- (Dr. Phil) That's why you need an education.
- Oh. - (Dr. Phil) So you don't
have to work for minimum wage. - Oh!
You just got Phil-ed.
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- (FBE) So today, we are gonna show you clips from Dr. Phil.
- Ooh, Dr. Phil. I've seen clips of the show,
mostly Dr. Phil fails when people are really crazy
and then Dr. Phil roasts them.
- (FBE) Have you ever watched it? - No.
No, I have not.
- My mom watches that a lot. I thought it was creepy.
- I also watch PewDiePie's videos on the crazy people
that go on there. The people that come on there
are just the biggest memes of the world.
- (FBE) So, we're gonna have you watch some clips
and after you watch these clips, you're actually gonna
give your advice as a kid to help them out
and then afterwards, we'll show you Dr. Phil's advice
and see what you think. - Oh, okay.
- (woman) My sixteen year old daughter, Nicolette.
- Oh, I've seen this one.
- (woman) Is extravagant, spoiled, and bratty.
Nicolette is beyond entitled. - (Nicolette) I have these two
Chanel wallets.
- (woman) At a very young age, Nicolette had her own
credit card but absolutely no credit limit.
Some months, the credit card bills would be...
- Then why did the mom give her the credit card?
- (woman) I just paid the bill. - What, no.
Don't pay the bill.
- (woman) Nicolette had an allowance of $5000 a month
to cover her expenses.
- I mean, I like it. Mom and dad, I'd like it.
- (woman) In the past year, I probably have given her
about $100,000. I don't even keep track anymore.
- What?
- No.
- (Nicolette) Now my spending allowance per month
is $1,000. - Oh my.
- (Nicolette) I feel like a peasant. - Wow, she is spoiled.
The mom is correct.
- (Nicolette) If you ask me, I think my mom should be
giving me at least 2500 a month just to cover
my basic expenses. - Wow, she's really a brat.
- (Nicolette) I need money to buy clothes.
I need money to buy shoes. - No, no.
- What is wrong with this kid?
- Maybe the mom just doesn't pay attention to her
and the girl just wants more attention.
- (Nicolette) When my mom refuses to give me money,
I make her life a living hell. I have my ways.
- That's evil.
- She's a miss sassy pants. Why don't she just ground her?
- The girl's insane. "Oh, I can not live off of $1000."
That should be enough.
- (FBE) So, what would be your advice for this girl
and for her mom? - Just say no.
Either give her less money for her allowance
or don't give her money at all.
- You're a spoiled brat and you should get a job.
- Stop giving her money and she should get
her own money from her own jobs.
- Once you start that program, it's hard to end it
because then they just get obsessed with that much money.
- (FBE) We're gonna show you Dr. Phil's advice
for these people, okay? - Dr. Phil.
- (Dr. Phil) When someone feels like they have to have
all of these things, then they don't have
much self worth. - (Nicolette) Well, my mom
made me feel that way. - I mean, he's speaking the truth.
- (Dr. Phil) So many parents have the opportunity
to reparent their child. - How do you reparent?
Do you just time travel?
- (Dr. Phil) So you guys need to redefine your relationship.
- (woman) How do we do that? - (Dr. Phil) You give her
more love and less money. - That is a good idea.
- (Dr. Phil) I think she needs to get a job where she works
and observes herself doing the things that she's
capable of doing. - Get your own job.
Earn your own money!
- (Nicolette) Minimum wage isn't gonna get me my car.
- Yes, it will get you a car if you work hard.
- (Dr. Phil) Not in a hurry. That's why you need
an education. - Oh.
- (Dr. Phil) So you don't have to work for minimum wage.
- Oh, you just got Phil-ed.
- Dr. Phil truly spitting out facts.
- I mean, it's good advice, but I feel like the daughter's
somehow gonna drag her mom out of that and then
just keep having her give her money.
- (girl) When I get mad, I don't know anything
that's happening. At three or four,
that's when I started becoming angry.
- Hm?
