i've been through enough
tragedy or pain in my life that i've learned how to first survive it and then thrive in it and
i see myself as being intelligent and spiritually strong and aware and yet this thing has leveled me
and well it's understandable that when there's something that you want very much any time
that your life experience gives birth to a desire that you are not living it is normal that that if
there would be a tremendous disruption remember when you feel strong passion it means strong
desire and no resistance when you feel strong pain as in this leveling that you're talking about it
means you have a powerful desire but you are not a vibrational match to it and the thing that
is tricky about this is that it's hard to find yourself make yourself be a vibrational match when
you are observing what is and so the reason that we were wanting you when you were talking about
wanting to know the truth of it the reason that we want you to step back and take a broader view
of it is because once you show yourself that you can reconnect in a very consistent way with your
source energy even amidst all this tragedy that is happening around you you will show yourself
once and for all your ability to be connected under any and all conditions and once you are
connected under these conditions then well-being has to be your experience the question that we
would like to put to you and you can answer it or not but it's a question worth pondering
is when you understand that law of attraction is always matching vibration
and then you accept that there must have been a mismatch in our vibrations or we
would still be together the question that we are wanting to ask you is would you want
something that was a mismatch to your vibration to remain within your experience and the first
answer that usually comes forth is yes i i would have liked to it to have stayed the way it was
and we say well first of all it cannot in other words law of attraction never makes exceptions
but then the next question we want to ask you is would you really want someone to stay with you
out of a sense of commitment or obligation no but i i don't see it as being something static
i've always viewed our relationship as being something dynamic and we've gone through
hard times in the past and we sought help and it blossomed out of that
and i became aware through this that i could forgive him i didn't know that before this all
happened but i became aware of that and i thought there are things that are greater than an affair
or falling in love with another woman there's family and marriage and i see but you see what
what what you're amplifying is sort of the the world view it is the human physical view and it
is not a very good vibrational match to what we're talking to in terms of the laws of the universe
in other words very often we we talk to our physical friends and we say to them now society
would tell you one thing and law of attraction is really responding in a different way and so
we are really not encouragers of anyone keeping commitments we are more encouragers of
people being true to the vibration of their now and letting law of attraction bring to
them that which is a match to their now so it could come down like this
let's say that as you've described to us that your mate is looking for something he obviously
was as he went off and as he believes that he has found something that he's looking for it's natural
that you would be feeling left behind now as you stand here in your pain and you continue to feel
the absence of what you want and the resentment of what has happened or even the justified blame
that you are feeling what happens is you keep holding yourself in a vibration that will not
allow the things that you want it doesn't allow him back it doesn't allow something else back
in other words it you can't get to where you want to be while you're feeling the way you're feeling
and even though your world laws would say you are right and and even though most of the world
councils would say you are right still law of attraction says as long as you feel like this
you cannot get what you want i don't want to be right i want to be happy so
that's very good news because in wanting to be happy what that so as you as you stand in the
face of this very intense situation and you reach for the thought that feels best what might it be
in other words offer ramble a little bit sometimes it takes a while to get to it but just keep trying
to reach for the thought that feels best in the context of this unpleasant subject
freedom and enrichment in in being a single mom being single
right now those are words and we think that from time to time you have found that
but in light of the vibration that you are feeling now that was too far of a stretch for you so
just reach from where you where you currently are amidst all of this just reach for the thought that
feels best from where you are in other words reach for a genuine thought that is that is amplifying a
true feeling within you reach for the best feeling when you can from where you are standing right now
none of them feel all that good do they but but but just reach
in other words just reach reach for the best feeling thought from where you are
and you see what we're what we are getting at here it's easy to offer all kinds of words but we
want you to offer some words that are true to the feeling that is within you so just do your best to
in the vibrational range that you have just reach for the best feeling thought that you
can verbalize here okay uh stop blaming myself for the failure of the marriage
good now that was good now that was actually very good because so as you stand here there's
all kinds of blame and all kinds of discomfort and and it can be very far-reaching and as you
you did the best you could from where you that that was very good i'm wanting to stop
blaming myself for the failure of this now that in the scope of all possible thoughts
