Hello my wonderful friend! In today's video we are talking about five things
guys do that girls love. These things are crazy effective. Not only does this come
from my insights as a woman, because you know, that is very valuable. But in
addition to that this comes from my extensive research and my training as a
certified coach. I think what is going to surprise you the very most is how easy
these things actually are. If this is your first time watching be sure to
subscribe and ring that notification bell. My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian
dating coach for men. My specialty is helping really good guys
get the girl of your dreams so be sure to subscribe, ring that bell, and give me
a big thumbs up. Okay I just want to start by saying this is one of my
favorite things to talk about. As men, there are things that you do, these
little subtle things that you are probably completely oblivious to. You
have no idea how attractive they really are. And even if you don't do some of
these things they are incredibly easy to start implementing and they're very, very
effective. I had a quick story though I wanted to share with you real fast. Now
at first you're going to think "Where in the world is she going with this?" But
hear me out, there is a method to my madness,
I promise so when I was a little girl we had a piano that would sit in our living
room. And guys, I loved that thing. I wanted to know how to play it so bad it
like hurt inside. You know how when you're a kid and you just kind of
like idolize something and you want to do it so bad? Yeah. That's exactly how I
felt about the piano. And I would walk over to it and I would look at the keys
and I'd run my fingers across the keys and I would press the keys randomly
trying to create beautiful music. Have you ever heard a kid play the piano? It's
just like a hot mess, right? That's pretty much all I was able to accomplish, but I
loved this piano and I tried with my whole might to figure out how to make
beautiful music. Because deep down that's all I really wanted, I wanted to play
beautiful music. And I kind of stunk at it. To be perfectly
honest I totally stunk at it because I had no idea what I was doing.
Well, finally we found me a piano teacher and I started taking lessons, learning
how to play the piano. And at first it was a little bit, it's a whole new
world to look at those scribbles on the page and figure out how to, you know, make
music happen. It was a little bit of a struggle, but I kept at it and I fell
more and more in love with the piano and pretty soon I became a boss at the piano.
As a matter of fact, playing the piano became automatic to me. I could sit down,
look at any song, whether I've ever seen the song before or not, and I knew what
notes to press to make that song become reality. What once was a hot mess is
now completely automatic and beautiful. Okay. So what in the world
does piano have to do with relationships and getting girls to like you? That's
probably what you're thinking, am I right? Well, just like playing the piano,
attraction is a skill, it is something that we learn. And once we learn it it
becomes as automatic as playing the piano or even as automatic as brushing
your teeth. It becomes very, very easy. And the best news is once you know the right
skills, the right tips, it actually happens pretty fast as well. So with all
of this in mind I've put together five things for you
that guys do that girls love and these things are incredibly easy to start
incorporating into your life, they become habits and you become attractive by
default. How amazing does that sound? So with that let's get started. The first
thing guys do that girls love, this one's my favorite so I'm gonna try and get
through it without blushing, here we go. The first thing guys do that girls love
is when you show off your forearms. Usually that is done by rolling up
your shirt sleeves to just under your elbow. Yeah, that's a good look, that
should be encouraged all the time. [laughter] Okay, I tried, I tried. I couldn't get
through it without blushing, but I tried, and I feel like I should get an A for
effort. [laughter] There is just something
about it that really is very, very attractive to
women. Now if you saw this video you know that flannel shirts are something I
recommend, that are very, very attractive. Collared shirts are as well. P.S. If you
haven't seen that video check out link in the description below. So you
can certainly roll those up and show off your forearms and it's a very good life
decision. Obviously this is harder if you live in a warmer area or if it's a
warmer time of year. I have been thinking about doing a video on how to dress
really attractive in warmer weather. If you guys would like to see that be sure
to comment "SUMMER!" n the comments below and I will know to do that for you. But
yeah, basically, your forearms are amazing and she likes to see them. That's
basically number one. Number two is when guys cook. This is something that is
incredibly attractive. We kind of associate food, as humans, with safety and
being loved and being taken care of, and there's just something really attractive
about a guy who cooks. It also shows a more sensitive side and a very caring
side and that is something she wants to see. So when guys cook it is incredibly
attractive to a woman. Even if you don't feel like you are super good at cooking
right now, that's okay, anyone can learn how to cook. Especially with the internet,
learning how to cook is really, really easy. So maybe consider if you don't feel
like you're a really good cook right now, that's okay,
consider just learning a new recipe a week or something. Pretty soon you will
be a boss at cooking and that certainly will not hurt you when it comes to the
ladies. And the third thing guys do that girls love is when you can hold an
intelligent, a real, conversation with her. That is
super, super hot. Women connect by talking. We just do. And that's why you
always see a group of girls talking together, that's how we connect, that's
how we feel understood, that's how we feel we belong, that is how we connect.
