening in I don't know
that's why I studied this series I just
wanted to know why maybe it's my problem
maybe you're choosing the wrong people
maybe because if it keeps happening over
and over and over again then well
there's a couple possible options there
is something wrong with you or there's
some people with the people you're
choosing Yeah right right right you said
you are not
yeah I'm not dating you're not dating
why we were young and you're so cute
right uh thank you but I don't know just
yeah the past few relationships I've had
just didn't really end it all
so I think I was definitely choosing
like the wrong people why do think so I
don't know cuz i kept getting cheated on
never I was dating so I was like oh
maybe so yeah I'm just taking a break
from dating like one not dating just
having committed relationships when
you're in a relationship how long does
it last well I had two one-year
relationships and then I've had a few
shorter ones and then like in-between
actually average probably like five six
months how about you I know it's a long
this relationship the longest is two
years before him it was one year and
then before him it was like three months
at four months and two months mm-hmm all
the shirts relationships I don't they
fit they were relationships they're not
it was just like I thought they were
just playing with me were they young
within you I mean younger guys tend to
just say dating less seriously from what
I've seen really you did I don't what
I'm dating I take it seriously but I
think a lot of younger people love
disguise girls as well because they want
to meet lots of different people right
they don't to be tied down with it too
young so I think I've met all different
kinds of guys so accept older ones yeah
you've never did in an older guy I mean
I tried a few times but I found they are
boring and they're old I mean I'm all
too but yeah they're usually boring and
they talk about married stuff and I'm
not ready to get married yet okay wait
how many older guys have you been on
like dates with two or three and all
three times they talked about marriage
I mean even before meeting it's all
based on like oh we are dating then we
are thinking about marriage because they
are like 34 or 35 you know how did you
meet these guys absolutely ting yeah so
that's why you don't like being
introduced to people yeah and all they
are office workers who are working in
big companies like Samsung or LG they
want to get married and yeah and I found
they are just different from me my
lifestyle and their lifestyle it's all
different I don't think you should be
dating like people that work in offices
and like Oh probably not because your
lives are so different than you might
not have a lot in common
yeah they don't understand and they
think about all the backgrounds and
education there's so many things up here
it's of course well that's just a lot of
Koreans in general older you know I feel
like Koreans care more about educational
background your job yeah so many I see
the data too but no no I just want to
meet a nice person that's everyone says
that but nice is boring everyone knows
that nice is boring if you meet someone
nice because I don't like that people
you know like playing with girls and
cheating on somebody everyone says they
want some someone nice but you're like
when they get the nice person they kind
of just get bored no I don't you do ah
well I've never really dated anyone nice
I wouldn't know I tend to like end up
dating crazy people crazy how crazy I've
met so many crazy people
oh dude me too a lot of the girls I've
dated maybe one of them was normal
wah wah all right but they were pretty
right well I don't really look at
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outward appearance I care more about
personality if it's gonna be something
serious right now obviously if it's you
know just a casual thing then of course
everyone looks at like their parents but
if it's something serious then I get to
know them better actually I thought that
you like pretty women I mean everyone
likes pretty people like your honestly
if you have to choose between a really
ugly nice guy
kind of like it's somewhat nice kind of
boring really hot guy you choose the hot
guy of course yeah yeah it's human
nature but especially you are 23
straight to 21 in American age and 23 in
cranes yeah yeah what I was saying our
early twenties I used to like handsome
you know hands on my kid boy of course
even if they are bad I didn't care
you didn't care at all yeah yeah I
didn't care okay this is why you keep
getting like I feel like you're just
used to bad people so maybe you're just
without knowing it you like it yeah but
nowadays I don't care about appearance
at all not yeah okay I was gonna I was
gonna be like if I can keep the person
then that's okay the appearance yeah
okay that's a pretty low standard maybe
if the person is too handsome then I
feel like my god is so-and-so maybe he's
not gonna like me I feel like you're
being hard on yourself but the thing is
they were not that handsome and they
were not that good well they weren't
nice and they weren't attractive yeah
guys are you dating why would you meet
guys off we're like Club yeah no no no
those are the worst that's worse than
tinder never
yeah especially if you want up like a
relationship you're not too old you look
down
yeah I'm trying to look at my hairstyle
yeah I'm trying young thank you so have
you ever dated some old older than you
yeah I think though but not by much like
two years yeah at my age I don't really
