Hello my wonderful friend!
Today's video is on signs she likes you more than a friend.
If you want to know how to know if she likes you these signs are the key you are looking for.
Now, these signs are based on my extensive research and my insights as a woman.
These are things that just work.
As women, this is what we do when we are interested in a guy.
Usually we have no idea we're doing it.
And be sure to watch to the end because I have a special solution that will help you
whether or not you see these signs in the girl you're crushing on.
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Alright, so let's talk about the friend zone.
None of us want to go there, none of us want to talk about it, because it's a painful experience.
There's nothing worse than really crushing on someone, seeing them as more than a friend,
and having them just see you as a friend.
Honestly it's just a lot easier to stay out of the friend zone, so if you haven't seen
this video on that check out the link in the description below.
But what do you do if you're already in the friend zone and you're trying to figure out
how to get out?
Now best case scenario is that you will find out that she likes you too and that you will
be able to make a move and pursue that.
That is best case scenario, and that is actually what makes these signs so helpful.
Often a girl is totally interested in you too, but she thinks you're not interested in her.
So what ends up happening, is two people who really like each other, well one ends up moving
on because they think the other is not interested.
Here's a little bit of an insight for you.
I have studied body language a ton, you guys.
Like a ton.
And I can tell you that women seem to actually show more signs they're interested than men.
So as confused as you are that she's interested, she's probably way more confused.
As women we just tend to be more animated.
So, let's get started with signs she likes you more than a friend.
I do want to mention real quick though, that I have actually done a ton of videos on how
to know a girl likes you.
Like a ton.
And the truth is each girl is different.
I have picked out some signs for you today that are specific to if you are already friends.
However, not every woman is going to show each sign.
That's why it's so important to be aware of a lot of them.
So I have whole bunch of videos on this, check out the link in the description below so you
can watch those.
The more signs you're aware of the easier it will be.
So, let's get started.
Sign number 1 is she tries to spend time alone with you.
She wants one-on-one time with you.
Honestly when a girl is crushing on a guy nothing makes her more happy than just spending
time with you.
The two of you able to just focus on each other.
That is her happy place right there.
So if you notice that she frequently wants to spend time with just you instead of your
group of friends, of if you are with a group of friends and she kind of tries to just be
with you, that's a really good sign that it's because she likes you.
Number 2 is she gives compliments frequently.
Compliments are something women use all the time when we are flirting.
Compliments are just kind of the base of flirting, let's be real here.
However, this sign is actually pretty easy for a lot of people to overlook because she
may not be super obvious about the compliments she's giving.
Especially if you're in a group of friends and she's embarrassed or if she's just plain
nervous, which if she's crushing on you she's nervous.
If she's a more shy girl she will definitely be more subtle.
So, look for compliments that are not quite as huge.
Like "Oh, hey there handsome."
Not every girl is going to use that.
She may use something more subtle like "Wow, that shirt really brings out the color of your eyes."
or "Oh my goodness, you're so smart."
or "Thanks, I can always count on you."
Little things like that instead of "Oh hey, I love your muscles."
you know?
She's probably going to be a little more subtle, and if you notice that these compliments happen
frequently, that's a really really good sign.
Before we get to sign number 3 I have a quick question for you.
Would you guys like me to make more videos on the friend zone and how to get out of the
friend zone?
If you think I should, type "Yes!" in the comments below.
And as always if you have any additional ideas leave those in the comments as well.
Now we are to sign number 3.
So let's just talk about touch for a minute.
Let's face it, when we are crushing on someone and we think somebody is cute, we want to
touch them.
Big surprise there, right?
Now here is again where the signs can be a little difficult to read, just because each
girl is different.
Some girls are just really comfortable with touch.
Some girls are totally comfortable hugging you a lot and being very very obvious about
touching you.
Other girls are a lot more subtle about it.
I would dare say probably most girls are going to be more subtle about it.
When we like someone we often find ourselves touching them without even realizing it because
it's not something we are consciously doing.
So, she may brush up against you, she may let your hands touch when she's handing you
something or if you are looking at her phone or something like that.
You may notice that she sits close to you and that you touch while you are sitting.
These can all be really good signs that she's attracted to you and that she likes you.
It's important to be aware, does she do this with everyone or are you the exception?
Because again, some girls are just touchy and they'll do that with everyone.
But if she's doing that specifically with you then that's a really good sign.
When it comes to a really subtle sign that she wants to touch you, this one is very often
completely overlooked but is very powerful.
And that is sometimes girls wont even touch you at all, but she wants to, she's just too
scared to.
When this happens, what a lot of girls will do is they'll just lean in towards you.