And so when she can carry on a real conversation with a guy, that's very, very
attractive. This is actually one of the reasons in my course How to Get a
Girlfriend I teach so much about how to master small talk and become confident
enough to really be able to talk to her. Because the truth is, one, you
deserve to feel confident talking to women, but also that means a lot to her
and that's very, very attractive to her. So being able to hold a real
conversation with her, super hot. The fourth thing guys do that girls love is
when you are thoughtful and sensitive. If you saw this video then that probably
doesn't surprise you. If you haven't seen that video there's a link in the
description below. But I know this is something you probably don't hear a lot.
Many, many people tell guys "Well, you have to be macho and manly and feel
nothing." And the truth is, that's not attractive to women, it's just not. When
you are sensitive and kind and thoughtful and do something special for
her, those things mean the whole world to a woman. Ultimately, when a girl is
getting to know a guy, as long as she's not a toxic girl but we're not talking
about those girls today, when she's getting to know a guy she is, even if
it's on an unconscious or a subconscious level, she is asking herself what it
would be like to spend the rest of her life with this person. Makes sense, right?
That is obviously the desired end result with a relationship. So knowing
that you're a thoughtful guy, knowing that you pay attention to those
little things, knowing that you are watching out for her and paying
attention, that is so unbelievably attractive. That is one of those traits
that really makes a woman fall in love on a deeper level. And our
next thing is one of my favorites to be perfectly honest with you. And that is,
when a guy laughs out loud. Again, I know culture sometimes states that "Oh, you
know, you gotta play it cool and be super cool." And the truth is, she wants to
hear you laugh out loud. She wants to see you laugh out loud. Laughter it connects
us, laughter is always attractive, just like a smile is always attractive. As
women, laughter means a big deal to us, okay?
It helps us feel connected to a man and it's something we tend to do when we are
attracted to a man. We laugh at all his jokes, we want to have inside jokes with
him, it helps us feel connected to you. So seeing you laugh out loud is like, it's
raining sunshine guys, it is amazing. So let yourself just laugh and that is so
incredibly attractive to her. As a matter of fact, having a good
sense of humor is one of the most attractive traits to a woman, so show it.
Let her see you laugh, because the truth is, it's super hot. Now there are five
really easy ways to be more attractive to women, but would you like to know how
to make being attractive to gorgeous women as automatic as brushing your
teeth or playing the piano? Once you know the skills, that is exactly what you can
do and it doesn't take anywhere near as much time as most people think. As a
matter of fact you can finish my course in as little as a week. Be sure to check
out the link through the description below to learn more about How to Get a
Girlfriend, my online course that teaches you how to be a complete and total
heartthrob. Never again are you going to have to worry about not being good
enough or not being attractive to the type of woman you want. You will have all
the skills and tools you need up front so that you can do this in boss mode. How
amazing does that sound? Sounds pretty legit, right? So just be sure to check out
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an amazing day [blooper beep]
Alright, I just have to say I'm really
excited about this episode because I always like it when I get to talk about
things like this, it's really fun. [laughter] I'm gonna try and get through it without
blushing, but we'll see how that goes.
So with that let's get started.
[laughter] I could not think of what I was gonna say. Okay.
Number two is when guys cook. [laughter]
Yep. Okay.
The fourth thing guys do that girls love is when you're thoughtful and sensitive.
I know that that is not something you hear- Oh yeah. [singing a jingle]
Hey, yeah. that's my default when I have no idea what I'm saying. I don't know.
And I was afraid there weren't gonna be any bloopers today. They're definitely
gonna be bloopers today. Maybe. I don't know. We'll see.
Thank you so much again
my wonderful friend- [messed up] [singing a jingle] Yeah, this is turning into a bad habit [laughter]