Hey guys, my name is Brad Browning, you may know me as “Breakup Brad”....
I’m a relationship coach and breakup expert from Vancouver Canada, and I’m the author
of 2 best-selling programs including The Ex Factor Guide.
Today I’m going to be addressing a topic that I get asked about constantly here on
YouTube in the comments on my videos, and from my coaching clients….
I’m going to help you figure out whether or not any mistakes you’ve already made
since your breakup have blown your shot at getting back together with your ex.
So, if you’re in that boat..
If you’ve done or said some things to your ex since the breakup that you now regret,
or that you realize now were a big mistake… and you want to know if there’s still hope
to win back your ex, then stay tuned.
First of all, let me give you some good news right off the bat….
You’re not alone.
TONS of people tell me on a daily basis that they wish they’d come across my videos or
my Ex Factor program sooner.
Sometimes, people are worried that something they said to their ex in the heat of the moment
was the nail in the coffin….
Other times, people will watch some of my videos or sign up for my program a few weeks
or months after their breakup, only to realize that everything they’ve done up to that
point is the exact opposite of what I recommend.
So, maybe you said something dumb that you regret… maybe you’ve begged or pleaded
your ex, sent hateful and angry messages, or tried to get revenge….
Whatever it is, don’t panic, there’s probably still a chance for you to turn things around
and reverse your breakup.
One of the best ways to figure out if you’ve still got a chance to win back your ex boyfriend
or ex girlfriend is to take the free quiz tool that I’ve developed to answer that
exact question…
it takes about 5 minutes to complete, and the quiz will use your answers to generate
a detailed results report, and provide some personalized feedback to help you figure out
what your next steps should be.
To take my free quiz tool, just visit BreakupBrad.com/quiz after the video….
Again, that’s BreakupBrad.com/quiz.
Like i said, it’s free and takes just a couple of minutes, so definitely give the
quiz a shot.
Now, let’s get on with it… you want to know if your past mistakes have blown your
chances at getting back together.
The first thing you need to understand is that TIME is a big factor in this… if it’s
been a few weeks or less since your breakup, and you only made a few mistakes during that
time, then your chances are going to be a lot better than if it’s been 9 months and
you’ve made countless mistakes throughout that period of time.
Now, that’s not to say you can’t still turn things around if it’s been a long time
since your initial breakup, but it definitely makes things more difficult.
Secondly, you need to consider the big picture….
So, take a second to think about things from your ex’s perspective.
How does he or she perceive you or think about you right now?
Do they see you as a desperate, lonely, ‘creepy’ ex….?
Or do you think it’s more likely that your ex sees you as a friend and doesn’t have
a particularly negative image of you in their head?
Or, if things really haven’t gone well since the breakup, does your ex hate your guts right
now?
That’s unlikely, obviously, but it really helps to try to imagine your ex’s perception
of you right now….
Think about how you’d feel or what you’d think of your ex if the tables were turned.
Let me give you a quick example….
Let’s say your breakup was clean and didn’t involve any huge arguments, cheating, or heartbreak.
Maybe it was even a mutual thing, where you both agreed that things weren’t working
out, and that breaking up and moving on was the right thing to do.
Then, a week later, perhaps you sent your ex a love letter spilling your guts and begging
him or her to take you back…. which, of course, is absolutely NOT a good idea.
That type of mistake, especially if the breakup itself wasn’t messy and didn’t involve
any excess drama, probably isn’t going to make your ex suddenly start seeing you as
a “creepy loser who must be avoided at all costs”....
So in a case like that, there’s still a very good chance of getting back on the right
track and reversing your breakup.
On the other hand, if you’ve cheated on your ex and slept with his or her best friend…
then followed up the breakup with a stream of a mean, insulting text messages and voicemails…
if you’ve spread lies about your ex through Facebook and sworn never to speak to him or
her again….
Then things aren’t looking quite as hopeful for you.
Believe it or not, I’ve actually helped clients overcome that kind of situation before
and successfully win back their ex, but obviously in extreme cases like that, it’s a lot more
difficult and requires a lot more patience and persistence.
Most of you watching this video are probably somewhere in between…
maybe you’ve made more mistakes than the first scenario I just described, but you haven’t
been a complete asshole or shattered your ex’s heart into a million pieces.
In that case, obviously the specific details of your breakup and the mistakes you’ve
made will determine your chances of success, but generally speaking it’s safe to say
that you probably have a chance of getting back together….
IF you stop making mistakes and you start using the techniques and strategies that I
teach in my Ex Factor program.
A lot of people are skeptical and want to ‘go it on their own’ instead of trusting
the proven tactics that I teach to people in your situation on a daily basis….
I’ve been helping clients get back together with their ex for over a decade now, and I
promise that your best chance at overcoming any past mistakes and turning things around
is to stick to the strategies outlined in my program and in my videos here on YouTube.
So if you are ready to stop the downward spiral, make up for your past mistakes, and start
reeling your ex back into your arms, then the best place to start is at my website,
www.BreakupBrad.com.
Head over there after this video, and watch my full-length how-to video presentation right
to the end… you’ll learn 3 facts you MUST know in order to get your ex back, as well
as several sneaky psychological techniques that you can start using today to change how
your ex feels about you and your breakup.
Again, to watch that full video, go to www.BreakupBrad.com.
Now, if you’ve made one of the most common mistakes that people make after a breakup,
which is to beg or plead with your ex… you know, asking for another chance, promising
you’ll change if your ex will give the relationship another shot, that kind of thing.
Those are obviously NOT the kind of things that will help your cause -- in fact, begging
and pleading with your ex is a surefire way to make things worse rather than better -- but
they’re usually something you can overcome if you play your cards correctly from this
point forward.
I’ve developed something that I call the “Clean Slate Email Template” to specifically
address this common mistake….
It’s essentially a message that you can send to your ex to erase the negative image
of you that your ex has in the back of their mind, and start to replace that mental image
with something more positive.
Basically, the message helps to re-wire your ex’s perception of you with some carefully
crafted language and psychological techniques.
It’s not ALWAYS a quick fix for everyone in your situation, but this Clean Slate Email
Template does work extremely well for most people, and it’ll give you a fresh start
moving forward so that you can begin to make some positive progress towards getting a second
chance with your ex.
I don’t want to share the full message with you guys here, because you need to do a couple
of things first before you send your ex the Clean Slate message, otherwise you may actually
make things worse… but if you want to get the full details on how and when to send this
very effective message, please visit BreakupBrad.com/buy and sign up for my Ex Factor program today.
And don’t forget to take the free quiz tool that I mentioned earlier in this video, which
will help you determine whether or not your ex will take you back… the quiz took me
a LONG time to develop, and it’s based on academic research and a variety of different
variables, so it’s definitely worth the 5 minutes of your time.
To take the quiz yourself, visit BreakupBrad.com/quiz.
And before I wrap this video up, I have one final piece of advice for those of you out
there who are still very concerned that you might have blown your chance at getting back
together with your ex… you can’t go back in time and undo your past mistakes, so stressing
about what you’ve done since the breakup or analyzing things over and over again in
your head is completely pointless.
Forget the past, and focus instead on what you can control, which is the future and your
strategy moving forward.
That’s what will help you turn the ship around and start bringing your ex back into
your arms.
Alright, thanks so much for watching guys, hope you found this video helpful….
As always, if you want my advice or if you’ve got feedback, please leave a comment below
and I’ll personally respond as soon as I can to each and every one of you.
Thanks again for the support guys, see you next time!