In this video I'll be teaching you a STEP BY STEP method for picking up girls on Match.com.
I was skeptical about this site at first, but I ended up really liking it because once
I figured out how to take advantage of it I started getting TONS of numbers.
The other good thing about it is, the girls are a little more open and aren't as shallow
as they are on apps like Tinder so you don't have to be 6'3" and look like Captain America
to be successful on it; and, unlike something like Instagram, every girl on this site is
here because she WANTS to meet guys, so you have a much better shot.
So I decided to try it out for TWO WEEKS, I messaged a ton of girls, tested a bunch
of different things, and I figured out exactly what works the best.
I'll be teaching you: • What messages to send
• How to set up your profile • And how to go from texting within the
Match app to getting a phone #
So let's hop right into it.
First, what do you message them?
Do you just say "hey what's up"?
Do you use a pickup line?
Do you comment on something about their bio?
Well don't even worry about it because I already tested everything for you.
I tried 7 different types of openers: #1.
Puns All you do is come up with a pun using the
girl's name.
They should be: Unique, Creative, and Funny.
Most girls love it because it shows that you're a witty and thoughtful guy.
Here are some examples I used on girls, that resulted in me getting their phone numbers:
◦ "You Shirley never had a guy open using a pun."
◦ "If you don't think I'm cute, you're a damn Liyah."
◦ "In your opinion, what's the most tragic event in US history?
Imo it's Pearl Harper."
◦ "You seem interesting.
I really Vanna talk to you."
• #2.
Reference: • This is just referencing something in
her bio or her pictures.
Now there's a right way and a wrong way to do this.
The wrong way is just make an empty statement, like "I see you like skydiving.
Skydiving is cool."
The RIGHT way is to reference and ask a question OR make an assumption.
By asking a question you prevent her from giving a one word answer, because if she answers
the question it then gives you the opportunity to ask more questions and to make statements
about her answers.
For example, "I see you like skydiving.
What made you get into it?"
Or you can make an assumption, for example, "I see you like skydiving.
You must be someone who enjoys adventure."
Another thing you can do is reference something and disagree with it, for example there was
a girl whose bio said "I used to be an avid Club Penguin member, until they decided to
shut it down, so I had to switch to Roblox, which I'm not mad about."
I opened by saying "Roblox?
Tower Unite is where it's at."
We had a little back and forth and then switched to talking about video games in general, and
within a few minutes she agreed to come to my place to play Mario Kart.
• #3.
Direct approach Open her using whatever method you want, and
add "what's your phone number" at the end.
It worked a little, but not as well as the other methods.
I recommend only using this if the girl's bio seems like she's upfront and open to meeting
up.
• #4.
Clickbait This is really unreliable.
Some girls fall for it, others don't.
The most effective way is to turn it into a joke.
For example, "You won't believe what I just found out."
They say "What?" and I'd say "You can clickbait women into replying."
• #5.
Basic approach This is pointless.
It isn't engaging, and even if she responds, it leads to such a boring conversation that
one of you will sooner or later stop responding.
• #6.
Pickup line.
This is pointless.
It didn't work at all.
• #7 Compliment.
This is also pointless.
You usually get an "aw, thank you" and that's the end of it.
I tried complimenting girls and then milking conversations out of it after they said thanks,
but it never went anywhere.
Here's a chart I made showing how effective each type of message was.
It's Based muthafuckin Zeus, baby - tell me this isn't impressive.
I sent each type of message to 20 different girls.
Using the Pun type as an example, out of the 20 girls I sent puns to, 16 of them replied,
and 15 turned into interesting conversations, with 12 resulting in phone numbers.
The worst methods were the Basic Approach the Pickup Lines, and Compliments - you can
see that some girls replied to them, but 0 of those replies resulted in phone numbers,
so they were pointless.
You can see that using puns and referencing bios are the best ways to do it.
Here's a graph of it as well.
Puns are great, referencing bios is great, Direct approach is alright, and clickbait
is alright.
You can also see that if you compliment girls, you'll get a good number of responses, but
you'll mostly just be wasting your time having conversations that lead nowhere, so avoid
that.
Regardless of what method you use, you want to get her number as soon as possible.
Don't wait more than 5-8 messages to ask for it.
Attractive girls get tons of messages and if you take too long, she'll get busy and
then by the time she looks at her phone again your message has been pushed down by all the
other guys messaging her, so she forgets about you.
So if things are going well, within 5-8 messages you want to get her number.
Some more tips to keep in mind: • The subject line of the message isn't
important.
Just don't put "Hey."
Think about what you wrote in the message, and then put an appropriate headline as the
subject, as if you were sending a regular email to a friend.
• Read her bio and look for some buzzwords you can use in your opener.
• Tailor your message to the girl.
