Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. You might be in a
situation right now where you have a best friend who's a girl and it's really
not a friendship because you like her so this is some sort of twisted
friendship in a way. Somehow you guys have become close but this whole
time you've been pining after her. This happens quite a bit. A lot of guys will
take that backdoor entrance to get a girl interested in them. What they do is
they think okay I'm not gonna go for her or flirt with her because then I
might risk getting rejected, so instead what I'm gonna do is I'm gonna be her
friend and then over time she'll finally see
what an amazing guy I am and then BOOM, she's gonna like me. The sad part is that
rarely happens. For women, it's this weird switch; either she
likes you or she doesn't. Either you're a sexual item to her or you're
just like her brother. And when you're put in the friendzone, you start to get
into that brother mode where she sees you as a brother which is completely
non-sexual, sees you as a friend and also doesn't want to see you as a sexual item
because she doesn't want to lose an amazing friendship you have. With all
this said, what are you supposed to do? How do you get out of this? How would you
get to the point where you can turn her into a girl that likes you and
maybe even into a girlfriend? There's two different scenarios here.
Let me give you the most common when you're for sure in the friend
zone and you're like what do I do, how do I turn this around? Here's what
you're gonna have to do. I've talked about this on other episodes before so
maybe this is gonna be me repeating some material but this would be good for you
to know. If you haven't heard this before, welcome to how to
get out of the friendzone 101. Step one; you need to stop being her best friend.
The one that's always there, that's talking to her all the time and answering
her text messages and hanging out all the time as friends. You need to end that
completely. You're gonna have to do some pretty
harsh moves here if you want her to be more than just a friend. You're gonna have to
go away. You're gonna have to leave that means that you're gonna have to start
hanging out with other girls and other people. You're gonna have to create some
sort of jealousy by being with other people and you're gonna have to go away
to get her to miss you and you're gonna have to go away so you can reinvent
yourself to come back into her life as a potential sexual item. As someone that
you can see herself with. Let's go over this again.
Step one; you need to go away. Step two; you need to be hanging out with other
women, other people. Step three; you're going to come back into her life. Step
four; you're going to re-seduce her or I should say seduce her because you
haven't done that in the first place and then five, you're gonna see what happens.
It might not work. But this is your best shot. Let's dive a little
bit deeper into this. You're not gonna tell her hey Stephanie I'm going away
for a while, you're not gonna see me. You just have to be busy, you just have to
get busy. It doesn't mean you don't have to answer her text messages once in
awhile. You can maybe see her once in a while but you really gotta create that
separation. If you're like I can't do that, I can't do that with her. She's my
best friend like what is she gonna think if I go away? Then I ask you, do you
want her as your best friend or do you want her as your girlfriend? You can't
have both? You need to pick one. It's up to you.
If you want to just be in the friend zone, have her as your friend, fine do that.
But if you want the best chance of making this work, you're gonna
have to really play this game here. You're gonna have to go away. You have
to go away because she has to have this distorted vision of what it meant to be
friends with you. We want that vision distorted so when you come back in the
picture and you're this new reinvented more seductive version of
yourself, it's gonna give you a better shot of her seeing you in this new light.
So you're gonna have to go away, keep busy then you're gonna have to
learn seduction. You have to learn flirting, you're gonna
have to learn attraction. We're not gonna go over that in this video. I have 500
other videos that talk about that. You can learn about that
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When you come back into her life, you're not gonna be just her best friend
again. We're not gonna go back to square one where you guys are talking
all the time and hanging all the time. You guys are best friends. No instead
you're gonna try to get her on a date. She might not know it's a date
but it's gonna be a little bit of a catch up. You guys are gonna be catching
up, maybe you'll get a drink maybe whatever any kind of situation
where you two can just sit down and talk. It doesn't matter exactly what it
is and then you're gonna lay on the charm and you're gonna have to run the
risk of her not liking that, not wanting that. She might be like whoa.
She might still be in best friend mode. We don't know. You might not be able to
break it. But this is your best shot. If she's not into it and she's
like oh he's flirting with me, this is weird.
It's just not gonna work but you should try this out, see if it works and see if
you can get her attracted to you by being more dominant, more assertive,
playing a little bit more hard-to-get, teasing her a little bit. Using
all the flirting techniques, all those things. Not over validating her too much
and giving her lots of compliments. It's gonna be more about how you are now
the man who's gonna be the chooser. Here's the second scenario. The second
scenario is maybe you have a best friend and this girl actually likes you too.
You're gonna know this better than anyone. You're gonna have this idea that
maybe she likes you or not. If you don't think she likes you and you're in the
friend zone, use the first scenario I just put yourself through. But if you're
like no we like cuddle. I think she's into me like she really is flirty with
me when were hanging out. She's very touchy-feely. If you're getting this
vibe that you think that she likes you and this is more than a
friendship then all you're gonna do is you're gonna hang out with her. You're
gonna invite her over to your place and you guys gonna hang out and then you're
gonna go for a kiss. That's what you're gonna do. You run the risk
of her being like whoa wait a minute, that's not what I thought. Then you'll
like, alright I thought that was the signs I was getting, no big deal and then just
move on. But if you're feeling that I think she really digs me,
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