All right, huge announcement because we are live today is the first ever official had
men nation merchandise drop.
Okay, this on inside of my newsletter has already sold out half between the trucker
hats between the dad hats and the very first ever head man nation official t shirt.
Okay, inside of all of these orders, I've been doing a handwritten card or a handwritten
letter signing each and every single one of these, we have already sold out over half
the inventory strictly through my newsletter list.
And today, I'm finally opening this up to the public.
So if you want the very first time ever in history that I have done my official merchandise
launch, today is the day right, today is July 1, now is the time where you can pick it up.
The link is in the bio, but nevertheless, let's dive in.
Okay, one of the questions that I get inside of my comment section all the time, is things
like you know, Casey, I'm so nice to the people that I want to get to know her I'm so nice
to the women who I want to go out on dates with, why is it that people can't see that
I am genuine?
Why is it that people can't see that I have value?
Or why is it that I consistently get ghosted after every single date or after every single
interaction that I have?
And this is a great question.
Because what I'm going to do today is I'm going to show you five specific points why
nice guys will consistently get ghosted, but I'm going to take this at an extremely deep
level, because everybody has heard the sayings right the sayings is women don't like nice
guys or nice guys typically are less ambitious, you know, or no more Mr. Nice Guy, right?
We hear the terms, but we don't know the psychology behind it.
And if we can actually understand specifically why these things happen, you can come out
on the other side, a hell of a lot better than you were before.
And that's what I'm here to help you do today.
So number one, the very first reason why women don't like nice guys, and ultimately, why
nice guys will even have a problem meeting high quality friends and keeping those friends
is because there is no masculinity within him.
I need you to think about this at a deep level.
Okay, most guys today are weak.
And they're weak, not because they want to be they're weak because they have to be.
They are scared to take risks, they are scared to offend, there is no masculine spirit, there's
no masculine ambition, right.
They're nice just because they feel as if they have to.
And you see this is this is a big issue.
Because if there's no masculinity within that person within that man, he's going to be left
being nice because he feels as if he has to.
So what's going to happen is that there's a genuine lack of safety when a woman is around
him, she feels as if this guy maybe can't protect this guy maybe can't provide, right?
This guy's just floating through life hoping that he doesn't get taken advantage of.
And the key here is that this shows in your voice, this shows in your demeanor that shows
and who you are.
And the problem is that most guys, if you ask them, why they're so nice, it's not because
they want to be it's because they have to be they're either a scared of risk.
They're either be scared to offend or see they're scared to upset the woman that they're
speaking to or that they're going out on a date with.
And this is backwards thinking and I'm going to explain to you why the fundamental essence
of masculinity right is going to be you proving to yourself being ambitious and being a successful
risk taker.
One of the most attractive things to all women and specifically to meet high quality friends,
you know, other male friends, bros that you have around you is showing that you are a
successful risk taker.
And this shows in every way, shape and form.
This is you proving to yourself that you can walk up say hi to the cute girl you're interested
in.
This is you showing to yourself that hey, instead of talking about your goals, hopes
and dreams and ambitions, you know how to put that play into action, monetize that purpose,
become financially free and become a man of value.
Right?
These are things that women look for.
And these are the essence of masculinity, typically nine times out of 10.
If a guy is nice, it's because he has to be not because he wants to be and there's a genuine
miscommunication.
That's number one.
Number two, okay, the second biggest reason why nice guys will always get ghosted is because
their tonality, how they speak, is pleasing.
Okay, and it signals rapport.
And what happens when you have a pleasing voice and it signals report, this is going
to ultimately show that you're a bad fit for hypergamy.
We know that women like the top dogs, we've all known.
We've all known that women like the true bro is at the top.
We all know that women like successful men, ambitious men, men who take risks, right?
Men who are strong men who are capable men who have muscle we all know this, okay, but
we choose to ignore it from time to time.
Now I'm going to let you in on a little secret.
You having this pleasing voice.
Okay, you have I'm gonna show you what this means.
If you walk up to if you're speaking to somebody, and you say, Hey, how are you doing?
I really wanted to get to know you.
Okay, you're going to show it.
At minimum neutral tone.
You're not talking down at the person but you're going to be meeting them where they're
at, you're showing at minimum you're at least an equal.
Okay, what happens what nice guys do is they feel
as if their lower back Are you they they seek rapport they speak up?
They say, Hey, how are you doing?
Okay, that that niceness in the voice is repulsive to most females.
It's repulsive because it signals a bad fit for hypergamy. in all ways, shapes and forms
a signal is a bad fit.
You have to think about this at a deep, deep, deep intellectual or psychological level here
for a second.
If a man is trying to instantly please specifically, please the person he's talking to, what signal
does that actually send to the girl?
It's going to show Hey, this guy maybe does not have confidence in himself, this guy does
not have conviction in himself.
This guy is pleasing when He speaks to me because he feels as if he has to because he
thinks I am higher value than him.
Like I said, we all know women want the top dogs at the top.
They always have.
