Why are you public enemy number one?
I'm gonna explain it all in this video.
Hey there, I'm Rebecca Zung
and I am an attorney.
I'm a narcissist negotiation expert.
I've written two bestselling books.
Negotiate like you matter
and breaking free a step by step divorce guide.
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So I wanna explain to you why
you become the narcissist’s enemy
and you wanna make sure that you watch all the way
till the end because I'm gonna
be giving you all kinds of reasons
and I'm gonna be saving the best for last.
So you wanna make sure that you watch
all the way to the end of this video.
Okay.
So there are a number of reasons for one thing.
Narcissist is definitely see things in black and white.
So you're either for them or you are against them.
Now you are dealing with a person who you know,
they're very very easily slighted.
I mean, even when you're in a relationship with them,
they're constantly looking to see you know,
if you're sliding them.
Are you for them?
Are you against them?
Anybody that they hate or anybody that's against them.
You better be against them too.
You better hate them too.
You better be on their side.
You know, you have to hate everything
that they hate and you have to be
you know, completely aligned with them at all times
and you know that there is the different
phases of a narcissistic relationship.
There's love bombing.
There's the devaluing phase.
There's the discard phase
and they do go back and forth between the phases
and I do have videos on all of the different
narcissistic relationship phases.
All three phases.
So you definitely wanna check out my videos on the
the different phases of a narcissistic relationship
but when you go into that discard phase
that's when you start to see
the birth of the smear campaign
and whether it's you discarding
them or them discarding you,
that's when you start to see the
birth of the smear campaign
and by the way, they can start smearing you to their third
parties that try the y search triangulating
and having these third parties,
which are sometimes called flying monkeys.
Long before you even realize that discard
phase has even started happening.
They start planting these little seeds to try to get
people lined up on their side and against you.
Sometimes long before.
So what happens is when that discard
phase is full on and they realize,
you know, they've tried to get you back or you know,
whatever's happened and they
they realized it's definitely full on.
You're not coming back.
Okay.
Now you've become public enemy number one.
Now it's on.
Now it's game on.
Now that the smear campaign is full on.
And by the way, do have a full video on
how to shut down the narcissists sear campaign
and you definitely can check that out.
I recommend you check that out
So they know that you're
taking away this source of supply.
They're really upset about that you know,
you're taking away maybe it's even
one of the best forms of supply
which I refer to as like diamond levels supplier
grade a level source of supply.
You know, you were adulating them,
you were giving them service,
you were making them feel good about themselves.
Right?
And so if you're taking away that source of supply,
they're not happy about that.
So that's one reason.
You know, you may you probably
know stuff about them.
So they wanna make sure that you don't expose them.
They wanna create the narrative.
So they wanna make sure that they
can smear you to everybody first.
I mean, yeah, it's it's definitely about winning,
but it's also about making sure that they get
to everybody before you can get to everybody.
You know, they wanna make sure
that they they create that narrative.
So that's another reason.
And so I want to have you put in the
comments right now that you can do this.
Say
“I CAN DO THIS.”
Because one of the things I want
you to know is not the narcissist’s is
definitely way more afraid of you than you are of them.
They're afraid that you're gonna fight back.
That that's their biggest fear you know,
they don't want you to fight back and if you fight back,
they're gonna be like,
“'oh my gosh’'
because they're they're thinking that you won't.
They're thinking that you won't and
they they really hope that you won't,
but you can.
You can do this.
Alright?
So put that in the comments right now.
“I CAN DO THIS.”
It basically make you pay for taking away
that source of supply that you were for them.
So that's another reason that
they become your enemy.
Right?
You know, they they wanna punish you
for taking away that source of supply.
You know, they're basically big
huge toddlers in adult bodies.
Well, you know whether they're male or female or
they're toddlers and adult bodies
they have this narcissistic injury
that's inside of them.
That you know, once it gets triggered that
narcissistic rage can come flying out and
you know, that's what you're seeing happening
when they become your enemy like that.
They are desperately afraid.
They're very, very, very fearful.
So they're they're overcompensating to try
to prove and and show the world that they're
not afraid even though their desk afraid,
very very fearful and so the more
you keep walking forward,
the more you keep marching forward.
The more afraid they're actually going to be.
When you create enough strategy, the stronger strategy,
the stronger leverage
using my SLAY methodology.
Strategy, Leverage, Anticipate and focus on you,
which always works then they become fearful
and that's how you actually get them to resolve your issues in a
way that gets them to do it without backlash
and I've had many, many,
many stories where the narcissist
actually begs them to resolve their case
and they just end up slithering down the road
and finding their supply in it from a different resource
that's what ends up happening.
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and they only win if you give in.
Okay?
So I will see all of you guys in the next video.