- How to make him fall in love with you
without even him realizing what just happened.
Fulfill his needs, not his wants.
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So I bet you thought there wasn't a difference
between wants and needs but there absolutely is.
So let's talk about these differences.
What are his wants?
His wants are an ego stroke.
For example, when a man says, "I like it when she's opened
"and tells me how she feels,"
or says, "I love you" first,
or when he says: I like it when I know everything about her
and there is no mystery.
I like it when she calls and texts me more.
I enjoy it when a woman takes me on holiday.
I also like to be spontaneous
and see her at the last minute.
I love it when she cooks and looks after me.
He is not lying that when he says he likes these things
and wants woman to behave this way.
However, all of these things that he wants so badly
are just an ego stroke.
He won't ever respect love
or be with a woman who acts like this longterm.
And you are probably guilty
of doing a lot of these things yourself,
but how long did your relationship last
when you behaved this way with a guy?
Not long did it?
And if it did, you were probably taken for granted
and unhappy most of it.
So why does it happen this way?
Well, ladies, for example, I might want to eat junk food
and a box of ice cream every single day,
but will it fulfill my body's needs?
Will I feel good and be happy to continue to eat this way?
No, you will not in the longterm especially.
Ladies, it's exactly the same thing with men.
Stroking his ego may make him happy
in the short term every now and then,
but it won't make him happy longterm
and eventually it will make him lose attraction for you.
Ladies, I'm not saying to never do these things.
I'm saying do them in moderation,
only as a treat and not as a main meal.
And ladies, if you have behaved as I just mentioned,
I really recommend you to watch my video
"What to Do When He Takes You For Granted,"
which you can find just by following the link right here,
and I will also drop it down in my video description box.
Now, what are his needs?
Well, let's look at the differences between men and women.
Men have high levels of testosterone compared to women,
so we have to treat them a bit different from women.
Ladies, having more testosterone means
that he will be more likely
to go for his goals and his dreams.
Him pursuing, him hunting,
him chasing what he wants in his life.
So how can you fulfill this need?
Easy, become his goal, become a challenge,
the object of his attention and affection.
Let him come to you.
Let him pursue you.
Give him uncertainty instead of safety.
He might say that he likes a woman who approaches him
or give him safety and tries to impress and pursue him.
However, this is not what he needs.
Give him mystery, let him figure you out.
Let him put the puzzle pieces together.
Do not take that pleasure away from him
by being an open book.
Ladies, please watch my video
"How to Be a Challenge For a Guy,"
that you will find just by following the link right here,
and I will also drop it down
in my video description box below.
And yes, men do need a bit of caring too,
which is why I said, "Keep the caring as a treat only
"just don't make his ego stroke into the main meal."
Ladies, you can have that ice cream
or the chocolate cake sometimes as a treat.
Imagine eating it every day.
How will it make you feel?
Well, the same goes for him.
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So thank you so much for watching, queens.
Kisses from London.