if you feel like your husband doesn't
love you anymore well i know what that
feels like i've coached hundreds of
women
that have experienced that as well
and in this video we're going to talk
about what some of those signs are and
what you can do about it my name is
melody osaguera and i'm the director of
coaching at marriage helper i had a
client that called me one day and her
husband was very cold and even sometimes
mean he no longer showed her any
affection and sometimes wouldn't even
respond to her text or answer her calls
unfortunately she was doing all the
wrong things
she began to
cry and beg
ask him what was wrong why won't he talk
to her
she actually even began to snoop on his
social media accounts and check his
texting
when she began to do these things it
only drove her husband further away from
her
he became even more critical of her
actions even more cold and was ready to
leave
one sign that your husband may not love
you anymore is the fact that he grows
cold and distant he's no longer
talking to you before he goes to bed he
doesn't say bye when he leaves in the
morning for work
he's not sending you those messages
throughout the day just to check in
what might cause him to do something
like that would be that there could be
something on the outside pulling him
away from you it could be a person at
work it could be a lifestyle or a
fantasy that becomes more enticing than
actually the communication with you
inside of the relationship so i had a
client
that
knew something was going on but she
couldn't quite put her finger on it so
she reached out to us and she began to
ask us what do you think is going on and
so we asked her well what is going on
within the relationship and she said
well he doesn't come home at night
and he stays out and he gets drunk
he won't respond to my text when i'm
checking up on him
and the more he did this the more afraid
she became so she would begin to check
up on him more she would begin to call
him more when when he was out and when
he did come in she would confront him in
a very negative way that just
caused him to shut her out even more
so one sign that might indicate that
your spouse is no longer in love with
you anymore is that they have grown cold
and distant another sign that he may not
love you anymore is that he's
withholding affection from you
he no longer holds your hand or kisses
you before he leaves for work or
hugs you when he comes in and says honey
i'm home
it could begin to make you feel like you
no longer matter or that maybe your
spouse isn't attracted to you anymore it
may even cause you to want to reach out
for him physically
in many ways which can only
push him further away from you because
it may create an environment where he
doesn't want to reach out and have any
physical affection anymore i've coached
a lot of wives that have begun to
take measures into trying to entice
their husbands back to them or maybe
even come on a lot stronger than they
ever have before to try to get their
spouse to re-engage with them and it
just doesn't work that way so if your
spouse is withholding affection that may
be another sign that he no longer loves
you
the third sign that your spouse may not
love you anymore is they begin to hide
things they keep their phone on lockdown
like they put a password on it or they
keep it face down or in their pocket it
could be that they start deleting emails
and it's not necessarily because they
may be
seeing someone else it could be that
they feel like their privacy has been
invaded and that you're trying to
control them
the reason why they may be doing this is
because they don't feel like you accept
them for who they are and they feel like
they have to hide parts of who they are
which creates a barrier where you
disconnect because you don't feel like
you're accepted
if someone is judging you or criticizing
you or invading your privacy and asking
you all these questions this may be
because
whenever you find out that they're doing
something you begin to respond
negatively
and they put up the wall
so if your spouse is hiding things like
they've never done before and that is
the third sign they may not love you the
good news is there's hope
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so remember if you feel like your spouse
doesn't love you anymore
there's hope
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