Gentlemen, this is Mantelligence. My name is Kay and this is Beardy. We also
have our pal, Larry here. I recently came across Charisma on Command's
4 Steps to Escape the Friend Zone and I can’t help but agree with everything they’re saying…
There are really a lot of guys who often wonder how they can escape the friend zone.
You know what? A lot of my guy friends also ask me the same question.
They ask whether there's a way to escape the friend zone and if there's any hope for them.
Well, the good news is… there's still a chance for anyone to get the girl they like.
Which is why in this video we'll be giving you 7 tips on how to escape the friend zone,
plus the one thing you can do when there's no getting out of it.
Now, let's get to it. 7. Try the No Go
To start, let me tell you a story about Greg. He always gets friend zoned by the girls he
likes. Do you know why?
It’s because the girls he likes think he's a pushover. Greg is a ‘Yes Man’
He’ll drop EVERYTHING when a girl asks him a favor as if it’ll make her like him more.
And sometimes it will… That's right, Beardy. Unfortunately, there
are far too many girls who tend to abuse such guys.
Which is why Greg needs to learn how to stop being the nice guy so that his genuine intentions
don’t get trampled on by the wrong girls. One good way to learn how to get a girl to
like you without being too nice is to take a step back and give yourself some value.
Do less and you’ll get more. That’s right guys. Even if you're dealing
with your dream girl, you have to learn to be less available.
This is one of Dr. Robert Cialdini's Principles of Persuasion called the Principle of Scarcity,
which states that people value something more when it’s rare or taken away from them.
So to escape the Friend Zone, you’ll have to give it a try. Stop being so available
and stop offering help at the drop of a dime. If she realizes what she’s missing and tries
to get your attention even more, it’s working. However...
Always consider walking away if she doesn’t seem to even notice you’ve stopped. That’s
how you get out of the friendzone. Do you want to learn more tips on how to attract
women without being too nice to them? Check out this video with over one million views!
6. Dare for Self Care Yes, self-care is not just for ladies. Dude,
you gotta focus on self-improvement and self-love too, while you’re at it.
There’s always room for improvement, even if you’re already amazing.
Start going to the gym, if you haven’t been going yet, or just find time to sweat it out.
Eat more veggies. And always dress your best. And of course, don't forget to feed your brain
and fill it with knowledge. This is equally important.
Here’s the thing, fellas: If you’re all about self-care, it’s gonna radiate from
you and you’ll immediately look like someone who has his act together.
And girls want that. They cannot help themselves. They want someone who’s already put together,
because they don't need someone who needs fixing.
And when they see these things in you, they will help you escape the friend zone themselves.
5. Stray from Dead Giveaway If you want to learn how to escape the friend
zone, you've got to stop being so obvious. There are plenty of reasons girls think you
are unattractive. One of those reasons is because you're putting too much effort into
showing her that you like her. If you don't want to be in the friend zone,
you've got to stop dropping everything to come to her rescue whenever she needs help.
This means that you should steer clear from being too predictable. If you’re the type
who always lets her come to your place last minute for Netflix and Chill, for once try
saying “no.” That’s right, guys. It’s mysterious. And
if you make yourself a little mysterious, getting out of the friend zone might just
be a little easier. When you’re not as predictable, she’ll
be smitten because hey, everyone loves a little bit of mystery.
Mystery makes things less boring - and more fun.
Just don’t overdo it. See, if you push yourself too hard to be unpredictable,
you might come off as inconsistent and unreliable. So try not to show all your cards at once
and maybe you’ll save yourself from the friend zone.
Otherwise it’s game over, pal. Check out our video for more reasons girls
find you unattractive. It's got over 8,000 likes already!
4. Competition Inclusion Hey guys, here's a little tip for you.
If you've been trying to escape the friend zone for quite some time now, it may be time
to do something more drastic. Try making her jealous by spending more time
with the other girls you're attracted to. And when you're with the girl you actually
like, you can talk about these new friends and see if she acts jealous.
Yes. I can truly attest that this might just work. It plays into that scarcity thing we
were talking about. As Dr. Cialdini said, "People value more what
they think they might lose." So when you're busy spending time with other
people, the girl you like may just be more eager and motivated to get back your time
and attention. And as they say, you should never put all
your eggs in one basket. So let her know there are other baskets. Cast a wider net. Play
the field. Pick your quip.
That is so true! I did that with Genevieve and look where I am now! I'm out of the friend
zone. Hey! I'm so happy for you both! But not every
one of our viewers will have the same experience as you and the girl they like might not even
care... And if that happens to you... Good! You can
move out of the friend zone and onto brighter futures, my friend.