get to meet women that I like six seven
years older than me
where would I even meet them right so
you just had no chance that's all or
yeah I don't think age wouldn't matter
yeah age appearance all that stuff that
all right but I realize if someone is
too young then our lifestyle it's too
different you know that's true for
example I like wine and I like classical
music I like some exhibitions cultural
stuff but the younger guy he just wants
to drink soda and beer like crazy
are you meeting so you're meeting like
younger Korean guys right I mean yeah
every younger guys that I've met before
they weren't financially secure so you
always have to like pay for those things
yeah there were all students okay yeah I
was working don't date students
they date someone with a job yeah but I
didn't care because I liked them so I
thought okay that doesn't matter but
actually that matters I yeah they were
taking advantage of you for sure
no they were trying to pay for
everything but I had to care about that
too so I was just like okay let's go to
some hamburger place or my best food do
you still like meat students sometimes
or oh no never because I'm 30
so there are grad students you know MD
students so you didn't you were too shy
and I
school and then he went into writing
fashion columns yeah and I was a fashion
blogger and I used to have my own
clothing shop online clothing shop
really yeah when I was 21 in Korean age
Wow
but it fails anyways yeah I used to
there's so many things so I was not very
interested in dating so you're focusing
more on your career yeah but I wanted to
date but I couldn't because of my
personality I was just too shy
so my first relationship was when I was
25 years old in Korean age weight like
the first thing he ever dated was 25
yeah first kiss 25 everything 25 Wow you
started really late I know I know
I even for a Korean that's really late I
don't know yeah all of my friends they
kissed so they used to talk about
kissing and stuff but I didn't know the
feeling
so I really wanted to just grab a
stranger asking like how can you kiss me
because I'm really curious about the
feeling probably made the right choice
not doing that how you can like so you
never had any interests when you were in
high school no I was interested in boys
but I was seeing these girls middle
school in girls high school that's why
okay yeah so like an all-girls screen
yeah so you've only had what five years
of dating
yeah even I've had more than that I'm 21
do you have any ideal type honestly not
really for dating like if you put all my
exes in a room together you would find
no pattern it's like completely random
yeah there's no real other than they're
all crazy but that's the only thing they
have in common
everything else is just
I don't really have a type and you are
modeling a lot so not a lot sometimes
yeah but I've seen some photos cool
waters of Korean brands are they Korean
fashion brands I think that's really
cool
no I thought it's really cool
no I don't really enjoy it what I only
did it because my friends asked me to
well my first passion is acting because
my mother used to be an actress
oh really and I was also signed as an
actor in Korea when I was 18 really like
right after high school at the year
after oh yeah I was signed for like six
months but then yeah acting careers a
little bit harder if you look like go
Westerner like especially on dramas
there's not that many like happy
characters so I would just be that happy
guy if I was in a show and I really want
that so I just there's so many things I
didn't know yeah well because we didn't
really talk about much less time yeah
you are just filming and then we're just
liking the photos so he's like heaven
yeah that was all you asked me how I
know she's the one
yeah I don't I don't really know you
don't feel anything
well of course I feel something that's
why I did I think it's uh it'll feel
anything to it I don't know I do I do
okay I think it's more like I just go
based off how I feel yeah I don't really
and I don't really think about it yeah I
just fall over my heart I guess but you
know when you meet someone it's not
always like really great at first it's
not like fireworks straight away I like
the more you get to know them mm-hmm
like the more you like their personality
and then you start getting feelings and
it was stronger and stronger so I don't
I never know it just it happens it
happens it's not like when I first meet
someone I'm like okay yeah I'm gonna
date her
I don't do that I just know by the
feeling oh I really want to make this
person again I really want to kiss this
person mm-hmm I imagine so many weird
things like no not in that way not in
that way yeah I think you should be
taking more time and like I think you're
rushing into these too much yeah I know
and if I like the person that I just say
I like you I think I like you I say it's
just what you can't say that to guys
well I mean you can never you can't
really tell from the first date kind of
have to meet them more yeah that's what
I think anyway but you should decide
today for this series you know obviously
she's an amazing person and we get along
but I'd rather remain a friendship more
than something romantic and honestly I
feel like she's in a different place in
her life than I am with mine so I don't
really want to be another disappointment
for her after hearing her stories about
younger guys and about other guys
mistreating her I think the fear that I
would just be another one of those guys
is a big factor for me
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