A girl who has a lot of spiritual, ambitious, or intellectual stuff in her bio, is probably
down to talk about things like her life goals, passion, and so on.
On the other hand, a girl who has shit like "I like to have fun" and "I'm adventurous,"
just keep teasing her and making little jokes.
Feel out the person you're texting.
Some girls are into long texts, others are into short messages.
A good speaker knows how to tailor what he's saying to his audience.
You can also use the "Daily Matches" feature for this, because it shows you right on screen
what you guys both have in common.
• Don't "interview" her.
Make statements.
Disagree if you disagree.
• Don't be "nice," but don't be arrogant.
Make your messages seem like you're just messing around and not really taking this online dating
thing seriously.
Don't make "heartfelt compliments" because it's needy and the girl will get bored of
you - actually, don't make ANY compliment until she's already warmed up - do it only
after she starts sounding DTF, but honestly at that point you should be getting her number
already anyway.
• Get your priorities straight: if you read between the lines, it's clear from a girl's
bio if she's looking for a hookup or a relationship.
If you just want to hook up, don't go for girls that want a relationship, because you'll
waste your time.
• When you get her number, have a reason for it.
Let's say you both like art, talk about art, ask her to go to an art gallery with you and
then ask for her number.
Also, you should have an Instagram or a Snapchat, because some girls are nervous about giving
out their numbers and this makes it easier for them.
• Be interesting.
Most girls are boring texters and give boring answers, so it's easier to just be interesting
and make them ask all the questions.
A lot of the conversations I had revolved around me - my hobbies, the places I've lived,
the things I like to do and the things I can do, and so on.
• Share stories.
I found that this is probably the best way to bond with girls on Match.
If she tells you a story, tell her about a similar thing that happened to you, plus ask
an extra question, so it keeps going.
Now, let me tell you how to set up your bio.
It's actually really simple.
• For the bio itself, keep it short, funny, and honest.
It should give the girl a slight idea of your personality without being a huge essay with
a list of every single hobby you have.
Short and simple and somewhat funny, but if you can't work something funny into it then
don't push it.
Most guys have really tryhard profiles which don't work.
Honestly this isn't that important anyway because most girls never message guys first,
so they only look at your bio after you've already messaged them and been talking for
a little while.
So just have one that's short and to the point.
• For your profile picture: I found the best to be a nice, clear photo of you from
your chest up.
Have a friend take it, use a tripod, or prop your camera up on something, so it doesn't
look like a selfie.
• For your other pictures: A lot of guys on Match overuse sporty pictures like rock
climbing, beach pics, animal pics, and so on.
In my opinion it's too generic since everyone has realized it works, which means it no longer
works because everyone else is already doing it.
I took a different route and used pics that showcased my personality.
No mirror pics, no shirtless pics in places where you should have a shirt on you get the
idea.
The goal is to showcase how cool your life is BUT, it can't seem like you're showing
off.
Here's what I used: ◦ 1 profile pic - chest up, you can clearly
see my face.
◦ 3 pics of me around town taken by a friend who's into photography, so they look professional
automatically stand out against all the dudes taking blurry ass selfies in the bathroom.
◦ 1 pic of me in an art class doing a goofy pose next to a really bad drawing.
Shows I have hobbies and a sense of humor.
◦ 1 pic of me at a party with some friends.
Shows I have a social life.
◦ 1 pic of me holding something.
Shows off my ripped ass bicep muscles without looking like I'm intentionally showing off.
◦ 1 pic of me in a tux, with one of my friends, and a girl.
Shows I have style, and I actually know a girl.
◦ 1 pic of me with a couple girls.
You should have 1 or 2 pics with girls, because showing you actually know other girls seriously
boosts your attractiveness.
If you don't know any girls, then even pics with female cousins or your friend's girlfriends
or random girls on the street is fine.
So those are the pictures I used.
The main idea is: (1) show you have a sense of humor, (2) show off without showing off,
and (3) show you have some semblance of a social life.
If you can't do that, just do the best you can, it's not a big deal.
So there you have it!
That's exactly how to set up your bio, your pics, and exactly how to message them!
Here's the chart again for reference.
You definitely want to message a bunch of girls, don't just pick 2 or 3 and expect them
to fall in love with you.
Message lots of people and feel it out so you can get an idea of what works for you.
This is actually a really easy way to meet girls of all ages so I highly recommend trying
it out yourself for a week or 2.
Just hop right into it and start messaging them and you'll get the hang of it really
fast.
You can also use the link on-screen, and in the description below, to get a one week free
trial at the site, courtesy of your boy Based Zeus.
Like I said, when Match first asked me if they could sponsor a video, I was a little
skeptical - and I didn't want to recommend something that didn't work - so I got on there
myself and tried it out, and it actually works really well!
So hop on it and try it yourself and then come back next week and leave a comment letting
me know