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Today, we’re going to go over the 8 Types Of People You Need To Completely Avoid.
Make sure to watch each one of them to avoid these kinds of people in your life!
Every one of us has certain flaws and imperfections. There is no such thing
as perfection. However, there are a few types of people who can harm you through their words and
actions. Although it is important to tell them once in a while how their actions are impacting
people around them negatively, some people are so toxic that all your efforts to knock some sense
into them will go in vain. Sometimes it is in your best interest to simply avoid them instead of
indulging in an argument. Because nothing is above your self-worth. Right? “Some people are in such
utter darkness that they will burn you just to see a light. Try not to take it personally.”― Kamand
Kojouri. People under discussion here are the ones who do not acknowledge the harm they are causing.
Even worse, they seem to drive some sense of satisfaction from their evil actions. We can
quote several studies that indicate that exposure to toxic people can affect your brain in a way
that you stay stressed and your mental health is significantly compromised. Days, weeks, and months
of tolerating such people can do irreversible brain damage. The only way out without letting
them get on your nerves is to avoid them. To do so, we have come up with the characteristics of
such people for you to recognize them anywhere and keep their toxicity at bay. If somehow you find
yourself resembling any of the types of people mentioned in the list, do not get overwhelmed,
as we are all just work in progress. What makes a difference is that you are intending to evolve for
yourself and the people around you. All in all, do not let anything hold you back, and stay with
us for an enlightening learning experience! Here are 8 Types Of People You Need To Completely Avoid
Number 1 - The blabbermouth This quote is well known and
it will be unfair not to mention it here. "Great minds discuss ideas, average ones discuss events,
and small minds discuss people." – Eleanor Roosevelt. The blabbermouth, the tale-teller,
and rumormonger are all different names of a person who loves gossip.
It is in their skin and bone to derive pleasure and fun from speaking ill of other people. For
some people it might be a fun idea to mock people, their lifestyles, or achievements,
however, gossiping is such a toxic behavior that breeds distrust and bitterness.
Save your skin from the corrosive acids from the mouths of toxic people. Someone who just
helped you to speak evil about another person can later help another person to speak evil about you.
Number 2 - The judgmental Passing judgments is the biggest
turn-off about a person. People who are quick to judge you and the situations you are in are
often power-driven and unempathetic. They make judgments based on their own idiosyncratic
values or tastes. It is so unfair and uncool to judge things people are passionate about.
Life is a learning process for all of us. It is immature and inhuman to comment on someone, as
you never know what that person is going through. Clearly, people who are judgmental lack exposure.
They pretend to be perfectionists when they cannot walk a mile in someone’s shoes they are
looking down upon. When perspective increases through the lenses of creativity and empathy,
true judgment gives way to comprehension and new notions of healing.
Number 3 - The braggart Imagine sharing your achievement with someone
and they talk you down by telling you it is nothing in comparison to what they have achieved.
Stinks, right? Same are the words coming out of the person whose only job is to make people feel
worthless or unaccomplished. The one-uppers are toxic to an extent where they make you feel
insecure in your skin. However, it has been found out that the braggarts or the one-uppers project
their own insecurities when they demotivate you. They see failure in your success. So,
if a colleague or a friend is constantly telling comparing their journey with yours,
give them a cold shoulder and steer clear. No need to entertain people who cannot stand
someone progressing in life. Do not let them build up by tearing you down every chance they get.
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Number 4 - The malicious manipulator Have you ever been in a situation where you
feel like your talents have been misused? Or you are in a relationship where you feel energy sucked
out of you? These are signs of being manipulated by people who put themselves first no matter what.
They will always choose what benefits them and will not care about letting you down.
Most of the time, manipulators come under the façade of friends.
They will lie to you, play on your feelings and even get away with it
without you noticing it. There are instances when you come out of a toxic friendship or relationship
and you realize it was nothing but take, take, take and take. The other person never invested
anything other than their toxicity. Make sure to avoid such people at all costs.
Number 5 - The drama stirrer We have always come across that one
person who is seen in every controversy or drama happening around us. Ever wondered why? Well,
this is because they are the ones triggering it with their vile gossip and rumors causing so much
emotional damage to people causing a domino effect destroying so many relations. What’s
worse is that such drama stirrers come out clean. Avoid the company of such people even if they are
not directly harming you. There is no fun being with some who seeks pleasure in the
destruction of the lives of other people. No room for drama in a peaceful life from now on.
Number 6 - The Jelly Heard the phrase “The grass
is always greener on the other side”? Well, for some people, it is absolutely true. Yes,
we are talking about the jealous jellies who cannot help but measure their achievement against
that of the people around them. In today’s world, it is hard to stay on top of everything all the
time. It is completely normal to see people doing better than you do. However, jealous people cannot
stand the sight of anyone doing better than they do. They will find ways to trivialize your success
and wait for your downfall eagerly. It is better to make friends that clap when you are there on
the stage receiving your trophy, not someone who frowns at every step you take upwards.
Number 7 - The charlatan What is the whole point
of being pretty outside and ugly inside? Yes, we are talking about the charlatan,
the fake ones. At least once in a lifetime we have come across a person who is acts one with us
and completely different around someone else. Growing up you must have realized that the person
who is fun to hang around with is not the nicest person. The people who smile a lot in front of you
are likely to frown behind your back. Being around fake people is so risky that your mental
health is at stake. The moment you share your feelings with them, you become vulnerable as
they will break your trust sooner or later. Most of the time your friends are the worst enemies,
which is why you should always choose quality over quantity.
Number 8 - The gruff Emotions can be difficult to
handle be they negative or positive ones. People often get overwhelmed by them and act on impulse.
We are all humans. All of us have made impulsive decisions in life but the key is to learn from
your experiences. However, some people make this behavior a habit. They have literally no control
over their emotions. Like a snowball, their reactions just destroy everything in their way.
There will be moments when such a person will act out, misbehave with you. Even worse, they will
blame it on you. This will make it hard for you to get rid of them as you will feel guilty. The
best you can do is to avoid them no matter what. Their short temper must not get over your nerves.
You should not allow yourself to become a dustbin for their trash-like thoughts. Final word,
it is hard to navigate through a life with so many toxic people in it. It is better to stay alone
and enjoy your own company instead of being with someone who causes you mental and emotional harm.
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