Hey guys, no matter how hot
or interested in you she is
these five types of women are trouble.
Maybe you've already experienced
some of these types of troublesome ladies
let's explore.
Let's say you meet an attractive woman
who captures your attention
makes your heart beat faster
and maybe even makes you stand at attention
she comes off as sweet and ***
and you feel like you're on top of the world.
But then after she's got her hooks in you
cracks in her personality starts showing up.
But now you're confused because
you still see her as that sweet *** thing
and now you're starting to wonder
if the juice is worth the squeeze.
Of course, nobody's perfect including you and I.
So, if she's only got one
or two of these traits in a mild form
well she might still be worth considering
if and there's a big if
I’m going to share that with you
in just a moment.
But if she's got most
or all of these traits in spades
then you might want to be running for the hills.
So, if you want to save yourself
from feeling confused frustrated and exhausted
you might want to watch
for these five types of women that are trouble.
If you're new to my channel
my name is Anna jorgensen
welcome to just the tip.
So, let's get into it
and yes, some of these traits
men can have too so make sure you're watching
that you don't have any of these traits
that are kind of troublesome.
Trait number one,
she thinks she's better than you
if you meet a woman who is smarter
and or more educated than you
but holds it over you like a weapon
you might want to be wary.
Now, that's not to say all women
who are highly educated or very smart are trouble
not at all.
But if she expects you to increase your education
just for the sake of status
or worse she puts you down
for your education or intelligence
that's a big red flag.
And if she uses biting or condescending sarcasm
to make you feel bad definitely run.
Because there will definitely be a power struggle
until your self-esteem is so diminished
as to make you feel worthless
when you're really not.
You have smarts in other ways.
Two, she takes everything personally.
Now, this one is all too common
when she sees every decision you make
as an intended affront to her
she's always going to be disappointed.
Example, let's say you have to work late one day
so you cancel plans or you postpone
and instead of being understanding
she takes it personally
and accuses you of never making her a priority.
Then you feel like you have to work overtime
just to please her or she makes you a sandwich
and so you go put some mayo on your sandwich
because you like mayo.
But she then accuses you of not liking her cooking
when you just really wanted mayo on your sandwich
is that such a crime?
To her it is.
Number three,
drama queen, oh, boy.
You guys are familiar with this one.
Okay, so you know how I said in past videos
that women need to feel safe
and to be stimulated.
Well, if she's emotionally unhealthy
and doesn't know how to create
healthy stimulation in her own life
by say taking an educational course
or learning a new skill
or trying out a new hobby or whatever
if she can't manage her own stimulation
then she will turn to drama
to create stimulation.
In fact, she likes to create drama and instigate it
and then she acts like a victim.
She would definitely win the
gold medal in guilt-tripping you.
So, if the girl you're interested in
or dating or with likes to start fights
kind of out of nowhere that's a red flag.
And if the best *** you have with her
is only ever after a fight, red flag.
Along the same royalty lines
is for acting like a princess
unlike a real queen not a drama queen
who will stand by your side
and treat you like a king
and help you rule your kingdom together.
A princess just acts entitled and spoiled
she takes advantage of your generosity,
throws tantrums, and even uses the waterworks
to get away with stuff.
Key point, princess behavior
often comes from daddy issues
not bad daddy,
but too good daddy.
If her daddy always sided with her especially
when it went against mommy's opinion,
then she's learned
that she can get away with anything with men.
Number four, attention *** attention ***.
We've got an attention seeking *** in aisle six,
attention seeking specimen in aisle six.
If she's constantly
seeking attention from other men
because she says
you don't give her enough attention
red flag.
Especially if she's got nothing substantial to back it up
even worse is if she uses excessive naughty
or *** innuendo to get attention from other men
like your friends.
Example, she posts a lot of risque
pictures on Instagram and it's not her business,
she just likes the comments.
Even if she is
making a living of a selling pictures of her body.
Attention *** in aisle six.
Or how about this one,
maybe a little bit more subtle.
She wears excessively provocative outfits
when she goes out for happy hour
with her girlfriends
but not for you
attention ain't for you.
