how to believe your worth as a woman business owner this is huge we didn't leave our corporate
jobs to work from home to work all day every day hi i am martha craicci and here's my dog herman
i am a business strategist that's teaching families how to build ten thousand dollar a month
plus income streams and five hours a week if you are loving this video be sure to go ahead and give
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whenever i started my business um as a digital marketing agency right whenever i started that
business i it was a boys club and being a woman business owner still now still now even with
everything that that i've done still now there's there's the feeling where the boys club is like
well you're that's cute that's cute and i'm like i don't know i'm squashing everything so it is cute
and it's also it's also the future it's also let me show all these women how to do it too
right because uh while you can sit around and say it's cute and adorable as the boys club right it's
cute and adorable we're gonna squash everything around us and it's and we're going to own this and
it's all going to be from a women's perspective which is community building and nurturing
watch the world change so again how to believe your worth as a woman business owner let's get
into it number one know who you're serving and take care of them so this is something that i
always you'll you if you've followed me longer than five days you've heard me say who are you
talking to right who are you talking to that's it's the biggest thing it's the biggest it if you
don't know who you're talking to you're literally talking to nobody yeah so what we need to know is
who we're serving and who we're talking to and it's very clearly in the way that i teach it
and the way that i believe it and what is what is duplicating and working for my people over
and over and over again is that we're talking to ourselves but we're not talking to ourselves today
we're talking to ourselves three years ago typically three years ish ago okay
sometimes like what has happened in the last three years if you look back on your
life three years ago where were you what were your dreams what were you afraid of what were
the the things that you wanted to do what was the thing and you were sitting on the couch
staring at the wall in your own downtime right what was the one thing that you were like man
if somebody could just show me how to do x y and z for me whenever i was in corporate
america i was like man when i got the video of my daughter taking her first steps that was just like
just my whole my whole everything just went it was almost like the it's a big hero 6 the movie
where he's like a big big poofy white guy and then like he and then as he's like down as he's like
losing energy he's sort of like deflating and then he's like you know um that's what i felt like i
just felt like i was here and then when i saw the video of her taking her steps you guys i was like
and it's not bad to have those feelings those feelings are markers those feelings are benchmarks
those feelings are dare i say nudges and divine interventions of do you want this this is what
life can be like do you want this do you want this to be a microcosm of missing everything of hers
growing up right and for me no i wasn't okay with that and so whenever that happened i was like okay
i need to figure out a way to be able to make income from home but all that i had ever heard
of before making income from home is like doing weird you know stuff in envelopes and
i don't know just weird home-based stuff that didn't seem very lucrative
and i'm not like a not lucrative person i'm not gonna go do something that isn't lucrative
i'm gonna do something that's going to rock and roll i'm going to do something where i can
expand beyond borders right and i didn't see that with stuffing envelopes you know
what i'm saying like i just i as as i looked through home business opportunities i was like
none of this is super sexy right
right and and so i didn't want to do that and so that's the person that i talk to
because now that's what i've done so who are you talking to and how are you going to take care of
them that's the very first thing that that we need to know on how to believe our worth as a woman
business owner now how does that correlate to our worth that correlates by in the fact that we're
serving people our worth is directly associated with that our worth lights up gets bigger gets
seen by us which it's usually the hardest it's usually hardest for us to see our own worth yeah
tell me in the comments if it's hard for you to see your own worth tell me in the comments if
it's easier for somebody else to see your worth or if it's easier for you to see somebody else's
worth than them to see their own it's true so it's directly correlating when we know who we're
serving and we know how we're going to serve them and it lights us up to be able to serve
this person our worth gets bigger whenever our worth gets bigger you guys nothing can stop us
when our mission is very clear our person we're serving is very clear nothing can stop us
all right number two allow feedback and use for growth okay now how does this affect my worth you
might be saying like because feedback sometimes your feedback is i don't like that right sometimes
that's people's feedback sometimes people aren't great with feedback they're not great
at giving feedback a lot of people aren't great at receiving feedback there's a whole thing right
let's talk about it if we cannot use feedback for good then what we're doing is we're representing
a blind spot we're representing a blind spot in our own lives in our own business when we have
blind spots we are we are now um we're now hitting a place where we can't grow anymore
okay whenever we cannot accept or listen to feedback and grow with that feedback you're done
so you have to make sure you're okay with feedback now like i said before some people are terrible
with the way they deliver feedback okay sometimes it looks a lot like complaining sometimes it looks
a lot like you didn't do this you know sometimes it looks a lot like that sometimes it's downright
accusatory right but what you have to do you guys is you need to be wise you need to be able
to have enough emotional intelligence to look at feedback and say what are they really saying here
what are they really saying what what is something that i can do with this feedback what is how is a
way that i can make what i offer better how is a way that i can what is a way that i'm able to
make this easier so this feedback basically is representing that they're frustrated okay let me
see what they're frustrated about okay cool that's what they're frustrated about how can i make that
easier and that's how feedback needs to be taken now how does that directly affect your worth that
directly affects your worth because you instead of taking uh what could look to be negative feedback
in internalizing it as negative feedback and letting it chip away at your worth what you do
instead is you say okay i honor you as a person thank you for for that feedback here's what i'm
going to do with it and then you're going to grow and you're going to show them what
you're going to do with that what that does to that person is that makes that person feel seen
and heard that's something a lot of people don't feel these days in the comments let
me know what kind of negative feedback that you've gotten before and then bonus let me know
what you've done with that feedback or maybe even put in negative feedback that you got before
that you hadn't done anything with before but because of what you just heard here right now
you're going to turn it around and you're gonna do something with that tell me in the comments
if that's the kind of growth that's going on within you right now because i love to see that
love it number three how to believe you're worth as a woman business owner give give
give give give give give okay that's what we do is we give you develop your worth by giving
the way that you're going to depreciate your worth is by withholding it's an interesting
thing isn't it when you give more your worth is more when you withhold your worth goes down
there's is no lie try it try it i give give give i give like crazy because i know a lot and i want
everybody to know this stuff and i want everybody to understand it because i want everybody to have
this life because i know it's possible right i'm not here just wasting my time talking to a camera
right i'm here talking to you because this is accessible for you and i want this for you
what i could do is i could just hang out at my house all day i don't really need to do anything
but that's not what i do i show up and i give and that increases my own worth if i were to just
not give any more and and have people have my audience just be like well what now
my worth would go down i would feel terrible because we we're given the things that we know
we're giving we're given these things so that we can push it out so that we
can show people right so that we can make it accessible for other people that's the truth
give me tell me in the comments three ways not three ways one way that you give to your
community how do you show up for your community what do you give to your community okay you guys
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