Hey, do you know that we have a video that can help you figure out if you’ve been friendzoned
or not? Check it out here. (Your negative reminder)
So you guys have heard 4 out of our 7 tips on how to escape the friend zone. Stay put
because we still have 3 more tips to share. And remember, at the end of this list, we'll
be giving the one thing you can do when there's no way to get out of the friend zone.
Now let's get back to it. (Back to your items)
3. Reverse Roles Do you know that one brilliant way to get
out of the friend zone is to get her to invest their time and attention on you?
Time is something we can never get back, which makes it a VERY valuable commodity.
So stop doing all those sweet things to do for your girl before she’s even your girl.
And instead get her to do sweet things for you.
You see, we tend to believe that people like us more when we do favors for them. But this
is not actually the case! The opposite is actually true.
Oh! I've heard of this one. What's it called again? The... umm…. Ben-something-effect.
C’mon Kay, we’ve mentioned this once before. It's called the Ben Franklin Effect.
Oh! There it is! Thanks, Beardy. I thought I had it.
Yup. And according to the Ben Franklin Effect, people tend to like you more when they do
favors for you. So ask her to give you a ride or to help you
fix something. Something simple that isn’t too demanding.
Heck, even asking her to borrow a pencil might just work.
But remember to express gratitude whenever she does you a favor. Even better, try to
return the favor in some other way. Do you want to know more sweet things you
can do for your girlfriend? Our video has over 800,000 views already!
2. Barely Aware One thing that’s important when you wanna
learn how to escape the friend zone is to know how to make her aware of what she’s
missing. In other words, you need to sell yourself
in a subtle manner. Oh, Beardy, that’s not what I meant!
Let her know that you’re a catch. Oh, really, Beardy??
See, by making her know that you’re a great guy and that she’ll be lucky to have you,
she will realize that you don’t belong in the friend zone.
One way to do this is to be awesome to everyone you meet. Be kind to others (not only her)
and she’ll notice that you’re actually a good person and not just trying to get in
her pants. 1. Flirt Your Way
Hey Kay, are you wearing perfume? Why yes, Beardy. I'm glad you noticed it.
It's actually a new bottle of Chanel No. 5. I like it. It suits you!
Thanks, Beardy! By the way, I know what you're doing and it's working.
Gentlemen, this is tip #1: Dude, you've got to do some flirting!
When you're seriously crushing on someone, you have to remember that sexual attraction
plays a huge role. Remember to give her a few compliments and
tease her too. Like what I did with Kay, you can compliment her on her choice of perfume.
You have to be careful about teasing her though. Otherwise, you’ll just come off as mean.
For instance, never ever ever tease a woman about her age or weight. You'll get in big
trouble when you do. Another trick on how to attract 99.9% of girls
is to be appropriately touchy from time to time.
The operational word here is appropriate, so watch where those hands are going guys.
The best and probably the safest move here is to playfully and lightly push her when
she teases you. If you're not used to doing this to other
people, it can be quite a challenge. But if you play it cool,it could just work in your
favor. But watch out! If she doesn’t seem comfortable
with your flirting, she might just not be into you.
Check out our video that teaches you how to attract 99.9% of girls. It's gotten over 4,000
likes already! (Negative item= What to do when there’s
no getting out of the friendzone) Oh boy, now we're at the point where we're
gonna discuss what you should do when there's no point in getting out of the friend zone.
Sadly, there is no such thing as a second impression. And when a woman categorizes you
as a friend, it can be almost impossible to convince her otherwise.
It's not really because of what you did or that she hates you. Maybe you're just both
not on the same page on what you want out of the relationship. Maybe the timing’s
off. So when she rejects you and keeps you in the
friend zone, DON’T BURN BRIDGES. Because as time goes on, a LOT of things can happen.
And who knows? Maybe she’ll give you another chance down the road… If not?
There’s nothing wrong with moving on and finding someone who WON’T put you in the
friend zone. Like we said earlier. Don’t put all your
eggs in one basket. Question Callout
Have you ever been in the friend zone? If so, do you know of any more steps or tips
to get out of the friend zone? Let us know in the comments below.
Your Conclusion Wanna know for sure that you’re in the friend
zone? We have an entire video which gives you 10 obvious signs that you’ve been friendzoned.
Check it out so you’ll be able to watch out for those signs and act accordingly before
it gets too late. This video’s so lit that it has over 650K
views already!