Hello and welcome….
I’m Brad Browning, YouTube’s #1 breakup expert, and in this video you’re going to
learn...
GET YOUR
EX BACK
FAST.
Now, I know what you’re thinking…
you’re expecting me to give you the secret ingredient that’s going to make your ex
take you back TODAY.
You want a quick fix, a shortcut…
...well, I’ve got good news and bad news for you… the bad news is that there is no
shortcut!
There’s nothing you can do to speed up the process of getting your ex back… and if
someone tells you there is, then they’re full of S….
BUT, there is good news: I am going to tell you how to win back your ex in this video.
And I’m going to do it FAST…
there’s not going to be any fluff or filler in this video, folks, I’m just going to
give you the 2-minute tutorial on exactly what you need to do to get your ex to come
crawling back to you.
Let’s get started.
STEP 1 -- Find out where you stand.
Alright, the first thing you’re going to want to do is take my free quiz to figure
out what your chances of success are…
I’ve spent a looong time developing this quiz tool, which takes about 5 minutes to
complete, and it’s designed to tell you where you stand with your ex and what your
odds are of successfully winning him or her back.
So as soon you’re done watching this video, visit BreakupBrad.com/Quiz and take that free
quiz for yourself…
BreakupBrad.com/Quiz.
I’ll put that URL right at the top of the description below this video so you can click
on the link as soon as you finish watching this video.
STEP 2 -- Give your ex some time and space.
Look, in almost every single scenario, you’re going to need to cut off the lines of communication
with your ex for a little while.
I typically recommend 30 days, and there’s some research that supports that number….
but you may need to stop interacting with your ex for even longer than that, depending
on your situation…
take that quiz I just mentioned to find out how long you should ignore your ex for.
Either way, now is the time to go ‘cold turkey’ on your ex and employ my No Contact
strategy….
Trust me, it works, and it’s an important first step because it will help your ex reach
what I call “Emotional Neutral”... it’s designed to set the stage and make sure your
ex is receptive to what comes next.
STEP 3 -- Use those 30 days productively.
Alright, you’ve got some time on your hands, because you’re not contacting your ex for
30 days or so….
But it’s not time to sit around the house crying and feeling sorry for yourself, folks.
That’s what your ex expects of you, and it’s only going to hurt your chances.
*insert stock clips or pics of ppl crying, being losers at home, etc…
flash each very quickly on screen then cross them out with an X or something like that*
Instead, you need to do something contrary to what your ex is expecting.
Nobody wants to get back together with a loser who spends their Saturday nights watching
Family Guy re-runs….
Which is exactly why you need to do the opposite.
Now is the time to be as social as you possibly can… get out of the house as often as possible,
hang out with friends and family, keep busy, take up a hobby, join a club, go on dates
even if you don’t feel like it….
Be productive and social.
Trust me, this part is crucial, even if it sounds dumb right now.
STEP 4 -- Stop yourself from doing anything dumb.
Let’s quickly cover some things you need to prevent yourself from doing…
No begging, pleading, or apologizing over and over.
No angry messages out outbursts, and no trying to get ‘revenge’ on your ex.
No drama or initiating long, drawn-out “serious talks” with your ex….
In fact, don’t talk to your ex about your relationship or your breakup at all.
No agreeing to be “friends” with your ex…
And like we already talked about, no sitting around at home crying about the breakup.
STEP 5 -- Re-spark a connection with your ex through fun, upbeat messages.
Once the No Contact phase is over, and you’ve given your ex plenty of time and space for
30 days or so, it’s time to slowly start to re-initiate contact with him or her.
I recommend you do this via text message or Facebook message or WhatsApp… something
like that, where you can send your ex a 2-line message that’s funny, interesting, or brings
up some nostalgic happy memories.
Don’t get carried away here, this is just about sending your ex a message or two to
get them thinking about you again and build some intrigue.
Try to make your ex laugh or smile at your message, nothing more.
Don’t know what to say in your messages to your ex?
Don’t get this part wrong, because it’s really important you re-establish positive
contact at this phase….
If you need more help on what to say to your ex, I’ve got a number of specific examples
in my best-selling program, The Ex Factor… to learn more about the program and get full
access to all of my attraction-building text messages, just head to BreakupBrad.com.
STEP 5 -- Re-spark a connection with your ex through fun, upbeat messages.
Alright, step 5… nice job, you’ve made it this far, and if you’ve played your cards
correctly in the previous phases, your ex is already going to be showing a lot more
interest and will have let go of many of the negative thoughts and memories that led to
their decision to break up… so now it’s time to meet in person and seal the deal.
How?
Make an excuse and arrange a casual in-person meet up with your ex.
For example, tell your ex you want to catch up over coffee and get some suggestions on
where to go during your upcoming vacation to Italy….
Whatever, you can think up any believable excuse, the goal is just to give your ex a
reason to grab a drink with you.
Keep it casual and don’t call it a date.
In person, when you’re with your ex, it’s time to get your flirt on….
Don’t go overboard, it can sometimes take a few ‘dates’ before your ex really becomes
fully receptive to your flirting and your advances, but make sure you’re building
sexual tension and showing your ex a good time.
Always keep the mood light and fun, make your ex laugh, and don’t forget to share some
stories and some updates about the fun, exciting, and busy life you’ve been leading since
the breakup.
By the way, jealousy can be a very useful tool at this point in the process, and it’s
something I talk about in some of my other videos here on YouTube… but if you do decide
to try and incite a bit of jealousy to help your cause, please just be careful not to
let things backfire on you.
STEP 6 -- Spend more time in person, and turn flirting into physical intimacy.
Crank up the attraction, ramp up the flirting, and continue having fun with your ex… sooner
or later, your ex is going to change his or her mind about the breakup and ask you to
give them another chance.
I know that sounds far-fetched from where you’re sitting right now, but after a few
‘dates’ in person and enough flirting and sexual tension, that’s typically what
happens.
Obviously you need to be on your game up to this point for things to come together, but
it’s definitely not impossible, and most of you watching this video will have a good
chance of getting to this point and getting a chance to start over with your ex… and
like I mentioned at the beginning of the video, to find out your chances and see if there’s
still hope, take my free quiz at BreakupBrad.com/Quiz right now… once you finish the quiz, you’ll
also get some personalized recommendations on how to get started and what to do first.
STEP 7 -- Get going!
I told you this was going to be a FAST one, and I wasn’t kidding…
…if you’ve got questions, suggestions, or if you just want to tell me how handsome
I am... please use the comments section below and I will personally get back to you.
And of course for more guidance and more sneaky psychological tactics you can use to reverse
your breakup and win back your ex, you know where to go…
BreakupBrad.com.