By the end of this video you are gonna get a bachelor's degree in kissing
because you're gonna learn when to do it, how to do it and how to leave her
wanting more. Alright, I'm going to cut to Brittany real quick. Here is when not to kiss a
girl. One day this guy I worked with asked me out for drinks after work. We're
friends, he's nice. I just moved to the city like sure. He bought me a drink. I was
like okay, didn't think anything of it. We're friends right.
and then he tries to kiss me and I'm like what are you doing? Like when did I
send you signals that that was okay? After a few hostel fails we finally found a
good one here in Chiang Mai and just to keep you up to speed in the next week
I'm going to be going Ao Nang to slumber party hostel. They have been nice enough
to actually host Britney and I for a week for free and hang out on there
property and do some cool excursions. You're gonna see all that
cool stuff.
So what are the signs that you're looking for? Well here's the biggest
sign. The biggest sign is that you are on a date. If you're on a date with her
and she's having a good time and then she's laughing and being nice. Well
that's different because you know she's interested because she's on a date so
you have permission there to go for the kiss.
One of the benefits of having a
girlfriend is her searching endlessly on Instagram for all the cool spots where
you let's say that you end up meeting a girl and you guys end up hitting it off
and this is before you get a number before the opportunity for a date yes
you still have the opportunity to kiss her you know it doesn't matter if it's
during the day or in a bar at a club this opportunity exists but it only
exists if she's showing you the signs otherwise again you have the chance of
getting rejected but you also run the risk of just you know going after it and
then being completely misread so I kind of Brittany was saying with her story
how and she was you know barely asked out by a guys the guy is like hey let's
hang out than anyone for it and she was at whoa wait a second
I don't know what's going on here so what I think would be interesting for
the guy watching would be to know how a female likes to be kissed 90% of the
kisses that I've had in my life has been like positive experiences you know so I
think a lot of guys might psych themselves out over not being able to
kiss well or like how should I kiss her and like because your chances are you're
gonna be doing an okay job for me I really like you talked a lot about
tension and so I think that when it comes to kissing you want to build up
that tension to a point where it is like palpable right and you can actually feel
it when you're doing the first kiss don't sit there and have a long makeout
session you know kiss for like 10 seconds so it gives the idea of like ooh
okay now we're kissing tensions being built and then just stop and go and go
do something else anything like I don't know if it's after
a date like just grab her head and say okay let's go to this place or if you're
meeting her for the first time and like you're on the dance floor you're at a
bar you know grab her hand and go somewhere else just like kind of like
interrupt her really quickly so she's kind of like in this whirlwind of like
whoa what just happened and then later on that night you can go back into it
and she's almost more excited for that second time hence kind of building that
tension that you're talking about another tip I want to give you in terms
of kissing a girl that makes it really intimate really sensual is going slow
okay you can't go slow enough going slow is a really great way to show her that
you're not rushing that you know what you're doing and it makes the experience
that much more sensual I want to see speak out
but I know you're gonna find yourself in different situations right there's
basically like three different situations the first one is a girl who
you like already and she knows you which are kind of in the friend zone the
second one is a girl that you just met and you're in the initial interaction
and the third one is you're on a date so really quickly just to go through all
these the first situation when you're like in the friend zone you like a girl
how can you go for the kiss honestly I wouldn't go for the kiss unless you know
that she's interested in you so I'd be communicating to her and showing some
interest in her so you get some interest back don't just blindly kiss a girl
because you like her and you think maybe she likes you that is a setup for
rejection and in the second situation is when you are with the girl that you're
just meeting at a bar at a club on the sidewalk maybe a grocery store you never
know and you guys may be going an instant date and you guys are there and
you're getting the signs that she likes you because you went and you approached
her and you guys are talking you're having a great conversation and you're
getting those signs okay so hold that thought for a second so there's that and
then there's the first date right so if we combine those last two when is the
time to do it when should you go for the kiss you go for the kiss when you have a
silence that's right when there is a silence between you two so that means
that when you two are sitting there we're standing there and all of a sudden
after you've gotten all these signs that she's interested which I didn't go over
I'll go over again she's talking to you she's looking at you you touched her
she's really interested in conversation she's getting closer to you she wants to
be there she's ignored her friends and it's just you tuned you're standing
there and then all of a sudden there's this silence and you look at her and
she's not saying a word and neither are you
boom that's when you go for it nighttime now back at the hostel and I'm just kind
of going over some of the things that I talked about to you on this video and I
feel like we covered a lot here right we covered some techniques on how to be
really good at it told you when to do it in all different situations so I'm
trying to kind of wrack my brain as he does anything else I can give you and
really all I can think about is don't overthink it okay especially if you are
a guy who hasn't kissed a girl before or maybe you haven't had much experience in
doing that before really don't overthink it and if you do you're gonna catch
yourself in a lot of trouble and that's because once you start overthinking
something once you start over analyzing something that's the second that you end
up making the mistakes because what you're so in your head you kind of end
up freezing up more you give yourself more anxiety you make it more difficult
for yourself to succeed and this goes across the board with pretty much
anything so I'm gonna ask you for two things right now
okay first like this video because I want to know if it helped you so I want
to see hopefully a thousand likes on this video do me that favor press like
right now so I know that this has helped you and if you have any other questions
that I haven't answered about kissing then go ahead and write them down below
I will be in the comments and I'll be answering them any question you have
regarding this thing go ahead write that down below there you go press like and
write down below your biggest question now something came to me as I was saying
this I have this Facebook group that's called trips corner it's a secret
Facebook group you only know about it if you have my program hooked which I'll
leave a link to also in the description and guys in there describes some other
dates that they go on or if they say like oh I went on the state this and
this happened and you know then something happens or they're like oh I
think I'm in the friend zone because I can't get the second day and the girl
says I just want to be friends and most of the time when I see these
descriptions of the dates they don't end in the guy kiss and they don't end up
the guy making a move right he says like oh we were flirting with each other
we're having a lot of fun you know it was it was a blast and
we were touching a little bit and she was laughing and all these signs are
there but he never went for the kiss and sometimes I think that a girl puts you
in the friend zone if you don't make a move to get physical
now you gonna be very clear here and I say physical in this case I'm just
talking about going for the kiss because the kiss is breaking the barrier between
we are friends and we are something more so I urge you try to go for the kiss try
to just grab that courage and go for the kiss after you are hanging out with the
girl and it's going well and they're seeing those signs because that could be
the one thing that gets you out of the friendzone there you go that's today's
video don't forget press like check the description for links like to my program
hooked and write your question down below on kissing peace I'll see you
tomorrow