Over the past 5 years, over 24 million men have come to my channel to seek advice on
one specific issue…
All of these men, plagued with the same turbulent struggle wreaking havoc on their dating lives…
Texting.
Seriously bro that’s not even an exaggeration. Out of all of my most popular videos, the
most common topic is texting.
And it’s also the most common thing guys message me about when asking for advice.
For you young guys, texting isn’t just a problem, it’s a f*cking epidemic.
To help solve this epidemic, I brought the most seasoned veteran here to help today.
He’s the chairman of the CTC, the center for texting control and he’s going to be
giving you 4 texting rules every man must follow.
Spoiler alert… it’s me. I’m the chairman. Haha c’mon bro, who else is more qualified
than God himself?
#1 Don’t text the girl for a confidence boost.
One of the biggest reasons texting is such an issue for guys is because they feel the
need to be texting the girl 24/7.
Why? Because most men are insecure.
They lack the self-esteem and confidence with the girl they like, so any moment that passes
without talking to the girl could be a sign that she doesn’t like him.
Simpery at it’s finest. But it’s common and I used to do it when I was young - that’s
why I understand it so well.
If you’re an insecure man, every text you get is not only a dopamine boost caused by
her, but also a weak attempt at getting validation from the girl.
This is why guys cling to texting so much. Getting texts from a girl is validation that
she's interested in them and likes them just enough to respond.
And to the insecure young guy, that response is everything. It makes or breaks his whole
day.
Texting becomes his crutch.
You want to have other things in your life that bring you confidence and happiness so
you’re not desperate for it in the women you chase.
#2 Don’t read into her texts too much
For the love of Zeus, please don’t count the minutes between each text, analyze how
many emojis she’s using, or what she REALLY means behind the text.
Bruh just cut that out. 9 times out of 10 it’s all in your head and she didn’t think
twice about what she sent.
Just focus on keeping your momentum in the conversation until you can go for the date,
and make sure you’re using the F.F.P. framework
Which brings me to my next point…
#3 Use the FFP framework - AKA keep the conversation Fun, Flirty, and Playful.
Texting has ONE purpose. To set up dates. That’s it.
You can argue that it has another purpose of keeping your momentum up between dates,
but either way, the point of building momentum is so she doesn’t forget about you and to
get her excited to go on a date with you.
The end goal of momentum is still just to get on a date. Remember this well.
Think about how you text your homies.
You text to set up plans to hangout, and occasionally you’ll send each other something funny and
relevant to what you’ve talked about in the past since it reminded you of it.
Go through your text history now with your friends and see the dynamic and flow.
You don’t do anything just because you feel like you have to, and it’s all motivated
and driven with purpose.
Every interaction provides some value, whether it’s a laugh, setting up plans, or bringing
up a funny memory, then once the moment is done and it reaches its natural end, the convo
is done.
The same should be true of your text conversations with women, except they should probably be
even more focused and dialed in in the beginning.
If i’m on a dating app, my goal is simple: send one killer opening line to get her attention
and stand out from the crowd, usually a comment on something from her profile, then once she
responds, I’m going for the IG within 1-2 messages.
Because I know if i get her off the dating app and following me on IG, the chances of
us meeting up and going on a date in the future just went up exponentially.
As opposed to just chatting on the dating app for days and her eventually ghosting me
and never hearing from her again.
Remember: Fun, flirty, playful first message. Then move her off the dating app ASAP.
Which brings me to my next point...
#4 Texting doesn’t need to take place in the traditional way.
Messaging on IG or snapchat can be more fun, spontaneous, and dynamic.
You just have way more room to interact in organic ways than through normal phone numbers.
But all the same rules apply, it doesn’t matter if it’s on a dating app, Insta DMs,
snapchat, or text. All the concepts are the same.
Now I haven’t done a texting video in like 5 months which is a record for me considering
all you guys ask me about is texting so I wanted to do this refresher video with the
mindsets and frameworks you should keep in mind.
The mindsets and frameworks are more important than specific little tips because they’re
what inform those specific tips and are what’s operating under the hood.
I’d rather teach a man to fish than give him a fish, if you catch my drift. And yes,
that rhymed.
IT’s better to learn the why behind something than to simply learn the tip itself.
Because even if I give you the best hack or tip in the world, if you don’t know why
it works or what’s going on under the hood, you won’t be able to apply it outside of
obscure, specific circumstances.
If you understand the general principles behind how effective dating works, you won’t need
tricks since you’ll be able to work through situations on your own without needing me
there to babysit ya.
Because at the end of the day bro, you’re gonna be on your own on dates with girls,
so you can’t rely on a youtube video for help when she’s 2 ft in front of you.
And if you want to learn more conversational frameworks and techniques for sending text
messages that actually get responses, then you’re going to want to check out my full
in-depth course on texting, The Godly Texting Guide.
Inside I reveal “under the hood” and show you exactly how I structure my romantic conversations
with women, including step-by-step instructions, copy/paste conversational scripts, opening
lines, and my roadmap for getting her attention LOCKED onto you from the first message. Seriously,
once you watch what’s inside, your text-game will go from being your greatest weakness,
to your greatest ASSET.
Just listen to what this guy had to say after taking the course:
“Thanks to Zeus, I got a 9 out of 10 harassing me after only 2 days of texting, I still can’t
believe it!”
Or this guy who said “thanks to the texting course I met my girlfriend and we’ve been
dating for 8 months and are still going strong, thank you!”
Whether you're talking to a girl over text, on a dating app, in the DMs, or on Snapchat,
you're going to learn how to 10x your response rate with over 100 copy/paste opening lines,
word-for-word openers, and attraction-building tactics that are all inside and ready for
you to steal
So get your butt in there and skyrocket your text-game! It comes with a 30 day money-back
guarantee so if you don’t like the course for any reason at all, you can get a full
refund - no questions asked.
I’ll see you guys in there!
Zeus out!