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my producer just throws something at me
that i have no idea what it is and i
react live so
i'm gonna be doing some therapy for love
is blind
is this is this like some trashy
romance reality yes
affirmative
oh lord help me mended light
[Music]
okay love is blind uh i've been given
the very brief premise these two are
supposed to court without actually ever
meeting and they're just talking through
pods so can you fall in love with
somebody if you don't know what they
look like the fans have asked for love
is blind well here we go folks every
time i talk to shane i feel just so
confident and so overwhelmingly happy
like my gut is just
i'm going to spend the rest of my life
with him
that that feels
coached
really because you seem like a lovely
intelligent person so
you talk with him through a pod and
you're like i'm gonna spend the rest of
my life with him i'm just gonna gamble
my whole future
on a couple of pod calls
awesome
i truly feel like he's the one no you
don't
oh whoa was that him hello with the pink
shirt and the red towel
he looks like zack morris reincarnated
that's what he looks like and as we all
know zach morris is trash
so they're coming in at night and who
are talking to you i don't know take a
guess no oh shayna there you go
what did you say why
oh that's what i was hoping for
what are you wearing over there
is this not the same guy she wanted
hello the different guy
hello chance top
i love the
her crushing disappointment so wait what
is going on it's natalie of course
oh sorry
uh that could be interpreted several
ways what he just did
are you okay
are you good
okay so why is the music suddenly like
who wants to be a millionaire are you
listening to this it sounds like she's
gonna phone a friend or she's gonna use
one of her lifelines or like i don't
understand she saw an ad online and she
thought this is the hope for my future
and then she hears this guy and he talks
like this and this is when she's like oh
that's the best voice i've ever heard i
want to spend the rest of my life with
this guy like you you do you think i
went or what
did he say what do you think of my no he
said do you think i'm a dick okay i weep
for the future all of you who like live
in this stuff it's fine enjoy it but
like balance it with some jane austen or
something
something of substance please i mean
listen if you think i'm a dick i feel
like that's kind of weird no offense but
here's what i don't get already
i haven't watched the rest of the show
i have no idea how someone who could
approach this situation the way he's
approaching it
could ever be put in the category of
someone that she felt safe talking to
and look forward to spending the rest of
her life with
once a tool always a tool and dude
doesn't even strike me as someone who
could fake being prince charming and he
doesn't know how a couch works and i'm
getting a little too much of an eyeful
with his legs open crotch shot right now
adding a little more substance to my
theory that he asked her what do you
think of my
i'm not feeling this
i don't see how she ever fall in love
with him how she ever thought she was
how she was ever devastated nellie
you're talking to other people too right
are you not
natalie
her name is natalie not n and three a's
like you're pronouncing it nai
nelly natalie hello she forgot her lines
hello
yeah i'm here oh i'm just thinking
why i just like feel
that is the best light ever that is the
best light ever i'm just thinking why
why would you do that i didn't think
gaston was real but here we have gaston
it's amazing so he's automatically nice
arm veins though so good for him is he
single he immediately goes on the
defensive even though he was acting like
he immediately goes on the offensive and
tries to shame her for being hurt
let me repeat that i'm rude to you and
then i guilt trip you for being hurt by
my rudeness i just really feel like i
will spend the rest of my life with him
i think he's the one
tail as old as time i feel like a little
bit like led on
for real yeah kind of how so
if you want to explore another
connection then don't talk about like
what we're gonna do in chicago and like
all this stuff like don't say that okay
so so i'm gonna be honest with you then
okay because i i'm trying to give
everyone an open mind like going into
like our conversations i don't ever
wanna make you feel bad but i'm here
to like try to like find it my wife whoa
that is creepy psycho stalker face
my wife says that i can open my eyes and
you can actually see the top the whites
of my eyes above and below it's a rare
gift it's great at halloween he must
know that she can't see him because he's
looking at her like a serial killer
like that is serial killer face i'm
trying to give everyone an open mind
there's no there is no accountability
there's no i'm sorry there is nothing
but just being a douche rocket i'm so
glad you guys recommended this this is
fun and it's like i'm giving everything
i have to and i'm a very passionate
person i have to talk to other people i
was just hurt because i've been very
clear that i have like strong feelings
for you and clearly you had feelings for
her and that's fine but like don't leave
me on and just like be realized in terms
of like i'm not trying to lead you on
whatsoever wait how does she know he has
feelings for this other woman i need to
rewind the tape
hello hi who am i talking to you i don't
know take a guess no
no there you go
why
okay so wait later on she's saying it's
clear you have feelings for
because he guessed the wrong person from
one sentence that you said
this is so contrived
oh
this just like clogs the arteries of
your soul
i'm only two minutes in and i feel bad
you're gonna cover my book with a heart
on it for christ's sake like
you're my number one i want you to know
that
you're my number one
i'm here for the right reasons
what are those what are those what are
money the what is so social media
followers what are the right reasons
you're my number one
is about the sleaziest line again
maybe not in a polyamorous relationship
but even in a polyamorous relationship
my understanding is they all kind of
want to be on
more or less equal
field this is like
you're my wife you would be the wife tim
of the concubines like you're my number
one but you gotta be cool with the
numbers two through thirteen because
they're going to be around too
saying that you're here for the right
reasons but don't like feed me [ __ ]
[Laughter]
[Music]
no one put you in this position you
signed the waiver and you took the
paycheck you bastard going through why
am i getting like i guess like beat
about it's like it's like you like this
is the whole experience and i don't
wanna make this man
is husband and father material
right there
he is gonna be a fine example to your
children spend your life with him
this is gonna be great he will always be
the victim and you will always be the
villain
that's love that's what i'm signing up
for i wanna make you feel like you're
being beat up like i i'm not trying to
come after you he's throwing a tantrum
trying to understand truly like i don't
want you to be like mad or frustrated
about it i'm not kidding
the way he's sitting there going
reminds me of my five-year-old when he's
been putting time out like i just want
to give him a binky and a blankie and
put him down for a nap
and then start over got her frustrated
about this i'm very frustrated because i
i can't i don't know how much more
research i can give you what reassurance
have you given her
you've given her a bunch of
i'm sorry what reassurance have you
given her when did that happen because
i've been watching i didn't see it other
than you're my number one i don't know
how much more reassurance i could give
you i already said you're my number one
and i'm tapped out i'm spent that is my
quota for reassurance for the day let's
start over tomorrow
what i'm trying to figure out is if you
think this is going anywhere
if
this little hiccup is like that big of a
deal and like that changes everything
then like maybe this is not what we
thought it was i guess
[Music]
how does she
i don't want to be prejudiced or
anything but like this is love is blind
right so you're just hearing someone's
voice
and he sounds like krusty the clown you
watch this show
pick up some tolstoy or something heck
even pick up some stephanie meyer like
you'll learn at least
this i have found something that makes
twilight look healthy and it is this
this is amazing
look i can't even respond to this as if
it's real i can't even give you
reality-based relationship advice
because like this is so far out of what
i think anyone would actually say or do
but if someone gaslights you like he
does if someone is quick to shift the
blame if someone is what i think is
hilarious is that he says she's making a
huge deal about everything and he's
literally throwing a temper tantrum on
the floor like a toddler if your
significant other is acting like this
get help or get out do not get engaged
are you kidding me
uh
oh
you know
for all the progress we make in society
i watch stuff like this and it makes me
feel like it was all for nothing
i feel like all the fighting that we've
done
all the work we've done to improve
society
has been undone with one single episode
one single solitary episode the gottmans
are still alive but somehow they're also
rolling in their graves i don't
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