Or she acts excessively flirty
with your guy friends but brushes it off
as just being friendly or bubbly
and you're the one with the insecurity.
Now, assuming you don't actually have
unreasonable insecurity, red flag.
Now, just before I reveal the number five
troublesome trait you want to watch out for
there is one time
you might want to reconsider a girl.
If she has any of these traits
in mild form, all right.
You might reconsider
if she's able to have a mature rational
crazy word for a woman,
rational discussion about your needs,
boundaries, and expectations in the relationship
and makes a visible
concerted effort to change.
Now, key point
no one should change who they are for someone else.
But sometimes it's a good idea to change
who you are or what you do
or perhaps what you wear how you act
if it's not actually serving your life well.
But she's really got to show you a concerted effort
she may falter but if she keeps trying
then she might be worth reconsidering.
What does a concerted effort look like?
It looks like apologizing
it looks like changed behavior.
I'll give you a real life story
and then I’m going to share with you the fifth trait
that could be troublesome
and is one that I am recovering from.
All right, example, so I know a couple
who when they were first dating
she would wear what he considered *** outfits.
He told her she got mad,
but he was willing to walk away.
So, she reconsidered and decided to give it a try
she ended up not only changing her style
but she opened a classy clothing store
and became well known in the community
as a fashionist of style and class
by both men and women.
Again, never change something about yourself
that you actually really like
if they don't like it and you actually really do
and you're not just allowing your
pride or ego to get in the way
then you're probably just not a right fit.
Now, if you want to know how to ask
your girl for what you want
and get more of what you want
and less of what you don't want
you're going to want to watch my video on
how to handle conflict with an angry woman,
which also gives you a strategy
for asking for what you want actually from anyone.
All right, the last trait the perfectionist
that used to be me.
My saying used to be
if better is possible is good, good enough or perfect
yeah, but good enough I know.
Now, my saying is if better is possible
is good, good enough?
Sometimes it is
sometimes good enough is good enough.
Okay, but to the non-recovered perfectionist
her standards are so high
nothing you do is ever good enough.
She's a control freak
and always wants things to go her way
and even when you do things her way
it's still not good enough.
She nitpicks everything you do
no matter how hard you try
for example, she nags you about
putting the dirty dishes in the dishwasher,
but when you do
then she nags you that it's not done right
instead of thanking you for making the effort.
I'll tell you why this is a sneaky one
in just a minute,
but first, side tip for the ladies.
If you want more of what you want more of
you must reward all the small steps toward it.
Actually that's good for the guys too,
but women are way more guilty of not doing this.
Otherwise, he feels like it'll never be good enough
and he might as well give up in advance
rather than make the effort
and still get crapped on.
Now, side note for the guys
the reason women don't want to reward
or it's not that they don't want to,
but they instinctively don't reward
because they're afraid you'll take advantage
though you've probably
given her no reason to think that.
And another little extra just the tip for ladies
*** rewards are well appreciated by men
but what's even more appreciated
when he's doing his best to meet a need
of yours or a request of yours
is a thankful appreciative attitude
R-E-S-P-E-C-T.
Okay, but now here's why
this one is a little bit of a tricky one,
because she's just as hard on herself
if not more hard on herself for her imperfections.
So, you somehow feel
that you've got to step up
to be able to meet her impossible standards
to somehow make life easier for her.
So, definitely watch for signs
that she's judging you
but also that she's
too unreasonably hard on herself.
key point, it's healthy to have healthy standards
but impossible standards
makes her impossible to please.
Now, remember they don't teach this stuff in school
and we're all a little bit
emotionally dysfunctional
because we didn't learn how to not be.
So, just expect that
you're going to have to work through some things.
And again, if you want to know the specific
words to use to get more of what you want
and less of what you don't want
in a way that's a win-win
and will be far better received by her,
then you definitely want to check out my video
on how to have a conflict with an angry woman,
which can also be titled
how to get more of what you want from anyone.
Thanks so much for watching all the way to the end
and thanks for being here God bless.
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