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this is Eyvette from my world of metaphysics and if you've landed on this video you landed
here for a reason today I'm going to give you a secret basically a powerful word one single word
that can actually change your life I get so many people that are writing me wanting their
life to change wanting to know how to start and what to do and today I'm going to give you one
of the most powerful words in the universe that can actually change your life but before we get
started if you're new to this channel this is a metaphysical Law of Attraction channel that gives
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by watching the next video liking subscribing and tapping the Bell so now if you really want to know
what this powerful word is and how it can help you change your life I'm back now what is it that
I have to tell you about this powerful word that can actually change your life now listen this word
is something that I use all the time at first when I first started using it it was kind of difficult
because we are all people Pleasers we want to help every single person but there is a secret to using
this word this word can actually help get you in alignment of where you want to go of who you are
and your destination and the word is no you're probably saying Eyvette no yes no and don't turn
or flip off this video why because if you weren't having this problem you wouldn't have been here
from the beginning I'm going to actually tell you about this word and how to use it
and it's going to make changes now some of you are going to see changes very quickly and then
others are going to see gradual changes but you all will want to write me and say Yvette thank you
the word no is the one word in our vocabulary that can actually change your life
it will get you in alignment with who you are it will get you in alignment for your destination
it would help you stay focused on whatever it is you're trying to do and most of all it will remove
you from negative situations now let's dig into this a little more so that you guys can understand
now the word no for me also equals self-love it equals self-value why because a lot of us
are people Pleasers we want we can't say no to anyone hey look can I borrow a hundred dollars
even though you really don't have it or you have it but you don't have it to spare you say to
yourself well I'll lend it to this person knowing that I'll get it back in time for when I need it
now let's step back on that someone just asked you for money you have it at that time but you don't
have it to spare is your car paid off is your house paid off do your children got to go have
to go to school do you need lunch money if you need these things then you don't have it to give
but you're still going to lend it why are you lending the money because you cannot say no
mastering the word no will get you out of all types of situations now let's go back
and look at that situation again here it is you have someone having a problem
I'm not being funny but that is their problem they're now coming to you asking you to get them
out of this problem you have taken away their problem and placed it on yourself
now you lent this person money or did whatever you needed to do for this person now this problem
is basically on your hands did this person pay you back did they pay you back in time
did they take your money and then take a trip what did they do now that they are out of their
situation and you are stuck with their problem either you help them either you gave them money
you are basically taking over their problem and lowering your emotional vibrational skill now if
you're watching this channel you already know in order to manifest whatever it is you want in your
life you have to keep up your emotional vibration this is the way you're going to attract positive
things into your life so if you are doing things that basically deep down inside you felt like you
should not have done or you really don't want to do it you are taking yourself and lowering
yourself down in the emotional vibrational scale that person that you helped out what's
in a lower State and now they're going up so you just took over these people or this
person's problem let's just say it's something at the job and someone asks you to help them because
they are behind in their work you then go stop what you're doing and go and help that person
now you're feeling bad because now you're falling behind in your job or when you go back to do your
job you are now tired now what did you just do you just took that person's problem and brought
it on to you telling any of you not to help others but I am telling you anything that takes you out
of your alignment with what Destiny you're going towards or who you are you need to step back and
before saying yes think about it and then say no no it's one of the most powerful words that you
can use not only will it save you time not only will it save your money but it will get you out
of situations how many of you found yourself in a negative situation because you could not say no
some of you might be saying Yvette I just can't say no how can I turn my back on people
how can you not love yourself if you can help that person and it does not interfere with
the direction you're going in and who you are you go right ahead and you help those people
but if it comes down to you not being able to take care of what you are here to do if it
comes down to you doing something that's going to make you feel bad later on or put you out
of alignment with your emotional vibration you don't need to do it here's another tip for you
guys that are trying to manifest things in your life the more you do things that you don't want
to do or make that makes you feel bad or lowers your lower your emotional vibration
the more you are going to attract into your life negative things it is just that simple you just
raise someone else up and you brought yourself down know it's going to help you faster than
saying yes someone asks you to borrow money stand back and say to yourself do I have it to lose
if you don't have it to lose or you're not going to get mad if this person don't pay you back
don't lend it so now let me give you some pointers on why no is so important
no it's going to change your life forever everyone it's going to keep you focused on whatever it is
you want in your life if you're saying yes to every single person you are then taking time
away from what it is you need to do okay I'm not saying don't help people or don't do things sit
stand back and ask yourself is this taking me in the direction I want to go in or is this going to
occupy my time and stop me from doing what I need to do if it does it's no the next thing is going
to stop you from getting into negative situations arguments by making promises things that you
should say no to when you say yes you are actually getting more involved with that person you're
taking over something now another way Noah is going to help you it's going to help you organize
your time if you are constantly saying yes I'll pick you up yes I'll drop you off yes I'll run and
do that errand for you you're actually taking time from yourself where you can be relaxing
watching TV doing business work whatever it is you need to do and yes just sitting down relaxing is
saying to yourself I love you this is time for you to relax and that's more important than you
saying yes to every single person listen you guys you have to understand no it's saying I love me
no is saying I value my time now another way as a tip how no can help you and that is with negative
self-talk now as a manifester a deliberate creator negative self-talk keeps us away from whatever
it is we're trying to manifest you want that job but every negative thing comes in your mind about
how many hours you're going to work and how long it's going to take for you to see a a increase in
your salary all of these things starts popping up when you start the negative thinking in your head
when you stand back and you say no to the negative thinking you are actually saying yes to who I am
when you're engaging in conversations and comparing yourself to other people that have
what it is that you want I need you guys to stop comparing yourself to other people and just say
to yourself whatever someone else has I can have too and I'm gonna leave that alone so it's no to
that conversation so listen saying no is one of the most powerful things that you can do and it
will get you out of so many situations on top of that it will elevate your emotional vibration why
because you are not attached to whatever it is you said yes to you're not obligated to follow
through on whatever it is you said yes to it is just that simple and you guys really need
to start to understand the power the Magic in the word no my tip to you right now is just go
into the mirror look in the mirror and say no no no no again just start getting used to saying no
stop making excuses when you say no you don't have to make an excuse when you say no
a couple of times I said no and someone asked me why and I said because I said no
once you start getting used to saying no no I don't have money for you to borrow
no I cannot borrow lend you that money no I cannot lend you my car you will start to see
yourself being less stressed you will start to see yourself getting more done
if something in your gut is telling you that this might not be for you Let It Go if you
miss out on something so funny and this is the secret to this powerful word so if you
want to master manifesting if you want to master attracting things into your life learn the word no
and you will write me and say thank you so now listen I just gave you one single word that
can actually change your life will you take the information I gave you in this video and use it
or will you just forget about it and go right back to being that people pleaser
so again this is Eyvette from my world of metaphysics and if you want more videos like this
don't forget to watch the next video on top of that like subscribe and tap the Bell
again this is Eyvette and namaste
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