It's something she's not aware that she's doing, but she does.
She will lean in towards you.
Sometimes she will just stay in that lean, other times she will lean in and back out
and then lean in and back out throughout your conversation and as you interact with each other.
This is actually one of those subtle body language signs I was not aware of until I
started researching this.
And guys, I do this like crazy.
Now that I'm aware of it, I'm very aware of it.
What it is, again, it's not conscious, she doesn't know she's doing it, but she leans
in to kind of see how you would react if she was in your personal bubble space, if she
was close to you, and then she backs back out, because she doesn't want to spend too
much time there, she's trying to gauge your reaction.
Now just like she is doing this unconsciously, you will react to her unconsciously.
And so if you were to like lean in be receptive to her getting closer, that kind of let's
her know that there is some interest.
So that's a really long way to say some girls will lean in and lean out, lean in and lean
out if she's not as comfortable touching you.
That is something to be aware of, because the truth is when we are interested in someone
we lean in.
So don't feel like it's the end of the world if she doesn't actually touch you.
Pay attention to if she leans and does she lean specifically with you.
Sign number 4 is that you talk a lot.
Especially if you are texting and chatting all throughout the day and even if you stay
up late at night because you're talking to each other.
That is a really really good sign that she's desperate to talk to you and to spend
time with you in some way, even if it's just through a text message, it's because she's
thinking about you all the time and she is crazy about you.
P.S. If you want some more help on how to get a girl to think about you all the time be sure
to check out this video.
There is a link in description below.
Now one caution with this, is you don't want to attract a needy woman.
As a matter of fact that is just opening up a Pandora's box, you do not want to go there.
So make sure that she's not needy about it, that's never a good thing.
But if you guys are having fun and you're teasing, maybe even flirting a little bit,
just having fun chatting with each other all the time, telling each other everything, totally
best friends that way, well that's a really good sign that she always wants to talk to
you because you mean something really special to her.
And we are to sign number 5 in signs she likes you more than a friend.
This one kind of goes along with sign number 1 actually.
And it is that she asks you to do things with her a lot.
It kind of goes along with wanting to spend time one-on-one with you.
If she basically asks you to do all kinds of things with her, without actually asking you
out, boy, it is because she wants you to ask her out so bad.
This is her way of trying to get you to notice her, trying to get you to think of her in
kind of more of a date type situation, and really it's her way of trying to get you to ask her out.
And as a bonus she gets to spend time alone with you.
So if you find that she frequently is asking you do things with her, maybe even help her
with things sometimes, obviously again you don't want her to be needy, but if you notice
that she asks you to do things a lot that are not actually a date, it's because she
wants you to ask her on a date.
Now with all of these signs you need to know this, so this is very very very very important,
please pay attention.
The bottom line with all of these signs, is make sure you are the exception.
That is really one of the most important rules when it comes to reading women's body language
and knowing if a girl likes you.
You have to make sure you are the exception.
Kind of like with physical touch, if she's just a touchy person and she does that with
everyone, then she just does that with everyone, it does not necessarily mean that you stand out.
However, if you are the only person she does that with, well yeah, that means something big.
If she stays up all night texting everyone, then that does not mean you are the exception.
However, if you are the special someone she if texting late at night, that's because you
are the special someone.
Again, I've done a ton of videos on this.
Check out the links in the description below.
The more signs you are aware of the better you will be able to gauge this.
Now after knowing these signs you are probably finding yourself in one of two situations.
Either one you are feeling fairly confident that your crush likes you back, which is
fabulous, I do have something that will help you with that.
Or two you are realizing that you aren't seeing those signs.
When this is the case, that's okay, don't panic.
Give yourself some time to notice the signs with seeing her a couple of times.
Because sometimes we just don't pick up on it if we aren't aware of it.
And be sure to watch those other videos because again, each girl is different, not every girl
is going to use every sign.
So be sure to check that out.
Now even if you found out that she isn't interested, or if that she is, you need to check out my
online course How to Get a Girlfriend.
If you found out she isn't interested it will help you be able to find someone who is.
And if you found out she is interested it will set you up for success and help you throughout
the entire dating process.
In How to Get a Girlfriend I teach you how to become confident and self-assured like a boss.
I teach you how to date like a boss, how to move past the fear of rejection, and ultimately
how to attract the type of woman you want and set yourself up for a healthy
and happy relationship.
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[blooper beep] When you are crushing on that special someone, you want to spend time with them.
You want to get to know them, you want them to spend time with you and to focus on you,
you want- [tongue twisted] Yes you do.
Remember that. [laughter]
The more signs you see, the more you know she likes you, and...
I have no idea what I was about to say [chuckle]