hi there I'm Adrienne Everheart, I am a feminine energy
dating and relationship coach and i'm here to teach you all about getting back
in touch with your natural feminine energy and realigning your
relationships and the man you love with that natural
feminine energy it's going to improve your relationship
it's going to help your man hear you and tie up his heart like never before
and it's also going to make you feel better and improve actually
all of your relationships just stick around in this video i'm going to
explain what feminine energy is what it isn't and how things like
gratitude and clarity are your very best friends when
you are rediscovering your feminine energy and reconnecting to
the man you love or perhaps calling forth
the man you're meant to be with
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comment section as well what is feminine energy feminine energy
is part of you it's part of you naturally it's also part of men
certain men can have feminine energy some more than
others but feminine energy is your birthright as is masculine energy
you just have a decision to make about which one you want to be in
when it comes time for the relationship to happen with a man
so in your life you've gone to work you've gone to school you've raised
children on your own you've gone through divorce you have probably
suffered a lot of things happening in your life
and at some point when you were very young
in order to survive you realized i need to be tough
i need to be strong and i need to think and you probably actually got rewarded
for thinking you got rewarded for making good grades
or you got rewarded for by a positive something positive
happening to you when you decided you sort of set your
mind to it and you went out and you made things happen
so that was very much boy energy and boy energy is perfectly okay
it's actually what helps us make things happen however
with a man if you try to make things happen
if you try to tweak the outcomes and control a man
you get yourself into a little bit of conflict because the man
doesn't want to be controlled the man doesn't know the specific outcome but he
can absolutely sense when you're kind of
pushing for a particular outcome so as you can imagine feminine energy
is not making a specific outcome happen it's not controlling the outcome or
controlling people to get what it is you want in fact
masculine energy is more about controlling outcomes
making things happen getting the job done and getting it done
on time so just consider that for a moment and
let me introduce you to your natural feminine energy which is
all about receiving in college i studied feminist theory and
i studied literature and how gender roles really greatly were
affected from the literature we read that got
brought over from england into america so when you think
about feminist theory and how a lot of the
attributes that we felt were just natural for women how they
really came to be in our society and you were able to look at that
you realize very quickly why women at some point revolted
from these stereotypes or just because we're a woman we know how to pack a
suitcase or we know how to cook a wonderful meal
and we can do things like play the piano and entertain
people you can imagine why women really rejected that
notion because it was a prescribed set of values
that came to us with as if they were our birthright
and many many women you know now more than ever there are more small business
owners that are women there are more college educated women than there ever
have been before and the world actually has
more women than men so we have all of these things
going for us and we have suffered through pandemics that are now
slowing the world down and getting us more into a feminine
energy world of receiving and slowing down so these are the positive
things of feminine energy you actually don't have to work that
hard in a relationship you don't really have to work hard
at all you don't have to give a man anything to make a relationship work or
happen you simply want to be in your feminine energy
and this goes back to the sperm and the egg if you think about the sperm it is
definitely having to swim and fight and battle
other sperm to get to the egg and from what i understand the egg actually chews
as the sperm and the egg just sits there and waits
until the right one comes along that she chooses and allows in so
i want you to apply this to your relationship currently
with men or the men in your life and just begin to notice how often you're
doing the man's work for him so how do you get a guy to do
more of his natural masculine energy work because
you've been doing it for a while you're suddenly going to change things
up on him and you're going to get a reaction
right sometimes we want that reaction to be immediate and we want to see
immediate change remember you're doing these steps and techniques not to
manipulate or control the man but to actually help you feel better
more grounded more relaxed in that natural leaning
back energy when you need to you can go into
your boy energy you can get the job done you can do whatever you need to do just
to be clear feminine energy is not about being a
doormat or changing who you are to suit the man do you want to
practice some new things absolutely will this be reawakening your
inner girl and she might be a little drowsy and
take a little repetition and re-learning some of these tools for
