Hi guys! It's Mark here from Make Him Yours and today, we are going through a really,
really cool topic. It is the top eight things that turn a guy on and make him want to make
you his girlfriend. Stick around for this one.
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All right. What are the top eight things that turn a guy on and make him want to make you
his girlfriend? Well, the number one is this self-respect. A self-respecting woman is a
huge turn on for a guy. Now when I say respect and self-respect, what I really mean is reciprocation.
You see, a self-respecting woman always invests in a man as he invests in her. She increases
her investment as he does. And decreases it as he does as well. A self-respecting woman
doesn't let her feelings determine her actions all of the time. She says, "Yep, I'm happy
to invest in this guy, but I'm also, no matter what, my feelings are not going to invest
in a man who doesn't invest back at me."
Number two, you cultivate your own exciting life. Now, this is a massive turn on for men
and it doesn't mean you have to be taking over the world or doing anything crazy, but
it just means you're living your life and doing things and growing yourself because
you want to.
You see, men are attracted to a woman, hugely attracted to a woman who they can come into
your life and find that their life gets more exciting as a result. In other words, being
with you is more exciting for him than he's being single. When you cultivate your life,
it's a massive turn-on for a man and most importantly, you keep cultivating it after
you've met him. A lot of men are used to women who are doing their own thing initially and
then stop doing it as much once they get involved with him. If you keep cultivating that life,
you're going to keep him attracted. Healthy space leaves room for attraction and if you're
continuing to do that, even when you're with him, you are going to always have that man
hugely turned on and attracted to you.
Number three, see yourself as his equal. So make sure you're not putting the guy up on
a pedestal. When you show that, when you're out with him, you're relaxed, you're bantering,
you're in the moment. You have your own opinions. You see yourself as on his level. Everyone
wants to date someone on their level. No one wants to date down. You want to date a high
value man, and men want to date a high value woman. When you communicate through your actions,
through your words that you truly see yourself as his equal, you put yourself out there.
You don't hide parts of yourself. You give him banter. You are communicating to him that
you're not going to put him up on a pedestal. I remember I had, I once had a woman asked
me personally, what is the, what is your biggest turn on? And I thought about it and I just
thought a woman that's not trying to impress, she doesn't think she has to do anything outside
of herself.
For me to be attracted to her. That woman is going to see herself as my equal and every
man is going to be turned on by you when you see yourself as his equal. The fourth one,
you take responsibility, so there's so many people in this world now who give the circumstances
of their life over to things outside themselves. They say, "Oh, my ex made me like this," or
"Oh, I can't achieve this dream or this passion because of X, Y, or Zed factors outside of
myself." If you want to turn men on and be a standout woman, take responsibility for
everything in your life - where you are, who you are, where you've been, what you've succeeded
and what you've found out. Take responsibility for all of it. When a man meets a woman who
truly appreciates that she's responsible for where she is and she's responsible for changing
it, it is the opposite to a victim mindset and a man is going to be hugely turned on
by that.
Number five, you engage positively with the world. I can't explain to you how big a turn
on it is to see a woman who lights up the world and the people she meets. I remember
in my previous relationships watching my former girlfriend and the way people would engage
with her. The way she could just walk through a room, walk through people and no matter
who it was, no matter where she met them, no matter what spontaneous situation it was,
she could light up that person and brighten their day. That made me want to be a part
of her world and if you light up the world around you and the people around you, men
are going to be turned on by you and want to be a part of your world.
Number sex, sexual confidence. There is no question in the world that a woman who's sexually
confident is a huge turn-on to men. Now this is going to come across in lots of subtle
ways, in the way you interact with men - from the way you touch them, to the way you let
your eyes linger on them, to the way you move even, men are going to pick up how connected
you are to that side of yourself and how confident you are in that side of yourself. Now, this
doesn't necessarily even mean that you have sex with him. It just means that you're connected
with that side of yourself and are comfortable with you as a sexual being.
Number seven, positive attitudes towards men. How do you feel if you meet a man who has
negative attitudes towards women? You can sense it. You can sense that he has some sort
of gripe with women. Maybe he thinks women are manipulators or cheaters or thinks women
are time-wasters. How do you feel when you meet that guy who just deep down doesn't really
like women as people? It's a huge turn off, right? And there's a lot of women who are
like this towards men. It is a massive turn-off to a guy when he senses he's met a woman who
has negative attitudes towards men. When you show you have positive attitudes towards men,
appreciate men as people and for what they can bring to your life. Men are going to radiate
to you. It is a huge turn-on. Men love to meet a woman who has great attitudes towards
men and appreciates them as people. Just as you would want to meet a man who appreciates
women as people.
Number eight and this is a huge turn-on, you take your standards seriously. I'm yet to
meet anyone who actually told me that had low standards. I've never heard anyone say
that. Everyone says they have high standards, but how does that really work? How does that
come across to men? It comes across in the way you qualify men. It comes across in how
long it takes a man to win you over and this isn't about sex or this isn't about him particularly
impressing you in any way. It's just about you knowing what your standards are and waiting
for him to qualify to them. So the high value woman knows that her standards are high, so
it's going to take a lot of getting to know a guy before she can realize, "Hey, this guy's
boyfriend material. This guy could be the one from me." A woman who takes her standard
seriously is never fully sold on a guy in one, two, three dates. She's constantly qualifying.
Even as the relationship goes on and becomes more advanced, she's qualifying and qualifying
to make sure that he is the right match for her.
Now this isn't to say at all, you play hard to get. It just means that you take your standards
seriously, you know what they are and you wait for men. You give men time to qualify
themselves and meet those standards. If you operate in that way, you demonstrate to men
that you truly have high standards and it is a massive turn-on for men to qualify themselves
to that. Well those are the eight biggest turn-ons for men. I hope you enjoyed the video.
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