- (girl) My mom and take it from me,
we don't agree on anything. She blames everything on me.
She says it's my fault, that I didn't do this,
that I didn't do that. - It probably is your fault.
- (girl) You already know this. - I think she's kinda getting
rude to her mom.
- "Destoni became irritated answering questions from
the producer after a few minutes."
- (Destoni) All right, then. I don't like being asked
multiple questions, 'cause then you [bleep] me off.
- Whoa.
- I think she gets a little too angry.
- (Destoni) And then I get mad. - Oh my.
- (Destoni) And then there's a big situation.
- "And then there's a big situation."
Jesus Christ, you're so annoying.
- My mom would be like, "Hey, why are you cussing, Jules?
You are at a very young age. You should not be cussing
at this exact age."
- (FBE) All right, so what would be your advice for this girl?
How should she deal with her anger?
- Take an anger management class. Take a few anger
management classes.
- She needs to just meditate like hmmm.
- She should find something that relieves her stress
because when I'm upset, sometimes I just think
of Hamilton songs.
- (Dr. Phil) Do you acknowledge that your mother
is the head of this family? - (Destoni) No.
- She doesn't have any respect for other people,
so other people don't have respect for her.
- (Dr. Phil) If she's not the head of the family,
are you the head of the family? - Oh.
- (Destoni) No. - (Dr. Phil) So you don't
recognize her authority as a parent?
- Without her mom, she wouldn't even exist.
- (Destoni) Nobody's head of what you just said.
- "Head of what you--" Does she not know
what a family is?
- (Dr. Phil) You recognize that when you choose
the behavior, you choose the consequences.
- Yes.
- (Destoni) Yeah. - (Dr. Phil) Like you choose
to steal something, you get caught,
you choose to go to jail. - That advice is really,
really good.
- (Dr. Phil) You choose to speed then you get a ticket,
you choose to pay the fine. You choose the behavior,
you choose the consequences. And you're choosing
behaviors that put you in conflict with authority
on a regular basis. - Yeah, Dr. Phil really
spitting more facts than any rapper today.
- He's right. Your actions won't get
you in trouble if you be good.
- Good advice, but then I feel like the mom
needs to do more.
- (girl) I am obsessed with my appearance
and I'm addicted to looking perfect.
- Oh my gosh, she should be friends with the first girl.
- (girl) My idea of looking perfect is...
- No one's perfect, lady.
- (girl) Having my hair fully done, my nails
look complete, my eyelashes done.
- She probably thinks she's not pretty enough.
- (girl) It takes a lot of time and effort to get ready
every morning. - Why do you need
to look perfect? What does she wanna do
with her life?
- (girl) An hour and a half to three hours
every single day. - An hour and a half
to three hours?
- We should always be caring about how
you look like on the inside, not how you look like
on the outside.
- (girl) On average, it costs a minimum
of $7,000 a month to maintain...
- Wow.
- (girl) On average, it costs a minimum of $7,000 a month.
- Whoa. $7,000?
- (girl) Overall, my looks determine how the public
perceives me. Even though it's not
how it's supposed to be, that's just the way it is.
- Gosh, she's really annoying. No offense.
- I don't really think that's bad, honestly.
I kinda just think that's how she wants to look.
She wants to look pretty, go ahead and look pretty.
- Whatever you look like, like her tans,
it doesn't matter. Everybody is special
in their own way.
- (crowd) Aw. - (kid) Cute.
- She's a diva. She's probably trying
to get a boy or something but she's never gonna get
a boy with that attitude.
- (announcer) Burn!
- (FBE) Okay, so what would your advice be
for this girl? - Try a few days without makeup.
- Focus on herself, but not in a bratty way.
- How about you give stuff to people
instead of just, "I want, want, want, want."
- You look fine the way you are. I mean, if you're trying
to get famous, then be famous for your personality
and not the way you look.
- (Dr. Phil) If you're never satisfied with yourself,
that's a terrible way to feel. - Yes, Dr. Phil.
You spill the tea.