sure you're going to experience a little bit
of this feels new and this feels weird because you
probably haven't behaved like a girl since you're around three years old in
fact our society does anything and everything to women except
be a woman be a girl go ahead cry have feelings
express yourself you know we're actually taught to use our minds be smart
and not show emotion in most cultures and in most
families so now you get a redo you're a grown adult woman
you have choices to make in your life and if you begin
to explore your feminine energy just be prepared
for a little bit of change back happening on you
where your body just begins to feel uncomfortable and maybe even other
people around you begin to feel uncomfortable
with your new changes now don't worry again you've been doing things for the
man for a long time when you suddenly stop he's not going to
know what to do so i really encourage you take some of
these tools do them gradually start off small
go slow and easy with yourself and don't rush into anything
with great big expectations but yes whether you're dating or married you can
begin to fix your relationship immediately with feminine energy
i want to talk a little bit about gratitude and gratitude is something
that you might believe you're doing in a lot
of ways but feminine energy is slowing down and
really taking notice of anything good the man is doing
for you or around you so for example i was riding my bike with my husband the
other day and he saw a little caterpillar
on the sidewalk and i saw it as well and he said oh it's
gonna get squished here on the sidewalk let me pick it up and move it
that is a wonderful wonderful thing to do no girl wants to see a bug get
squished on the sidewalk so him doing that i was
just letting him know how grateful i was what
a sweet gesture that was and what happened to
him when i told him i saw him stand up
taller he said well you know i care about insects and
animals just like you do he really got into this good feeling
place because of this gratitude i gave him so
when you begin to notice the things right your partner is doing the
things that he's going out of his way whether it's opening the door for you
picking up a nap can making a phone call taking care of something for you that he
really didn't have to make sure you express gratitude you are
absolutely exercising your feminine energy when you
express gratitude this can happen with your
children your girlfriends your mom your dad
anybody any relationship you want to improve
express some gratitude don't lay it on too thick
but definitely let them know how it feels
for example oh i feel so moved that you saved that little caterpillar
it's gonna turn into a beautiful butterfly and i hope i get to see it one
day this is what men love to hear from women
they love to hear our feelings that are going on inside of our body
finding energy is also about getting clarity
a feminine energy woman is intelligent you get clarity you understand what's
going on you are not afraid to ask your guy
hey where do you see us going if you're in a relationship and you're not sure
and my girlfriend are we dating what's happening am i ever going to get
married to this guy it's been two years you're not afraid to ask him where do
you see us going i encourage you preface it with some
warmth and also a little bit of gratitude
such as it feels so amazing getting together
every weekend and i always feel so warm and comforted
in your arms i'm curious where do you see us going
those words to a man will definitely change the expression on his face
be ready for that but i want you to go ahead and
listen and get the clarity you need even if you
hear something that you really were hoping to get a different answer
i want you to just get the clarity listen to him
he sometimes has to hear the words coming out of his
own mouth this is really important that's why you want to open up dialogue
that allows the man to tell you what's going on in his world number one
you get a little dose of reality instead of being up here where you're hoping
dreaming wishing that you'll get a proposal or that
something else will happen with this man you're able to ask him directly and hear
it right from the source now i have a saying and that is a man
can change his mind in a month a week or a minute
so often men will say something one day but then kind of change their minds i
actually found out my first husband when he and i were
kind of you know figuring out if we were in a relationship or getting together or
whatever he heard me uh in a department store
scream kind of make a loud noise and he thought that i had hurt myself
when in fact i had found something and just fell in love with it and he
heard this noise but he got so scared when he heard me call out
that he knew in that instant that he wanted to care for me and love me and
take care of me this is how it works with men they get
activated their masculine energy gets activated and it changes everything now
before you go screaming to get your guys attention or something like that
i want you to be willing to get clarity on the small things
so often guys are non-verbal they'll just shake their head
or just sigh or do some sort of body language
and i want you to be i'm confused what does that mean and be able to ask
that you're a smart intelligent creative
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