I'm gonna even take this a little bit deeper.
Okay?
Anytime that I've worked with a guy one to one where I've helped him sell or I've helped
him build a business one of the things that I'm doing as I'm starting to pivot my brand,
my channel, my company, ultimately is actually help other people become financially free
like I did.
Anytime I work with a person who is attempting to start a business or attempting to learn
how to sell.
Okay, the first thing we typically have to remove is that pleasing tonality, that rapport
building tonality, because it specifically brings me to point number three, not only
with women and who you're dating and who you're talking to, okay, not only does it break trust
number three, the biggest reason why nice guys get ghosted is because it breaks trust.
Okay, that seeking or pleasing report, I'm gonna show you numerous instances right now
on how that breaks trust in every way, shape, and form.
First off, if you're in any sort of business interaction,
or you're attempting to acquire clients, you're attempting to acquire prospects, you're trying
to acquire customers, people only want to work with people who are true authorities
and a space.
The only way you are a true authority is by showing that you are and if you're not, it's
going to show in your tone.
It's going to show in your eye contact, it's going to show in your demeanor, right.
It's almost like you're begging, hoping and pleading to get a customer like oh, are you
sure?
Are you sure you want you?
Does this fit what you're looking for?
Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, yadda yadda?
When you come at people like that it instantly repulses them.
And the same is with women.
It breaks trust nice guys break trust.
Do you know what is the most trusting in a man when he has rock solid, masculine foundation
and fundamentals?
It's when he actually has conviction in his voice, No means no.
Yes means yes.
Right.
He has strength within himself.
And that man ultimately knows what he's doing and what he's talking about.
He knows where he's going.
Okay?
You want to have a trusting and convicted tone.
The second that that woman doesn't trust you does not feel safe with you and trust especially
if you're dating and you're getting ghosted a lot by the people who you're talking to
this goes so deep, right?
Like in order for a companion that you're talking to, to feels to trust you that person
must feel safe with you feel as if you can protect feel as if you can provide feels if
if shit hits the fan, that person is protected.
That is the essence of what a nice guy is lacking is the overall strength.
Okay, the fundamentals of what he has to become a nice guys will consistently break trust,
you have to remove that pleasing rapport seeking from the tone at all times.
It doesn't do you any disturbances.
It doesn't do you any service.
It does you a disservice.
It's not as if people like you more afterwards, if they're almost repulsed by you.
And while they may be friendly in the interaction, if you're consistently getting ghosted, if
the people you are entered and who you are wanting to have enter into your life are leaving,
you're going to have to fix these things and it takes work.
Do not shy away from it.
Take those risks and lean into that work.
That's the only way to truly have growth.
Okay, number four, nice guys get ghosted because they're anti seductive.
Okay, the raw essence of masculinity, especially in a time right now and today where it is
lacking more than ever, right?
People are nicer than ever.
There's that niceness and people still not pleasing this in men's tone more than ever.
It's anti seductive, okay, not only does it not match hypergamy.
But it is very, very hard, right to be seductive or have good genuine intimacy with the companion
that you're speaking to the companion that you're attempting to go out on the date with,
it's very hard to come from that right frame.
If you don't have any sort of commanding presence within how you speak.
If you don't have any sort of commanding presence where you can almost exert your will into
the world.
And that's not saying disregard all social calibration and do things that are stupid.
It's not saying being a brute force of nature, where you don't take into consideration the
other people.
But what I'm saying is that no matter who you're talking to, you want them to see and
feel as if you're a strong willed individual.
And that's just a given.
It's going to be one of the most attractive things in all ways, shapes and forms when
you're around anybody that you're speaking to.
Last but not least number five, nice guys can't protect.
This is on a biological or evolutionary level.
Instead of constantly justify Find Your niceness instead of constantly justifying the weakness.
How about just fix it?
Because the fact is, how the world is and how you'd like it to be as typically two different
things in in life, you're either doing things to get results, or you're not.
These are the five things that I see time and time again, where not only men are failing,
but they don't understand why they're getting ghosted.
They don't understand what's missing in the interaction.
They don't understand who they have to become.
And the truth is men are made, you have to make yourself into a man of value, this takes
work.
And that's why I'm dedicating this entire channel to actually doing that and helping
you in these pivotal moments within your life that I know can truly transform and shape
somebody in the correct ways.
So guys, hit the like button.
If you have supported the channel over the past couple of years, this is the very first
ever merchandise launch, we have already sold out of a couple sizes.
Okay, with that said, there's a limited inventory, I will post all of the links down below so
that way you can get access to this.
This is going to be probably the only day that this last because I only had inventory
of about 150 total pieces.
And for example, these T shirts are extremely soft.
They're extremely silky gay.
It's a cotton blend with a tech fabric.
It feels extremely soft.
It hugs the sleeves, it makes it form fitting, those of you who have some muscle and you're
trying to show those delts right, you're trying to show those biceps, it hugs and it fits
nicely.
You're going to love this.
Okay, hit the like button, comment and subscribe and we'll see you in the next one.