is not really a very good feeling thought but in the scope of the thoughts that have
been surrounding you it was a strong effort and it was a very good choice of a thought so
now stay there for a moment and amplify that just a little more in other words stay there let's
let's get 17 seconds out of that better feeling thought just by rambling around that thought just
keep sort of feeling and talking around that thought law of attraction is a big player in
all things and while there might have been warning signs that i that i may have seen most anybody in
my position would not have seen them and we're all doing pretty much the best that we know how to do
and and i wouldn't actively ask anybody to be in a place that they don't want to be
and now we're not getting into the range of making you feel great and we're not
getting into the range of you looking for a new relationship and we're not even getting in the
range of you getting him to come back if he could change it in other words all you're doing is is
soothing yourself a little better and leaving yourself in a little bit better feeling place
that felt better now now reach reach for another thought a thought that the best thought that
you can find from where you stand uh look at how far you've come since the divorce you're
you're eating again you're sleeping again you're good you you experience some joy every day good
very good um all right now now now of those thoughts of those thoughts that you just offered
you came to a pretty good feeling thought you're experiencing some joy in every day now now let's
milk that a little bit ramble there just for just for the good feeling that you can get from it um
i'm once again experiencing joy for no good reason it just comes
i delight in my children every day yes my patients enjoy coming to see me and i enjoy them
i'm discovering that my joy is not dependent on someone else i'm i'm discovering that i can
reconnect with a feeling of well-being even with things in my immediate experience not
being right where i need them to be i'm discovering that i can set my own tone
now it feels much better doesn't it then and as you said you can feel that there's a range in your
vibration and as you came here you came looking for some answers and and and in your powerful
words looking for the the truth for all of this and what we are powerfully wanting to say to you
in is deliberate and emphatic terms as we can give to you that what this is all about
is that you are a teacher a vibration you are a teacher of well-being and you cannot teach
that which you do not know and what you are in the process of remembering is that under
any and all conditions for no good reason you can continue to stay connected to source energy
and allow the energy that creates worlds the god force that is your source to flow through you and
that it's not anybody else's job to line up in any specific way in order to cause you to achieve that
and as you hold that place and you will more easily in other words as you say you've come a
very long way because it was your determination you want to find joy again and you are just
beginning to to tiptoe into the perimeters of that in other words there is so much more for you
it is our absolute promise to you that joy beyond anything that you've ever lived before
is just before you not a great distance before you you're right on the brink of opening to it
this place that you are currently standing in this place that you've just passed through will
give you enormous amounts of information that you can gently and lovingly offer to others
because you see this is a physical world where there are all kinds of people who are coming to us
and coming to you and wanting someone to magically make everything better and what you are as we are
teachers that it happens from the inside out you say there will be a time not very long from now
that you will see your mate even in his new current experience as a very strong partner in
helping you to come to a very powerful realization that it's going to put you in a in a more powerful
deliberate creative joyful place than you could have ever been if it had not been for all of that
thank you very much i appreciate it neither one of you betrayed the other in other words
neither one of you who have not kept your greater commitment or word to one another
imagine imagine a friend who joins you in the physical who says
i want to be your friend and i want life to always be good for you
but i see that you are weak so i will always use my strength and i will
feather your bed i will care for you in every way i will keep you from any possible difficulty
i will use my strength i will get out there and evaluate the contrast and i will get out there
and i will give birth to rockets of desires and i will grow and and feel powerful and glorious and
deliberate in my experience and i will take care of you the one who cannot grow and the one who
cannot care and the way or imagine another friend who says i see you as powerful as i i see you as
able to take care of yourself as i am able to take care of myself i see you as a powerful creator
examining contrast in the same way that i am examining contrast i do not need to cater to
you or feather your bed or take care of you or protect you in other words so many parents
they are their dominant desire is to get out there and soothe every possible situation
so that their delicate fragile children will not have to encounter anything that is uncomfortable
and we say they did not come forth wanting anyone to take care of them you came forth as powerful
creators wanting to find your own way and it's only in the discovery of your own strength
that you were ever happy you see you are never happy in the discovery of someone else's strength
only in the discovery of your own strength are you ever happy you see and this was the promise that
the two of you made that you would remind one another of the clarity of your beings you say
thank you indeed what more right here yes