- (girl) The way that I feel isn't that I'm not enough
or I'm not satisfied with my look.
- Okay.
- She's like that diamond ore in Minecraft that all
the guys want, but when the player mines the diamond,
they fall into lava.
- (girl) What could I do to feel even better,
to look even better. That's the way I feel.
- (Dr. Phil) I have some suggestions about that.
- (girl) Yes. - (Dr. Phil) I found that
the way to fill yourself up is to give away
what you want the most. - Yeah, that's true.
Give away what you want the most and people
give back to you.
- (Dr. Phil) You might try filling yourself up
by giving up your heart and your spirit
and your soul, where you actually
did something where you weren't totally focused
on yourself but you focused on somebody else.
- I mean, I feel like my opinion's the opposite of his.
Just think about yourself and how you feel
about yourself.
- Did you see she started smiling?
Everybody has that good side. She could change.
- (FBE) So, Dr. Phil explains in this clip
that the way you can feel better about yourself
is by giving and helping others more.
Do you agree with this? - It was better advice,
but I can say mine was close enough.
- Now that I think about it, love is key to happiness.
You don't have to be like, "Look at my big, fat butt."
- (FBE) So, Dr. Phil has been on TV for over 17 years.
- He's older than 17?
- (FBE) And it has over 2,000 episodes.
- 2,000 episodes? That's a lot of good advice.
- What it really means is he's old.
- (FBE) After watching some of these clips today,
why do you think that Dr. Phil has been so popular
on TV for so long? - I'm not really sure
how he's popular. Some people are into that stuff.
Adults are usually into serious stuff
and stuff like that.
- He stops people from being mad at their parents.
- Because he has been helping people a lot.
He knows exactly what to say, exactly what to think,
and exactly what to tell people.
- As time goes on, there's gonna be more and more
crazy people being out in the world,
being them-weird-selves, so just Dr. Phil's there
to talk to them and just show people you're a great
human being compared to these people.
- (FBE) So as you saw, Dr. Phil usually will bring out
kids and their parents to talk to both of them
about their problems and how their actions
can be affecting each other, but do you think
that it's good for families to do this and put
their kids on TV with Dr. Phil with everyone knowing
their personal problems? - If you're comfortable with it,
but if you really need someone to help you,
go to a-- I don't know what
the place-- I don't know what it's called.
A therapist. He or she's not gonna
tell everybody in whole entire world like this show is.
- They should probably not put it on TV
because then everybody knows about you
and then there's gonna be some-- there's always some weirdo
that's always out to stalk for you.
- It might be embarrassing, but if people have realized
after the show that the individual or individuals
have changed, then they wouldn't really be embarrassed
because everybody would treat them like regular human beings
instead of treating them like big [bleep] bags.
- I think that for one time, it's fine and then after this,
if you still have conflict, you should go see
a family therapist.
- Some parents are like, "I want to become famous.
I want everybody to recognize me."
If you wanna be famous, do it by yourself.
Don't involve your kid, but if you wanna become famous,
go on Adults React, go on Dr. Phil,
Steve Wilkos.
- (FBE) So finally, as a kid, when you see kids
acting out in this way, do think Dr. Phil
should focus more on the kid or do you think it has
more to do with the parent? - I feel like it's more to do
with the parent most of the time. The kid that wants all the money,
I feel like the parent was supplying her with the money.
- It's because the parent. The parent isn't doing right
and is not acting well.
- Sometimes it is the kid, but it's mostly the parent
for really spoiling the kid or letting everything,
all of that happen.
- Well sometimes, the parent's actions and non responsibility
kinda rubs off on the kids, but also the kids.
It's like they don't think about anything they're doing.
We all need to think about what we're doing
and how it'll affect others.
- It kinda goes both ways, 'cause it's good
they're talking about it and it's good to let it out
and understand the situation more, but in the way
of national television might not be the best one.
- Thanks for watching this episode of Kids React.
Shoutout to Emma TheAwesome.
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- Hi, I'm JC, producer here at FBE.
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