Hey
Hey! I'm Catherine
and I have two boyfriends. I know,I know
it sounds crazy but
it works well for me.
My first boyfriend is Nicolas.
He's a total bad boy
and I love it.
He's got tattos all over his body.
He's incredibly charming
and he's a real ladies man.
Even though if we're out together holding hands,
he'll still flirt with other girls.
But I don't mind.
I mean, even though he sees other girls,
he is always paying me compliments
and telling me I'm the most beautiful girl in the world.
Last weekend, he took me to a Ed Sheeran concert.
And now we're planning to fly to Costa Rica next summer.
I can't wait.We're going to go jet skiing and diving and it's going to be amazing.
Of course
some girls would get upset
about him dating other girls
but he's always made it clear that we are only together to have fun.
And trust me,we have a lot of fun.
He's not perfect though.
I guess if he was,I wouldn't
need to date a second guy.
Because he can be really immature at times.
Like,one day he would send me a text
about how much he's thinking about me
and then he would suddenly disappear for two weeks
without a word.
Nicolas can be frustrating but there's
something about him which keeps me coming back for more. I mean
he's so damn attractive!
But I'd admit that someday,
I need someone more reliable in my life
which is why i'm also dating my other
boyfriend ,Burke.He's one of the sweetest
kindest people you'll ever meet.
He's always asking me how
I am and making little gestures to let me
know he's thinking of me. Like,
sending me flowers when we haven't seen each other
for a few days. While Nicolas is a real bad boy
Burke is the opposite.
He's nothing but nice. He's top of his class
and he's going to be a lawyer after he graduates.
He does volunteer work in his spare time
and he's thinking about joining the Peace Corps
for a few years before he starts practicing law.He's just a
thirly decent human being.
Sounds like the perfect man. Right?
Well,that's the problem.
He's so perfect, it's boring.
He's so worried about saying the right thing,
he never relaxes and lets loose.
Like,when we go out for dinner he gets annoyed
if i laugh too loud because he's all about fitting in
and not making a fuss.I can't remember the
last time we went to a party together.
Nicolas is the total opposite.
He's always joking around saying dumb things to make me laugh.
He doesn't care what other people think.
He just wants to have fun
Don't get me wrong
Burke has his moments but only when he's drunk
and he doesn't drink that often.There was one time when we went to
a restaurant with a live band for my birthday.
I made him drink wine with me to celebrate because he's not used to alcohol,
he got so drunk that he went on stage and tried to sing
with a band. It was so funny.
Even though we got kicked out of the restaurant.
I had a great time, but when Burke was sober
the next day, he said he was really
ashamed and swore it would never happen again.
When I told him it was fine and he should relax,
he said he didn't want to emberrass himself again.
It's a real shame because if Burke wasn't so
uptight, maybe I'd ditch Nicolas and just date Burke.
I mean I really do care about him,
but I want someone who knows how to have fun
as well to show their softer side.
Dating both guys means i get to spend
time with someone who's fun and with someone who's caring.
And it's not like I'm hurting anyone. Burke knows
about Nicolas and although he'd rather
be exclusive, he never stop me from seeing him
because he wants me to be happy.
I've decided that if I hit 36 and I still haven't
found that one man who has it all,
than I'll settle down for someone like Burke.
At least he's kind
and caring and I know he'll would be a good dad.
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